The Master says, “At fifteen, I was bent on learning. At thirty, I established myself in society. At forty, I was no longer disorientated. At fifty, I was aware of what was preordained by Heaven. At sixty, nothing was strange to my ear. At seventy, I was able to follow my heart without going beyond the boundaries of accepted behavior.”
周末和朋友喝茶椒舵,四十出頭的人,因?yàn)樯馍弦恍┳児誓ピ瑁坏絻赡昃尤灰杨^發(fā)花白碗啄,形容憔悴,談起中間經(jīng)歷的事稳摄,由不得人不驚疑地圓睜了近視的眼睛稚字,感嘆不至于此吧?生活是一程漫長(zhǎng)的旅途厦酬,小勝憑術(shù)胆描,大勝由德。有人歲月靜好仗阅,有人負(fù)重前行昌讲。祝福他未來一切都好。愿諸君都能謹(jǐn)慎交游霹菊,培心養(yǎng)德剧蚣,俯仰無愧支竹。
鑿壁偷光:出自晉·葛洪《西京雜記》:“匡衡字稚圭;勤學(xué)而無燭鸠按;鄰舍有燭而熾不逮礼搁;衡乃穿壁引光;以書映光而讀書目尖÷猓”原指西漢匡衡鑿穿墻壁引鄰舍之燭光讀書。后用來形容家貧而讀書刻苦瑟曲。
曼德拉曾經(jīng)說過:“如果天空是黑暗的饮戳,那就摸黑生存;如果發(fā)出聲音是危險(xiǎn)的洞拨,那就保持沉默扯罐;如果自覺無力發(fā)光的,那就蜷伏于墻角烦衣。不要習(xí)慣了黑暗就為黑暗辯護(hù)歹河,不要為自己的茍且而得意,不要嘲諷那些比自己更勇敢熱情的人們花吟。我們可以卑微如塵土秸歧,不可扭曲如蛆蟲”。
什么是低情商的行為衅澈?答:“始終要在言語上勝過別人键菱。” 你見過的情商最高的行為是什么今布?” ——“即使是對(duì)最熟悉经备、最親切的人,仍然保持尊重和耐心险耀。