最近閱讀了一篇來(lái)自Quora的文章,標(biāo)題為:“If you want to follow your dreams, you have to say no to all the alternatives”
這篇文章給我蠻多啟發(fā)于样,它完全契合我的現(xiàn)狀首昔。
People never want to do one thing. We want to do?all?the things. We simultaneously want to exercise?and?to learn Spanish?and?to go out for pizza.?
我的確如此———從未專心的只去做一件事笼恰,想同時(shí)做一切感興趣的焰轻,想同時(shí)學(xué)習(xí)英語(yǔ)京闰、學(xué)習(xí)考研專業(yè)知識(shí)考蕾、學(xué)習(xí)證券礼仗、學(xué)習(xí)理財(cái)吐咳、學(xué)習(xí)第三外語(yǔ)。
The more directions you’re being pulled in, the less distance you’ll travel.
目標(biāo)越多元践,最終都無(wú)法實(shí)現(xiàn)韭脊。
Beware your idle wants. Watch out for ‘other things that you also want’. They will feel comforting, harmless, and automatic. They are deadly.One new direction will quarter what you can accomplish.
我想做的事情,看似無(wú)害单旁,但它們卻是相當(dāng)致命的沪羔,每增加一個(gè)目標(biāo),將會(huì)相應(yīng)分散我的注意力象浑,我為其他目標(biāo)而努力的投入必定相應(yīng)減少蔫饰,實(shí)現(xiàn)其他目標(biāo)的周期將會(huì)無(wú)限延長(zhǎng)。相反愉豺,如果我將自己非常有限的時(shí)間與精力篓吁,全部投入到目前最重要的目標(biāo)當(dāng)中,那么我將會(huì)以最快的方式實(shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)蚪拦,走向成功杖剪。
You will?always?want to attempt more than you can achieve. Unfortunately pulling yourself in too many directions is the single quickest way to ensure failure. And putting your all into a single direction is the quickest way to ensure success.
寫作至今,不同的階段驰贷,總會(huì)被不同的問(wèn)題所困擾盛嘿,從以往的文章中也能看出端倪(之前多數(shù)圍繞學(xué)習(xí)方法、人生選擇括袒、態(tài)度等主題進(jìn)行寫作)次兆。這篇文章寫作之前,關(guān)于現(xiàn)階段學(xué)習(xí)目標(biāo)問(wèn)題锹锰,其實(shí)我進(jìn)行過(guò)短暫思考类垦,然而也只是拋出了問(wèn)題,最終未形成行之有效的方法與結(jié)論城须。在我偶然讀到這篇文章時(shí)蚤认,真是醍醐灌頂。那些看起來(lái)很美妙糕伐、有益的目標(biāo)砰琢,它們卻是致命的,每增加一個(gè)目標(biāo),都會(huì)減緩我完成其它目標(biāo)的速度陪汽。
總結(jié):確立現(xiàn)階段最重要的目標(biāo)训唱。
Put it off. Anything which isn’t top priority now can be done optimally later. Mark Zuckerberg was smart to start Facebook first and?then learn Chinese. Your goals are the same, you’re just usually too attached to them in the moment to notice.
寫作背景:事情果然比想象中難多了,Blog創(chuàng)建以來(lái)尚未上傳一篇文章挚冤,總感覺事情那么多况增,總是做不完,時(shí)間完全不夠用训挡,其實(shí)我也在思考澳骤,時(shí)間真的不夠用嗎?并非時(shí)間不夠用澜薄,而是給自己定了太多目標(biāo)为肮,無(wú)法集中注意力,才最終導(dǎo)致什么都做不完肤京,什么都做不好颊艳。專注的做好最重要的事情!
任務(wù)清單:
1忘分、英語(yǔ)棋枕。盡快提高英語(yǔ)水平。聽說(shuō)讀寫妒峦!
2重斑、考研專業(yè)知識(shí)。
3舟山、Blog寫作绸狐。
現(xiàn)階段只需將時(shí)間精力投入到上述三個(gè)目標(biāo)即可!
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