10 Signs You’re Raised By A Strong Mom
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Diane Koopman
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Quick Summary
總結(jié)
1. She always encourages you to speak your mind
1、她總是鼓勵(lì)你說出你的想法。
2. She doesn’t tell you what to think, but how to think
2、她并不告訴你思考什么间狂，但告訴你怎樣思考卷仑。
3. She tells you how important education is, no matter you’re a boy or girl
3姐浮、不管你是男孩還是女孩浩嫌，她都告訴你教育的重要性杂拨。
4. She teaches you to be your own competitor
4专普、她教你做你自己的競(jìng)爭(zhēng)者。
5. She values financial independency
5弹沽、她重視財(cái)務(wù)獨(dú)立檀夹。
6. She gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be
6、她給你自信并確信自己能成為想成為的人策橘。
7. She teaches you empathy
7炸渡、她教會(huì)你同情心。
8. She shows you how to bring people together
8丽已、她秀給你看怎樣把人們集合在一起蚌堵。
9. She shows you how to be fiercely independent
9、她秀給你看怎樣是非常地獨(dú)立沛婴。
10. She tells you either to surrender or to change it
10吼畏、她告訴你要么屈服要么改變。
A strong mom isn’t only strong on herself. She makes you strong as well, and even stronger than herself. They don’t teach you what the society teaches you. They teach you to be yourself and go for what you want. Without them, you won’t be at where you are today.
堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽不僅是她自己堅(jiān)強(qiáng)嘁灯，她也能使你變得堅(jiān)強(qiáng)泻蚊，甚至更勝于她。她們并不教給你社會(huì)要教你的東西丑婿，她們教你如何做自己性雄，并且去追求自己想要的東西。沒有這些堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽枯冈，你不會(huì)成為今天這個(gè)樣子毅贮。
Here are 10 signs you’re raised by a strong mom:
這就講一講你被一個(gè)堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽撫養(yǎng)長(zhǎng)大的10個(gè)標(biāo)志:
1. She always encourages you to speak your mind
她總是鼓勵(lì)你說出你的想法
A strong mom is honest and forthright. She teaches her children to be the same. Communication is valued and necessary in order to get her message across. You use your words and are in touch with your thoughts and feelings when you grow up with a strong mom.
堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽，誠(chéng)實(shí)而率直尘奏，她教導(dǎo)孩子也是這樣滩褥。她重視溝通并認(rèn)為這很必要，是為了能夠讓孩子充分表達(dá)自己炫加，所以當(dāng)你和堅(jiān)強(qiáng)媽媽一起長(zhǎng)大瑰煎，你就可以用自己的語言，聯(lián)系自己的思想和情感表達(dá)出來俗孝。
2. She doesn’t tell you what to think, but how to think
她并不告訴你思考什么酒甸，但告訴你怎么思考
You don’t just memorize what you read or learn, you think about it and form your own opinion. A strong mom doesn’t tell her child what to think, she teaches them how to think. You are an expert at gathering information from a variety of sources and you evaluate the information and come to your own conclusion. You are willing to learn and change your mind and aren’t afraid to ask questions. You are willing to be wrong sometimes and even to fail. It is how you learn.
你也許不記得你讀的和學(xué)的東西，但可以想到并構(gòu)成你自己的觀念赋铝。堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽不告訴孩子思考什么插勤，而是教會(huì)他們?cè)趺此伎肌?duì)于在多種資源中搜集信息，你已經(jīng)是專家了农尖，以評(píng)估這些信息析恋，并且得出自己的結(jié)論。你愿意學(xué)習(xí)并改變自己的思想盛卡，而且你不懼怕提出問題助隧，有時(shí)你也愿意出錯(cuò)，甚至是失敗滑沧，這才教會(huì)你怎么學(xué)并村。
3. She tells you how important education is, no matter you’re a boy or girl
不管你是男孩還是女孩，她都告訴你滓技，教育是多么重要哩牍。
A strong mom knows the importance of education. Without it we’ll end up like a blank paper with little to offer. And strong moms know that education isn’t just about going to an expensive school or getting good grades; it’s about paying attention, asking questions, reading and expressing yourself through strong literacy.
堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽，懂得教育的重要性令漂，沒有教育姐叁，我們就像一張白紙一樣，空無一物洗显。堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽知道教育并不是去昂貴的學(xué)校或者得到好分?jǐn)?shù)原环，而是集中注意力挠唆，提出問題，閱讀嘱吗，并通過強(qiáng)大的語言文字表達(dá)你自己玄组。
4. She teaches you to be your own competitor
她教你成為自己的競(jìng)爭(zhēng)者
Your mom has shown you by example that if you work hard and try your best, the results would be rewarding. No matter how many times you face obstacles and how often you find adversity, you keep going. Your main competitor is yourself and above all else, a strong mom wants you to be self reliant.
你媽媽舉例子給你看，如果你努力學(xué)習(xí)谒麦，或者盡力俄讹，結(jié)果總會(huì)褒獎(jiǎng)。不管你多少次面臨障礙绕德，多少次發(fā)現(xiàn)逆境患膛，你仍然繼續(xù)向前。你的對(duì)手就是你自己耻蛇，尤其是踪蹬，堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽要你信賴自己。
5. She values financial independency
她重視財(cái)務(wù)獨(dú)立
Being independent and self sufficient is a key trait of a strong mom and she instills this in her children. She will teach you to work hard and manage your own finances and affairs. In order to survive you need to achieve financial autonomy. As well as making your own money and not having to be co dependent, she will teach you how to cook and clean after yourself, how to look after your health and how to have valuable and strong relationships.
獨(dú)立臣咖，自足是堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽的主要特征跃捣，他也會(huì)把這個(gè)理念逐步灌輸給孩子。她會(huì)教你努力工作夺蛇，并管理好自己的財(cái)務(wù)事項(xiàng)疚漆。為了生存，你必須取得財(cái)務(wù)的自主權(quán)，不僅要自己賺錢娶聘，并且不必成為依賴的人闻镶，她還教會(huì)你怎樣自己做飯，清潔打掃趴荸，怎樣照顧好自己的健康儒溉，以及建立有價(jià)值的，積極的親密關(guān)系发钝。
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