1、你只是個(gè)孩子解幽,你根本不曉得你在說(shuō)什么贴见。問(wèn)你藝術(shù),你可能會(huì)提出藝術(shù)書籍中的粗淺論調(diào)躲株,有關(guān)米開朗基羅片部,你知道很多,他的滿腔政治熱情霜定,他與教皇相交莫逆吞琐,和他的耽于性愛,你對(duì)他很清楚吧然爆?但你知道西斯汀教堂的氣味嗎站粟?你沒(méi)試過(guò)站在那兒,昂首眺望天花板上的名畫吧曾雕?你肯定未見過(guò)吧奴烙? 如果我問(wèn)關(guān)于女人的事,你大可以向我如數(shù)家珍,你可能上過(guò)幾次床切诀,但你沒(méi)法說(shuō)出在女人身旁醒來(lái)時(shí)揩环,那份內(nèi)心真正的喜悅。你年輕彪悍幅虑,我如果和你談?wù)搼?zhàn)爭(zhēng)丰滑,你大可以會(huì)向我大拋莎士比亞,背誦“共赴戰(zhàn)場(chǎng)倒庵,親愛的朋友“褒墨,但你從未親臨戰(zhàn)陣,未試過(guò)把摯友的頭擁入懷里擎宝,看著他吸著最后一口氣郁妈,凝望著你,向你求助绍申。我問(wèn)你何為愛情噩咪,你可能會(huì)吟風(fēng)弄月,但你未試過(guò)全情投入真心傾倒极阅。
2胃碾、People call these things "imperfections," but they're not.That's the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds.
人們稱之為“瑕疵”,但其實(shí)不然筋搏∈樵冢“不完美”那才是好東西,能選擇讓誰(shuí)進(jìn)入我們的世界拆又。
3、You're not perfect. And let me save you the suspense.This girl you met, she isn't perfect either.But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other.That's the whole deal. That's what intimacy is all about.
你并不是完美的栏账,我也不想吊你胃口帖族。我想說(shuō)的是,你認(rèn)識(shí)的那個(gè)女孩挡爵,也不是完美的竖般,但關(guān)鍵是你們能否完美的適應(yīng)彼此。親密關(guān)系就是這么回事茶鹃。
4涣雕、Real loss is only possible when you love something more than you love yourself.
只有當(dāng)你愛一種東西勝于愛自己時(shí),才可能體會(huì)什么是真正的失去闭翩。