Move with the cheese and enjoy it
你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)知道什么地點(diǎn)什么時(shí)刻就會(huì)遇到改變你一生的一件事或者一本書舅桩。就像我今天看到的這本《誰動(dòng)了我的奶酪》Who moved my cheese一樣，也像變化一樣兴想，你不確定它會(huì)什么時(shí)候到來留量，其實(shí)它一直都在窄赋，只有你做好準(zhǔn)備哟冬，用勇敢的心去面對(duì)，那樣你才能更加從容忆绰。
這是我讀的第一本純英文書浩峡，用時(shí)4小時(shí)26分。圣誕寒假错敢，在uptown?的圖書館貓著翰灾，外面飄著從早一直在下的雪，來著大姨媽稚茅，喝著保溫杯里的紅糖水纸淮，內(nèi)心滿滿的喜悅感。寫這篇讀后感的時(shí)候亚享，其實(shí)圖書館已經(jīng)關(guān)門咽块，我坐在一樓室內(nèi)的噴泉旁邊，水的聲音讓我不想再去聽歌虹蒋。讀這本書的時(shí)候按照透析方法記下了每兩頁找到的一個(gè)英文單詞糜芳，并且記錄了很多的優(yōu)美句子。但是更多的是我關(guān)于本書內(nèi)容的觸動(dòng)吧魄衅。
書中的主人公4個(gè)：2只老鼠Sniff?Scurry 2?個(gè)little people Hem ,Haw.但是確代表了不同的四個(gè)性格峭竣。不知道你會(huì)是哪種性格的呢？我想很多時(shí)候我相識(shí)scurry ,會(huì)聽話照做晃虫。但是在這之前我也有Haw?的特征皆撩，我敢于接受挑戰(zhàn)，并且快速調(diào)整哲银。你呢扛吞？
The quicker you let go of old cheese, the sooner you find new cheese.說起變化，可能大家都會(huì)避之不談荆责，尤其是在工作中的一些老人滥比，呆在舒適區(qū)太長時(shí)間，一旦有變化就會(huì)讓他們不停抱怨做院，而且會(huì)聯(lián)合同伴的力量一起抵抗盲泛，給企業(yè)的變革造成很大的負(fù)擔(dān)。在讀這個(gè)故事的時(shí)候我就特別感同身受到為什么老東家——一個(gè)產(chǎn)品100多年歷史之久的公司在4年前提出了擁抱變化键耕，這和書中講到的話語和發(fā)放如出一轍寺滚，就好似決策成看了這本書之后才制定了計(jì)劃。我也能清楚的記得擁抱變化的口號(hào)提出之后公司進(jìn)行大的變革屈雄，政策調(diào)整村视、財(cái)務(wù)收縮、裁員酒奶，大家都很惶恐蚁孔，很多人都在抵制奶赔，可是在大的趨勢(shì)下我們?nèi)匀荒芸吹椒e極鮮活的群體撐起了大半邊天。那些不去接受變化的人勒虾，最終只能選擇離開纺阔。而如今看來，經(jīng)受變化修然，并且調(diào)整心態(tài)積極融入的人就像Ham那樣笛钝，現(xiàn)在的工作如日中天。面對(duì)變化還有一些人會(huì)猶豫不決愕宋，非得等到不得不的時(shí)候才開始勉強(qiáng)接受玻靡，可是如果經(jīng)常保持一顆接受變化的心，在事情已經(jīng)變化中贝，所有結(jié)果還可以被簡單扭轉(zhuǎn)的時(shí)候?yàn)槭裁捶堑鹊綆砭薮髶p失之后才去彌補(bǔ)呢囤捻？一切要趁早。
When you stop being afraid, you feel good.有時(shí)候我們發(fā)現(xiàn)了變化邻寿，是的蝎土，我們想去改變，但是確沒有膽量绣否，我們會(huì)和自己對(duì)話誊涯，問自己在擔(dān)心什么，問自己最壞的結(jié)果是什么蒜撮。然后始終不愿意離開舒適區(qū)暴构，可是變化已經(jīng)在那里，一味像hem?那樣等在那里段磨，不接受變化取逾，覺得誰動(dòng)了自己的利益？不應(yīng)該啊苹支，那就是我的砾隅，憑什么沒有了？我就要一直等债蜜。這樣的人不就像是個(gè)巨嬰么琉用？最終只會(huì)餓死自己〔哂祝可是，親愛的奴紧，當(dāng)你決定去改變的時(shí)候特姐，你可以問問自己what would you do if you weren’t afraid?，再想一想這些恐懼最壞的結(jié)果黍氮。之前看過一個(gè)測(cè)試唐含，讓一群人把自己心里擔(dān)憂的糟糕的事情都寫下來浅浮，過了一段時(shí)間當(dāng)事情發(fā)生過后，人們對(duì)比才發(fā)現(xiàn)捷枯，他們擔(dān)心的事情并沒有發(fā)生滚秩，而發(fā)生的事情并沒有他們想象中的糟糕. What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine.所以，很多時(shí)候我們不要總給自己的心理設(shè)限淮捆，覺得未來渺茫郁油，充滿阻撓，是的未來可能是黑暗的攀痊，但是那只是因?yàn)槟憧床坏角懊娴墓饷骱推教雇╇纾圆聹y(cè)。而往往當(dāng)你克服恐懼走出去之后你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)機(jī)會(huì)就在那里等你苟径。像haw?一樣案站，他想起了自己原來是多么快樂，那時(shí)他一直在找尋cheese的路上棘街，雖然有碰壁蟆盐，但是尋找的過程總是讓他很開心≡庋常可是有了吃不完的cheese之后他就停止找尋石挂，然后就忘記了最初的快樂。你可以回想自己初心恩沽，不忘初心誊稚，方得始終。當(dāng)你不再害怕罗心，你就會(huì)心里有方向里伯，專一去做一件事，那種感覺給你帶來的動(dòng)力渤闷，是無窮的疾瓮。所以深呼吸，大膽向前走吧飒箭。
Imagining yourself enjoying your new cheese Leads you to it.當(dāng)讀到haw?想象自己周圍有吃不完的各種好吃的狼电，想象自己未來的美好時(shí)，我分明感受到這就是在時(shí)間管理課程中老師講到的愿景啊弦蹂，在幫助我們圓夢(mèng)的課程中肩碟，老師讓我們想象實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想的那一刻，越具體越好凸椿，越有畫面感越好削祈。比如我在跑馬拉松的時(shí)候，堅(jiān)持不下去，想要放棄的時(shí)候髓抑，就在想到達(dá)終點(diǎn)之后我可以完美得秀朋友圈咙崎，我完成了挑戰(zhàn)。我可以吃很多的好吃的吨拍，可以被朋友家人夸贊褪猛，可以……讓愿景來引領(lǐng)我們前進(jìn)，這就是夢(mèng)想成真吧羹饰。
其實(shí)讀完這本書中的故事還沒有結(jié)束伊滋，最后一部分，同學(xué)聚會(huì)的討論讓我受益很大严里，學(xué)到了如何把故事應(yīng)用在現(xiàn)實(shí)中新啼。確實(shí)，它不僅可以用在工作中刹碾、在處理人際關(guān)系燥撞、追求夢(mèng)想、錢財(cái)管理等等方面都適用迷帜。只是心血來潮把想法簡單記錄了下來物舒，它值得回味，值得多次閱讀戏锹，每次都會(huì)有新的發(fā)現(xiàn)吧冠胯。
謹(jǐn)以此文獻(xiàn)給自己的閱讀的第一篇英文書，然后開啟我的閱讀計(jì)劃……
The quicker you let go of old cheese, the sooner you find new cheese.
1\ Having cheese makes you happy
2\The more important your cheese is to you ,the more you want to hold on to it
3\Ife you do not change, you can become extinct.
4\ what would you do if you weren’t afraid?
5\Smell the cheese often so you know when it is getting old.
6\Movement in a new direction helps you find new cheese.
7\When you stop being afraid, you feel good.
8/Imagining yourself enjoying your new cheese Leads you to it.
9\The quicker you let go of old chesse, the sooner you find new cheese.
10\It is safer to search in the Maze, Than remain in a cheeseless situation
11\ old beliefs do not lead you to new cheese.
12\when you see that you can find and enjoy new cheese, you chage course
13\ Noticing small chages early helps you adapt to the bigger changes that are to come.
?Summary:
Change happens: to keep moving the cheese
Anticipate change: get ready for the cheese to move
Monitor change: Smell the cheese often so you know when it is getting old
Adapt to change quickly: The quicker you let go old cheese, the sooner you can enjoy new cheese
Change: Move with the Cheese
Enjoy change: savor the adventure and enjoy the taste of new cheese
Be ready to change quickly and enjoy it again& again: They keep moving the cheese
P39 They didn’t think of anything else but finding new cheese.
P45 sometimes, Hem, things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those tomes. That’s life! Life moves on. And so should we.
P49 He knew sometimes some fear can be good ,when you are afraid things are going to get worse if you don’t do something. It can prompt you into action .Bute it is not good when you are so afraid that it keeps you from doing anything.
P55 But he was discovering what nourished his soul.
P57 The more clearly he saw the image of himself enjoying new Cheeses, the more real and believable it become. He could sense that he was ging to find it. Imaging yourself enjoying your new cheese. Leads you to it.
P60 The Quicker you let go of old cheese. The sooner you find new cheese.?
P61 Just realizing he was not letting his fear stop him, and knowing that he had taken a new direction, nourished him and gave him strength.
P63 What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine. The fear you let build up in your mind is worse that the situation that actually exists.
P63 It was natural for change to continually occur, whether you except it or not.?
?His old thinking had been clouded by his worries and fears.
P65 when you change what you believe, you change what you do.?
You can believe that finding new cheese will help you and embrace the change.
P68 Noticing small changes early helps you adapt to the bigger changes that are to come.
P70 The fasest way to change is to laugh at your own folly_then you can let go and quickly move one.
P71 He reflected on the mistakes he had made in the past and used them to plan for his future.
P71 He needed to adapt faster, for if you do not adapt in time, you might as will not adapt at all.
He had to admit that the biggest inhibitor to change lies within yourself, and that nothing gets better until you change.
Hem had to find his own way, beyond his comforts and past his fears . No one else could do it for him or talk him into it.
He knew it was safer to be aware of his real choices than to isolate himself in his comfort zone.
P80 How many here are afraid of change? How about a show of hands?
How many here think other people are afraid of change?
P82 It’s not just that they moved the cheese but that the “cheese”has a lift of its own and eventually runs out. Competitor technological change.
P88 the new cheese is a new relationship with the same person. Repeating the same behavior will just get you the same results.
P89 Instead of changing job, I should be changing the way I am doing my job.
P91 A change imposed is a change opposed.
P92 After they got past their fear. They told me the best thing was realizing that there was new cheese out there just warning to be found.
P18 Everyone knows that not all changes is good or even necessary. But in a world that is constantly changing. It is our advantage to learn how to adapt and enjoy something better.
Move with the cheese.
