What Makes an Acting

Before we finally do what we do, what is the core factor that decides what we will do next? I consider it as a critical thing to help strengthen our will to do what we suppose we could fulfill but actually not.

To remove this condition, we need to figure out what behind our thoughts and behaviors is controlling our life. Or should I say, it is an emergency to find the way to strengthen our will when we is in the middle of surrender.

The first means, in my view, is supposed to be a question in mind. When we wake up in the early morning for the clock, seized by the tire that is about to wipe out your morning, we need to ask a question before we lose the struggle.

There are three things to be under your consideration: possibility, necessity, and plan. Whenever we are going to make an action or decision, ask this question to yourself: Is this possible to be done?

And the answer will be "yes". It is quite easy to get up from your sack in the morning when you spring yourself to sit on the bed from lying, and then cast your cover aside and put your shoes on. All easy things. None of them should be a burden for you to take.

Then comes the second question. Is it necessary? No doubt. What a wast will it be if we come to sleep again. And the schedule we set in advance to work on this morning will have to be put off and take up the time that was scheduled for other items. In consequence, you will, in the end, see how your day has been destroyed by your huanluan plan and regret for it one more time.

After these two questions I believe you've obtained enough qingxing to support your reasonable decision and sufficient energy to do this little thing. But for the purpose of finishing your plan completely and in time, there is still a process needed. You need to make a good plan as an assistant. And that is going to be discussed in the next passage.

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