????當(dāng)你選專業(yè)時(shí)儒拂,明明喜歡的是文科色鸳,但是面對理科的好就業(yè)见转,如何選擇?在工作后咏雌,雖然工作待遇還行校焦,但燒腦又繁瑣统倒,并不是自己喜歡的工作,面對年齡逐漸增加房匆,越來越焦慮,擔(dān)心自己一輩子都只能做不喜歡的事情井氢,跳槽又會帶來工資下降岳链,工作不穩(wěn)定,說不定兜兜轉(zhuǎn)轉(zhuǎn)又回到起點(diǎn)掸哑,那應(yīng)該選擇跳槽抓緊時(shí)間尋找自己熱愛的事業(yè),還是選擇繼續(xù)堅(jiān)持厌蔽?
? ? 那么是選擇:應(yīng)該做還是喜歡做摔癣?我自己也遇到過很多次這樣的選擇,既選擇過應(yīng)該做择浊,也選擇過喜歡做,但后來都讓我痛苦叉瘩,于是現(xiàn)在做出反思:兩者并不是對立的粘捎,要喜歡應(yīng)該做的事情危彩。選擇應(yīng)該做的泳桦,并嘗試從中找出樂趣,毫無樂趣就應(yīng)盡早放棄灸撰。
????每年高考參加學(xué)科競賽的人數(shù)不少,他們放棄假日完疫、娛樂债蓝、參加課外補(bǔ)習(xí),向往高工資而選擇學(xué)習(xí)計(jì)算機(jī)的人也越來越多饰迹,我認(rèn)為他們選擇了應(yīng)該做。學(xué)科競賽能給高考加分锹淌,計(jì)算機(jī)能帶來高收入赠制,但他們花費(fèi)大量時(shí)間精力去做一件自己可能永遠(yuǎn)無法找到樂趣的事情,不知道等他們回頭看時(shí)憎妙,是否會為自己浪費(fèi)的時(shí)間而后悔。
丘吉爾有篇文章談到了對工作與興趣愛好的見解褥符,如下:
“一個(gè)人要想真正感到幸福和平安抚垃,至少應(yīng)有兩三種愛好,而且都比較實(shí)際鹤树。到了晚年才開始說:“我會對這個(gè)或那個(gè)產(chǎn)生興趣”,已沒有用了曲伊。這種愿望只能加劇精神緊張。一個(gè)人可能會獲得與其日常工作無關(guān)的某些課題的淵博知識岛蚤,而沒有從中得到什么實(shí)益或?qū)捨啃概础8赡闼矚g的事是沒有用的,你得喜歡你所干的事赚哗。泛泛地說,人可以分為3類:勞累至死的人贿讹、憂慮至死的人扩所、無聊至死的人朴乖。對于流汗出力干了一周苦活的體力勞動者來說,讓他們在星期六下午再踢足球或打壘球是不合適的买羞;同樣,對于為嚴(yán)肅的公務(wù)操勞或煩惱了6天的政界人士期丰、專業(yè)人員吃挑、商人來說,在周末再讓他們?yōu)楝嵤露鴦幽X子和憂慮也是無益的舶衬。”
原文:
To be really happy and really safe, one ought to have at least two or three hobbies, and they must all be real. It is no use starting late in life to say: 'I will take an interest in this or that.' Such an attempt only aggravates the strain of mental effort. A man may?acquire great knowledge?of topics unconnected with his daily work, and yet get hardly any benefit or relief. It is no use doing what you like; you have got to like what you do. Broadly speaking, human beings may be divided into three classes: those who are?toiled to death, those who are worried to death, and those who are bored to death. It is no use offering the manual labourer, tired out with a hard week's sweat and effort, the chance of playing a game of football or baseball on Saturday afternoon. It is no use inviting the politician or the professional or business man, who has been working or worrying about serious things for six days, to work or worry about trifling things at the weekend.