Hard work makes aristocracy
God rewardsthe diligent.
Life is a massof desires. If you can't satisfy your desires, you will suffer, and if you aresatisfied, you will be bored. Life swings between pain and boredom,Schopenhauer said.
生命是一團欲望懂傀,欲望不能滿足便痛苦趾诗,滿足便無聊,人生就在痛苦和無聊之間搖擺,叔本華如是說恃泪。
事實上郑兴,越是努力地想要控制一切,讓生活的方方面面都在我預設(shè)的“正軌”上贝乎,就越容易被周圍的一切反控制情连,陷入失控和暴怒。
In fact, theharder you try to control everything and keep all aspects of life on my preset"right track", the easier it is to be controlled by everything aroundyou, out of control and fury.
你希望每天都是藍天白云览效,那陰晴不定的天氣就控制著你的心情却舀;
You want bluesky and white clouds every day, the cloudy and sunny weather controls yourmood;
你想控制別人對你的態(tài)度,他的一個眼神锤灿、一句話都能控制你的情緒挽拔;
you want tocontrol other people's attitude towards you, his eyes and words can controlyour mood;
你想控制孩子聽話,他的每一個自我意識的萌動都讓你焦慮不堪……
you want tocontrol your child's obedience. Every initiation of his self-consciousnessmakes you anxious.
真正的教育但校,不是注滿一桶水螃诅,而是點燃一把火。
Real educationis not filling a bucket of water, but lighting a fire.
真正的教育状囱,是讓孩子看得清腳下的路术裸,并擁有抵達遠方的能力。
Real educationis to let children see the road under their feet and have the ability to reachafar
愛情浪箭,從來不是生活的全部穗椅。
Love is never the whole of life.
你可以全心全意地去愛一個人,但千萬不要把自己全部的時間和精力都放在男人身上奶栖。
You can lovesomeone with all your heart, but don't devote all your time and energy to men.
有些男人控制欲特別強,會要求你不要再和朋友聯(lián)系门坷,不要再有其他活動宣鄙,每天陪在他身邊就好。
Some men arevery controlling and will ask you not to contact your friends or any otheractivities, just stay with him every day.
對于這樣的要求默蚌,你一定要果斷拒絕冻晤。
You mustresolutely refuse such a request.
因為一旦你真的做了,時間一久绸吸,他馬上就膩了鼻弧。
Because onceyou really do it, after a long time, he will immediately get tired of it.
而最后的結(jié)果,一定是你失去朋友锦茁,失去自己攘轩,也失去愛情。
And the endresult must be that you lose your friends, you lose yourself, and you loselove.
感情想要長久码俩,就一定要給彼此留下個人空間度帮。
If arelationship wants to last, it must leave personal space for each other.
每一段路,只要還有不甘心,它就還沒有走到盡頭笨篷。