很棒的提醒
[美國幼兒園給家長的備忘錄]
1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I'm only testing you.
別溺愛我撰洗。我很清楚地知道坏平，我不應(yīng)該得到每一樣我所要求的東西，我哭鬧不休其實只是在試探你伐债。
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
別害怕對我保持公正的態(tài)度灰署，這樣反倒讓我有安全感赁濒。
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
別讓我養(yǎng)成壞習(xí)慣，在年幼的此刻净宵，我得依靠你來判斷和培養(yǎng)敲才。
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly "big".
別讓我覺得自己比實際的我還渺小，這只會讓我假裝出一副和我實際年齡不符的傻樣择葡。
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
可能的話紧武，盡量不要在人前糾正我的錯誤，我會感到很沒面子敏储，進(jìn)而和你作對阻星。你私下提醒，效果會更好。
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
別讓我覺得犯了錯就是犯了罪妥箕，它會削弱我對人生的希望滥酥。
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
別過度保護(hù)我，怕我無法接受某些“后果”畦幢。很多時候坎吻，我需要經(jīng)由痛苦的經(jīng)歷來學(xué)習(xí)。
8. Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you". Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
當(dāng)我說“我恨你”的時候別往心里去宇葱。我恨的絕對不是你瘦真，我恨的是你加在我身上的那些壓力。
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
別太在意我的小病痛黍瞧。有時诸尽，我只是想得到你的注意而已。
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
別對我嘮叨不休印颤，否則我會裝聾作啞您机。
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.
我有時不能把事情解釋得很清楚，會詞不達(dá)意年局。這也是為什么我有時不能準(zhǔn)確地表達(dá)自己往产。
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
當(dāng)我問你問題的時候，請別敷衍我或者拒絕我某宪。否則我將停止發(fā)問，轉(zhuǎn)向它處尋求答案锐朴。
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
請別在管教原則上前后不一出爾反爾兴喂。這樣會讓我疑惑，進(jìn)而失去對你的信任焚志。
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
我害怕的時候衣迷，不要覺得我很傻很可笑。如果你試著去了解酱酬，便會發(fā)現(xiàn)我當(dāng)時有多恐懼壶谒。
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
別對我暗示你永遠(yuǎn)正確、無懈可擊膳沽。當(dāng)我發(fā)現(xiàn)你并非如此的時候汗菜，對我將是一個多么大的打擊。
16. Don't ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
別認(rèn)為向我道歉是沒有尊嚴(yán)的事挑社。一個誠懇的道歉陨界，會讓我和你更接近，更尊重你痛阻，感覺更溫暖菌瘪。
17. Don't forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
別忘記我喜歡親自嘗試，如果我不嘗試就寸步難行阱当，所以請你包容俏扩。
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
別忘了我很快就會長大糜工，對你來說，和我一起成長是很不容易的事录淡，但請你嘗試一下吧捌木。
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
不要忘了離開了厚愛和理解我不會茁壯成長，但是赁咙，這一點我不需要提醒你吧钮莲？
別太指望我的誠實，我很容易因為害怕而撒謊彼水。
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.
請保持身體健康崔拥，因為我需要你。
