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Diane Koopman
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6. She gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be
她給你自信并確信自己能成為想成為的人菊碟。
You know who you are and what you stand for. Having a strong mom gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be. You wear what you want and aren’t afraid of expressing yourself. You seek out knowledge by taking an interest in the world around you. Strong moms encourage their children to travel, meet new people, have diverse experiences and to never be afraid to try something new.
你知道你是誰啸胧，你知道為什么而奮斗俐填。有一個(gè)堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽能給你自信成為自己想成為的人。你穿自己想穿的衣服，不害怕表達(dá)自己份蝴。你通過對(duì)周圍世界的興趣而尋求知識(shí)驹尼，堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽鼓勵(lì)孩子去旅行，去交新朋友晚顷，去獲取多樣的體驗(yàn)而從不害怕嘗試新事物峰伙。
7. She teaches you empathy
她教會(huì)你同情心。
One of the strongest traits in people who have been raised by strong mothers is their capacity to feel and display empathy. Moms love their children fiercely, but this maternal protection and affection extends out to anyone who comes into theirs and their children’s lives. Strong moms teach their children to be kind and display humanist qualities.
被堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽撫養(yǎng)大的孩子该默，具有的最強(qiáng)的特征之一瞳氓，是他們的感知能力和顯現(xiàn)出的同情心。媽媽們當(dāng)然非常愛自己的孩子权均，但這個(gè)母性的保護(hù)和愛延伸到任何一個(gè)開始她們自己及她們孩子的生活的人顿膨。堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽教會(huì)孩子慈愛和善良的人文主義素質(zhì)。
8. She shows you how to bring people together
她展示給你看怎樣把人們集合在一起叽赊。
The importance of family, friendship and community is highlighted when you are raised by a strong mom. She shows you that you need other people and they need you. The value of reciprocity and generosity is exemplified and you learn that with strong alliances and connections, you will thrive.
當(dāng)你有一位堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽撫育你長(zhǎng)大恋沃，你會(huì)非常重視家庭、友誼和公共團(tuán)體的重要性必指，她會(huì)讓你看到人和人之間的相互需要囊咏，互惠互助和慷慨大方的價(jià)值觀是你的榜樣，通過強(qiáng)大的同盟者的聯(lián)合塔橡，你會(huì)茁壯成長(zhǎng)梅割。
9. She shows you how to be fiercely independent
她展示給你看怎么樣是非常地獨(dú)立。
Whilst needing others and relying on the resilience of good relationships, you are self sufficient and can get by in the world without needing others’ approval or permission. You can think for yourself and make your own decisions. You are a leader and will take others under your wing, just like how your mom looked after you.
盡管在某段時(shí)間你需要?jiǎng)e人和依賴好的親密關(guān)系的復(fù)原葛家，但你的自給自足可以讓你走過全世界而無需別人的批準(zhǔn)和許可户辞。你可以自己想好了以后自己做決定，你可以成為一個(gè)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)者將別人收入你的羽翼下癞谒，就像媽媽曾經(jīng)怎樣照顧你底燎。
10. She tells you either to surrender or to change it
她告訴你要么屈服要么改變刃榨。
Being raised by a strong mom means you have a broadened mind. You don’t make value judgements and your propensity to learn, empathize and stay resilient requires you to be accepting of most situations. You don’t complain. You either truly accept the?circumstances or you change them.
被一個(gè)堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的媽媽撫育長(zhǎng)大意味著你有寬闊的思維大腦。你不做價(jià)值審判双仍，你傾向于學(xué)習(xí)枢希，同理心，保持適應(yīng)性朱沃，這些都需要你能接受很多不同的情況苞轿。你不抱怨，你要么確實(shí)接受環(huán)境逗物，要么你改變環(huán)境搬卒。
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