Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
— Oscar Wilde
經(jīng)驗只是我們給自己的錯誤取的名字忘巧。
- 奧斯卡·王爾德
Knowledge is key to avoiding mistakes.
知識是避免錯誤的關(guān)鍵。
When you make a mistake, it’s best to learn from it and move on.
當(dāng)你犯錯誤時动雹，最好從中吸取教訓(xùn)剂桥，然后繼續(xù)前進(jìn)。 ?
Here’s 8 common mistakes people make.
Never assume?learning and your life purpose is all about you.
永遠(yuǎn)不要認(rèn)為學(xué)習(xí)和你的人生目標(biāo)都是關(guān)于你自己的。 ?
Remember, you are surrounded by family and friends who may be impacted by what you do.
記住扛拨，你身邊有家人和朋友，他們可能會被你的所作所為所影響举塔。?
You should live your own life as long as you are not harming anyone else.
只要不傷害別人绑警，你就應(yīng)該過自己的生活求泰。 ?
When you discover your purpose and work at it, it’s a blessing when it positively impacts the lives of those close to you.
當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的目標(biāo)并為之努力時，如果它能對你身邊的人產(chǎn)生積極的影響计盒，那就是一種祝福渴频。
Model others?who’ve had success in any endeavor and it will give you a much greater chance of success.
模仿在任何努力中取得成功的人，這將給你更大的成功機(jī)會北启。 ?
Remember, however, that you want to?model?the person but?not?become?a copy of them.
然而卜朗，請記住，你想以這個人為榜樣咕村，而不是成為他們的復(fù)制品场钉。 ?
As such, you are an individual. Learn all the good points and work them in your particular life situation.
這樣，你是一個個體懈涛。?學(xué)習(xí)所有的優(yōu)點(diǎn)逛万，并在你特定的生活環(huán)境中運(yùn)用它們。?
Don’t make your job?the only thing you work on in terms of your life purpose.
不要讓你的工作成為你人生目標(biāo)的唯一肩钠。?
Many people focus on their careers, such as doctors, teachers, or even artists and ignore the other aspects of life.
許多人專注于他們的職業(yè)泣港，如醫(yī)生，教師价匠，甚至藝術(shù)家当纱，而忽略了生活的其他方面。
You need a balance of purpose in all areas.
你需要在各個方面都達(dá)到目標(biāo)的平衡踩窖。?
For example, if you focus 100% on finding the true purpose of your career, you may suffer from burnout.
例如坡氯，如果你100%地專注于尋找你職業(yè)的真正目的，你可能會遭受職業(yè)倦怠的折磨洋腮。
Enhance your overall purpose of career, hobbies, and giving back to the community by volunteering in an area you are passionate about.
提升你的職業(yè)目標(biāo)箫柳、興趣愛好，并通過在你感興趣的地區(qū)做志愿者來回饋社區(qū)啥供。
Keep an open mind.?Try new things and meet new people.
保持開放的心態(tài)悯恍。?嘗試新事物，結(jié)識新朋友伙狐。
Don’t close yourself off to the possibility of trying something new with someone you just met.
不要把自己封閉起來涮毫，拒絕和剛認(rèn)識的人嘗試新事物的可能性。 ?
Your life’s purpose can prosper by letting things flow and not blocking them off.
你的人生目標(biāo)可以通過讓事情順其自然贷屎，而不是把它們堵死來實(shí)現(xiàn)罢防。 ?
In other words, open your self up to new possibilities, especially those you’re curious about.
換句話說，打開你自己唉侄，迎接新的可能性咒吐，尤其是那些你感興趣的。 ?
You may have heard,?“patience is a virtue,” or “good things come to he who waits.”
你可能聽說過，“耐心是一種美德”恬叹，或者“好東西只屬于等待的人”候生。
Yes, patience?is?a good thing, but some people will take this to extremes.
是的，耐心是一件好事妄呕，但有些人會走極端陶舞。 ?
The act of patience could morph into being stuck and not moving forward.
耐心的行為可能會變成停滯不前，無法前進(jìn)绪励。?
Balance it out by?taking action, pause to reflect, and then act again.
通過采取行動來平衡肿孵，停下來反思，然后再行動疏魏。 ?
Looking for your purpose?should not take months and months of thinking and doing little else.
尋找目標(biāo)不應(yīng)該是花上幾個月的時間去思考停做，而不去做其他的事情。 ?
Not everyone likes to write. Many find it hard to put together a great email or a blog post.
不是每個人都喜歡寫作大莫。?許多人發(fā)現(xiàn)很難寫好一封電子郵件或一篇博客文章蛉腌。 ?
That should not stop you from journalism and discovering your purpose in life.
那不應(yīng)該阻止你從事新聞工作，發(fā)現(xiàn)你的人生目標(biāo)只厘。 ?
If you struggle to write in a journal, take baby steps and do one sentence per day.
如果你很難寫日記烙丛，那就慢慢來，每天寫一句話羔味。 ?
When writing a sentence a day becomes easier, double it. In a short time, you’ll find yourself writing journal entries that inspire you.
當(dāng)一天寫一個句子變得更容易時河咽，加倍。在很短的時間里赋元，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)自己寫了一些能激發(fā)你靈感的日記忘蟹。
Confidence is a wonderful thing.
自信是好事。?
But, over-confidence is a mistake if telling yourself this is going to easy.
但是搁凸，如果告訴自己這很容易媚值，過度自信就是一個錯誤。 ?
Finding your life purpose takes reflection.
尋找人生目標(biāo)需要反思护糖。 ?
Without reflection, your belief system might not align with your passion and purpose.
沒有反思褥芒，你的信仰體系可能與你的激情和目標(biāo)不一致。?
Getting?overconfident?is the gateway to making mistakes and not identifying what your life purpose is.
過度自信是通向犯錯和不確定人生目標(biāo)的大門嫡良。?
With self-confidence, positive thinking is a genuinely wonderful attribute.
有了自信锰扶，積極的思考是一種極好的品質(zhì)。 ?
However, you need to guard against?exclusively using?positive thinking to come up with your life purpose.
然而皆刺，你需要注意的是少辣，不要只使用積極的想法來實(shí)現(xiàn)你的人生目標(biāo)凌摄。 ?
Imagine sitting in the lotus position, just thinking positively about purpose.
想象自己在打蓮花坐羡蛾，只是積極地思考目標(biāo)。 ?
It is not likely going to come to you.
它不太可能來找你锨亏。 ?
You need to combine the?positive?and?action?to get results.
你需要把積極思考和實(shí)際行動結(jié)合起來才能得到結(jié)果痴怨。?
A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them.
一個人必須有足夠的勇氣去承認(rèn)自己的錯誤忙干，足夠的聰明去從中獲益，足夠的強(qiáng)大去改正錯誤浪藻。 ?
John C. Maxwell
