Yesterday I using langlang talk with Skype, it just like talk with a new friend, we begin with student in university, major, internship, then we talk national holiday, travel, part time job, hobby, she play guitar!!!Then, the end of the convencation. She make everything goes fluency, I don't have to feel embrace to continue, it just goes well.
Today I talk with Amy, she is from Australia as well, 25years old. I prepare some questions which I am interested in. We talk some daily life staff at first, then go to the question I have prepared. Amy and Skype they both didn't come to China before. I thought there are many Chinese in Australia, but Amy didn't talk with Chinese face to face. Maybe culture, maybe life circle that we have less chance to deep understand each other.
She told me that in them country, parents would also remind child to get married, but actually it is more about the person itself.
I asked her view about life should be, she said mixed simple and exciting things, which remind me one word - balance, I thought things can only be one of two side, but it is not coin, it can be part a and part b, part c Maybe. marriage as well, sometime May feel bored, then go and find or try something interesting, keep self alive, adjust when feel not good enough.
The question about personality, one is don't bother people, like don't send people message 5 min or less if they didn't reply. leave enough time for them.
I also ased how to hang out. movie, shopping, coffee, bar or cook at hoom, there are many choice.
It is not as fluency as yesterday, that we have no idea what to say sometimes, it maybe good for me that I have to talk with different type of people, not only the outgoing one.