30歲溪胶，我結(jié)婚了。我確實很想結(jié)婚稳诚，彷佛孤獨漂泊的一個俠客哗脖，想要有一個溫暖的小家，想有個人對自己噓寒問暖扳还，想有一個人共同抵御生活的潮涌才避。
I know people who graduated at 21 and didn't get a job until they were 27.
有的人21歲畢業(yè)，到27歲才找到工作氨距。
I know people who graduated late at 25 and they found work immediately.
有的人25歲才畢業(yè)桑逝，但馬上就找到了工作。
I know people who never went to university, but found what they love at 18.
有的人沒上過大學衔蹲，卻在18歲就找到了熱愛的事肢娘。
I know people who found a job straight out of college making decent money, but hate what they do.
有的人畢業(yè)就找到好工作呈础，賺很多錢舆驶，卻過得不開心。
I know people who took gap years and found their purpose.
有的人選擇間隔年而钞，去尋找自我沙廉。
I know people who were so sure about what they would do at 16, that they changed their minds at 26.
有的人在16歲就清楚知道自己要什么，但在26歲時改變了想法臼节。
I know people who have children but are single, and I know people who are married but had to wait for 8 to 10 years to have children.
有的人有了孩子撬陵，卻還是單身。有的人結(jié)了婚网缝，卻等了10年才生孩子巨税。
I know people in relationships who love someone else.
有的人身處一段感情，愛的卻是別人粉臊。
I know people who love each other but aren’t together.
有的人明明彼此相愛草添，卻沒有在一起。
So my point is everything in life happens according to our time, our clock.
我想說的是扼仲，人生中的每一件事都取決于我們自己的時間远寸。
You may look at some of your friends and think that they’re ahead of you, maybe some of them you feel are behind, but everything happens at their own pace.
你身邊有些朋友也許遙遙領先于你。有些朋友也許落后于你屠凶，但凡事都有它自己的節(jié)奏驰后。
They have their own time and clock and so do you.
他們有他們的節(jié)奏，你有你自己的矗愧。
Be patient.
耐心一點灶芝。
At age 25, Mark Cuban was a bartender in Dallas. 庫班25歲的時候還在酒吧做酒保。
It took till 32 for J.K.Rowling to be published for Harry Potter after being rejected by 12 publishers.
在被拒12次之后，JK羅琳到32歲才出版了哈利波特夜涕。
Ortega launched ZARA when he was 39.
Ortega 到39歲才創(chuàng)辦了ZARA颤专。
Jack Ma started Alibaba when 35.
馬云35歲才建立了阿里巴巴。
Morgan Freeman got his big break at 52.
摩根佛里曼到52歲才迎來他演藝事業(yè)的大爆發(fā)钠乏。
Steve Carell only got his break after40 years old.
Steve Carell 40歲才紅栖秕。
Virgin was started by Richard Branson at 34.
Richard Branson 34歲才創(chuàng)辦維珍航空。
Getting your degree after 25 is still an achievement.
25歲后才拿到文憑晓避，依然值得驕傲簇捍。
Not being married at 30 but still happy is beautiful.
30歲沒結(jié)婚，但過得快樂也是一種成功俏拱。
Starting a family after 35 is still possible and buying a house after 40 is still great.
35歲之后成家也完全可以暑塑，40歲買房也沒什么丟臉的。
Don't let anyone rush you with their timelines.
不要讓任何人擾亂你的時間表锅必。
Because as Einstein said, “ Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that’s counted truly counts.”
因為愛因斯坦曾經(jīng)說過：并不是每一件算的出來的事事格，都有意義，也不是每一件有意義的事搞隐，都能夠被算出來驹愚。
And this is the most important thing, I want you to be able to create meaningful, purposeful fulfilling lives for yourselves and learn how to use that to make an impact and a difference in the lives of others.
這才是最重要的事，我希望你們可以創(chuàng)造屬于自己的充滿意義的人生劣纲，我希望你們可以創(chuàng)造屬于自己的充滿意義的人生逢捺。學會用這些去影響點亮他人的生活。
That will be true success.
這才是真正的成功癞季。?
