人的欲望是無止境的，就像女人的衣服，買了這件，總覺得又缺了那件。
Desire is restless. It's just like that woman never stops buying clothes but they are always short of one piece of desired clothing.
沒錢的時候1萬覺得很多隧甚，慢慢地，10萬渡冻、100萬也覺得很少戚扳，因為人總是在跟更高的目標攀比。
When you are really poor, 10 thousand is a big sum. But gradually you find 100 thousand or even 1 million is still a small amount because you constantly compare what you have with the higher aim.
但是族吻，很多窮人富裕了帽借，卻又不知如何花錢珠增，只有機械地買買買，買最貴的宜雀，以此展示自己今非昔比的尊貴身份切平。悲催的是，人只有在得不到或付出很大代價得到的時候才會更加開心和珍惜辐董，所以這樣的消費方式除了滿足虛榮之外并無任何快感悴品。
However, when many poor get rich, they don't know how to spend money. The only way they know is to buy the dearest object like a buying machine in order to show their now different valued identity. What's more, the sad story is always like that people tend to be happier or cherished more when things are not available or available after heavy cost is paid. Therefore, the consumption pattern of ?buying the most expensive one can provide no pleasure but vanity.
有人說，任何事都要享受過程简烘，哪怕酸甜苦辣苔严，因為等來了結(jié)果，片刻的情感波動之后孤澎，你就會發(fā)現(xiàn)一切索然無味届氢。那就尋找新的目標吧，由此覆旭，開始了永恒的運動退子，所以哲學說：變是絕對的。
Someone say that we should enjoy the process, both joys and sorrows, because after one moment of emotional vibration ?brought by the long-awaited result, we will find that nothing is interesting any more. Then we need to seek a new aim, and thus the eternal motion begins. No wonder philosophy says change is absolute.?
今天型将，和朋友討論土豪的花錢之道寂祥，都覺得最好的花錢方式就是開個公司，自己擔任總經(jīng)理七兜。這樣丸凭，既有事情可做，不會空虛腕铸，收獲尊重惜犀，帶動就業(yè)，又可以很快幫你花錢狠裹，因為公司經(jīng)營各種費用支出虽界，每月的銀行流水會自動幫你花錢。而且涛菠，萬一你有天賦呢浓恳，搞不好一不小心還大賺一筆。多好的方式巴氚怠！
Today, when discussing the best way of spending money for local tyrants, we both agree that it's the establishment of a company and assuming the general manager of the company. In this way, local tyrants can find things to do, they will not feel empty, on the contrary, they can win respect because of the employments they create. On the other hand, founding a company can help local tyrants spend money more quickly since every month the bank will automatically deduct various operating expenses from their account number. Besides, once they are business talented, maybe they can make another unexpected sum of money. So what a good way to solve all problems for local tyrants!
今天梢夯，看到馬云說：“我有錢言疗，可是沒有時間花錢，依然感覺自己很窮颂砸≡胙伲”?
Today I also read one statement of Jack Ma on the internet:" I have money but I don't have time to spend money, so I still feel myself a poor guy."
既然欲望是無止境的死姚，有錢無錢都有煩惱，那為何不找個中間狀態(tài)呢勤篮？我有錢都毒，夠花；我又沒那么有錢碰缔，有時間花账劲。中國人的中庸之道，適時而退金抡。通常人爬到一定高度瀑焦，很難再下來，懼怕虛榮心受挫以及世俗的眼光梗肝。說白了榛瓮，就是活給別人看，不敢活出真正的自己巫击，或者不知道自己真正想要的是什么禀晓。
Since human desire is endless and there are troubles for both the rich and the poor, then why not seek an intermediate state? I am rich enough to support my family financially and accompany my family physically. This is the so-called Golden Mean proposed by the Chinese saint Confucius. It's a wisdom of knowing when to slow down, or even quit yourself, because usually when people climb to a certain altitude, they are too worried about the frustration of vanity as well as worldly opinions to climb down again. To make it more simple, they just show to others and dare not live for themselves, or they even have no idea of what they really need deeply in heart.?
然而，有人骨子里就是強悍坝锰，有著雄心壯志和宏偉抱負粹懒，那么即使忙于事業(yè)，無暇花錢也無所謂什黑，因為他的內(nèi)心還是得到了極大的滿足崎淳。所以說，最重要的是你的內(nèi)心真正想要的是什么愕把，之后進行選擇拣凹，并平靜地接受和喜愛自己以及自己的選擇。
As for those who are inborn strongers with great ambitions and aspirations, even if they are too busy to spend money, it's ok for them since they can still get the huge satisfaction from work. So what's the most important is to find what you really need deeply in heart, then make your choice, finally accept and love your choice as well as yourself in a calm mood.
