Life is filled with regrets. Ask anyone around you what their regrets are and they usually have no difficulty coming up with many items on their“regret list.” And for some reason our twenties are ripe for a field of regrets.

　　人生總是充滿遺憾屡拨。問問你周圍的人他們有沒有遺憾的事情湃崩，他們會輕而易舉的列出一大堆“遺憾清單”惶我。由于某些原因，20多歲最容易犯錯的年紀(jì)冠骄。

　　Perhaps it’s because as we get older we look back on that period of adulthood as the height of freedom and autonomy. As move into middle age, we look back and wish that we had made better choices and taken more opportunities. Here’s a list of things that we regret not doing in our 20s.

　　也許是因為隨著年齡的增長伪煤，當(dāng)我們再次回顧那段時光，會發(fā)現(xiàn)那是一段充滿自由和獨立的時光凛辣。隨著我們步入中年抱既，我們經(jīng)常希望：要是我們能再有更多選擇的機會多好啊扁誓！以下就列舉了一些如果我們在20來歲沒有做就會讓我們后悔的事情：

　　1. Traveling more

　　多旅行

　　I regret not travelling more, and so does nearly everyone that I have asked. Before kids, and mortgages and marriages, when our commitments and expenses were lower, the opportunities for travel were much greater, but for some reason many of us thought we’d always have time for travel later.

　　我后悔沒有到更多的地方去旅行防泵，而且?guī)缀跷覇栠^的每個人都會這樣說。在有孩子之前蝗敢、在抵押貸款和結(jié)婚之前捷泞，在我們需要承擔(dān)的責(zé)任和花銷較少時，正是旅游的大好機寿谴，但是由于種種原因锁右，我們總覺得我們以后會有更多的時間去旅行。

　　We dreamed of visiting the pyramids of Egypt, surfing off the Hawaiian coast, dining at a Parisian café, drinking espresso in Rome, trekking through the rainforest, and so much more. Sadly, many of us never made these journeys and the opportunity passed us by.

　　我們夢想過去埃及看金字塔讶泰，在夏威夷海邊沖浪咏瑟，在巴黎的咖啡館共進(jìn)晚餐，在羅馬品嘗香濃的咖啡痪署，徒步穿越熱帶雨林等等諸如此類的計劃码泞。可悲的是惠桃，大部分人都沒有付諸行動浦夷，只是看著機會白白溜走。

　　2. Investing early

　　早投資

　　How many times have we kicked ourselves for not starting our 401Ks辜王，in our twenties, for not putting our excess cash in long term investments, for not investing in our future early. No matter how much we try, we can never get back the head start that we missed. Playing catch up in our 40’s and 50’s is very difficult.

　　多少次回想我們都恨不得踢自己一腳：為什么不在20來歲就開始401K（小編注：美國的一種養(yǎng)老金制度）計劃，為什么沒有將多余的現(xiàn)金用于長期投資罐孝，為什么沒有早早的為我們未來投資呐馆。不管我們再怎么努力，錯過的時光都不會重來了莲兢。等到我們四五十歲的時候再奮起直追已為時已晚了汹来。

　　3. Being more responsible with spending

　　更合理的安排支出

　　In order to invest in our retirement or save for that down payment, we would have needed to make wiser financial spending choices. Things like buying or holding on to that perfectly reliable used car, instead of splurging on the new model…because we could, eating out less and saving for a house instead, buying fewer shoes and purses and clothes and paying off student loans sooner. So many saving opportunities lost, money spent on tangible things, instead of on the future.

　　為了退休后的投資或房子的首付，我們需要更合理的理財改艇。比如說買一輛不錯的二手車收班，而不是把錢浪費在新款車型上……我們也可以減少外出就餐，攢錢買房子谒兄，少買點鞋子和衣服摔桦，提前還清助學(xué)貸款。這么多的攢錢機會都錯過了，我們用錢換來了很多實實在在的物品邻耕，卻沒有更多關(guān)注我們的未來鸥咖。

　　4. Better planning

　　更好的規(guī)劃人生

　　I regret not focusing more on where I wanted to go in life, what I wanted to do, who I wanted to be and what it would take to get there. With some more planning in our twenties, we’d be further ahead in our 40s and perhaps a bit happier as well.

　　我后悔我沒有仔細(xì)思考我的人生道路，我想要做的事情兄世，我想成為一個什么樣的人以及如何才能實現(xiàn)啼辣。如果在20多歲的時候我們能更好的規(guī)劃人生，我們在40多歲的時候就會更上一層樓御滩，也許還會感覺到更幸福鸥拧。

???????5. Seizing more experiences

　　更多的人生體驗

　　I wish I had learned to ski and paint, speak Italian and do the Tango. I regret not living somewhere else before settling down. Others have said they regret not pursuing their hobbies or learning to sky dive or mountain climb. I prefer to stay on the ground, but I do regret not learning more, not trying new things that are hard to fit into the life of a forty something working wife and mother.

　　我多希望我以前學(xué)會了滑雪、畫畫削解，會說意大利語富弦，會跳探戈。我后悔在安定下來之前沒有在別的地方生活過钠绍。很多人也都和我一樣后悔沒有持之以恒的培養(yǎng)自己的愛好舆声，沒有學(xué)跳傘，沒有去爬山柳爽。我確實更喜歡務(wù)實媳握，但也很后悔沒有去學(xué)更多的東西，沒有嘗試新事物磷脯，這些事物已經(jīng)無法再融入一個40歲的全職妻子加母親的生活中了蛾找。

　　6. Living a more active lifestyle

　　更積極向上的生活方式

　　The bodies of youth are wasted on the young… I wish I had run a marathon before my knees ached, that I had biked more, hiked more, and took spinning classes when my legs were stronger. I regret not joining a softball team or volleyball league. We don’t often realize that we have squandered our physical abilities until things start aching and creaking.

　　年輕的時候，我們肆意的揮霍著我們的青春活力……我多想在我膝關(guān)節(jié)疼痛之前能跑場馬拉松赵誓，多騎騎自行車打毛、多走走看看，在腿腳強健的時候多騎騎動感單車俩功。我后悔沒有參加壘球社團(tuán)或排球聯(lián)盟幻枉。總是等到體力透支病痛來襲诡蜓，我們才意識到年輕時鍛煉的可貴熬甫。

　　7. Making more friends

　　交更多的朋友

　　I regret not reaching out more, putting more effort into creating a tribe of support that would carry me through more difficult times. We socialize sure, but many of us don’t put enough importance on building deep and lasting friendships. Some do, many don’t and wish they had.

　　我后悔沒有更多的伸出手去，沒有更努力去結(jié)交那么一伙兒可以陪我度過更多艱難時光的朋友蔓罚。我們確實也有交際椿肩，但是大多數(shù)人并沒有把重心放在建立更深更持久的友情上面。一些人做到了豺谈，但是還有很人卻沒有郑象，他們希望當(dāng)初曾為友情努力過。

　　8. Pursuing a more meaningful career

　　追求一份更有意義的職業(yè)

　　Many of us wish we had taken more career risks, opted for meaning over money, pursued the career path we wanted instead of what we were expected to do or simply following the path that was laid out before us. How much better to have explored our options and pursued meaningful work in our twenties than to have spent 20 years doing something we don’t love.

　　大部分人都是聽從別人的期待去工作或者按照別人鋪好的路去走茬末，而不愿冒更多的職業(yè)風(fēng)險和遵循我們的內(nèi)心去工作掙錢厂榛。比起20多年一直從事自己不喜歡的工作，能在20多歲時自己選擇并去追求一份更有意義的工作是多么的好啊噪沙！

　　Life is good; don’t misunderstand. Few of us walk around every day pining for our youth, at least I hope not, but we do occasionally look back with a wistful sigh and wish that we planned more, lived more, and stretched ourselves more when we had the freedom and energy to do so.

　　毋庸置疑炼彪，生活是美好的。很少有人每天四處走走緬懷我們的青春正歼，但是我們確實會偶爾若有所思的邊嘆氣邊回憶：多么希望當(dāng)我們身心自由和精力旺盛的時候辐马，能有更多的計劃、更多的活法去擴展自己局义。