Everyone is afraid of failing. It hurts our ego, finances, relationships and our vision of who we are. Here’s the thing though, you never get to take a swim with the big fish if you don’t take that first leap. The key is to ask yourself key questions before you jump!
每個人都害怕失敗鳄炉。因為那會很傷自尊墅诡、不利于經(jīng)濟收入成榜、不利于感情、還會有損我們對自己的認識意荤，這些事很困難啊片，要是你不能邁出第一步，你永遠都無法像魚一樣自由的遨游于大海玖像。在這之前問問自己這些重要的問題才是關(guān)鍵紫谷。
What Would You Attempt If You Knew You Could Not Fail?
要是你明知自己可能會失敗，你還會愿意嘗試嗎捐寥？
Think big, wild and fun! Where would you go? Who would you connect with? What venture would you pursue? Every decision has the potential for failure, but dreaming about the amazing opportunities that you could make or take helps guide you towards your future decisions.
盡可能的發(fā)散自己的思維笤昨，你會去向哪里？你會聯(lián)系誰握恳？你更傾向于利用那種風(fēng)險瞒窒？你的每個決定都可能蘊含著風(fēng)險，但是幻想一下那些可能會帶你走向美好明天的好機會吧乡洼。
What If I Fail – How Will I Recover?
萬一不成功--我要怎么做才能重振旗鼓崇裁？
Failure is inevitable if you take a multitude of risks. Think about learning to ride a skateboard. The first time you get on the board you are a bit wobbly. In fact, you will probably wipe out more times than you can keep count, but eventually you will get the hang of it and be riding around with ease. The thing about falling is that you have to know how. You roll with it instead of letting yourself crash flat onto the pavement and you start to get back on the board not letting fear get hold of you. When you are taking a risk you plan for a failure and how you will negotiate your way back into the game.
在眾多的風(fēng)險面前，失敗是不可避免的束昵。想想學(xué)滑板的過程吧拔稳，第一次踏上滑板時，你不能掌握重心锹雏。實際上壳炎，在你掌握重心之前你肯定會失敗很多次，但是，最后你總會掌握竅門匿辩，最終運用自如腰耙。關(guān)于失敗，你得明白要怎么去做铲球。是你在控制著滑板挺庞，而不是讓滑板帶著你滑到人行道上去，你開始學(xué)著戰(zhàn)勝自己的恐懼稼病、找到滑滑板的訣竅选侨。當(dāng)你的計劃有失敗的風(fēng)險時，你將如何自處然走，如何掌握全局援制。
What If I Succeed?
要是我成功了呢？
Success is often the real reason people don’t take risks. We are afraid of our own power, abilities, and strengths and how that will rock the boat in our current lives. What we are afraid of isn’t our success, but the unknown. Your success will bring about new and exciting challenges that you can’t possibly predict.
成功往往是在人們認為那個風(fēng)險是自己無法承受的時候就來到了芍瑞。我們不相信自己的力量晨仑、自己的能力、自己的優(yōu)勢拆檬，也害怕那些風(fēng)險會完全的改變我們目前的生活洪己。我們害怕的不是成功，而是對未來的未知性竟贯。成功會帶來你無法預(yù)知的全新挑戰(zhàn)
“We fear things in proportion to our ignorance of them.” Christian Nestell Bovee
“我們會害怕很大程度上是由于我們的無知答捕。”---Christian Nestell Bovee
What’s Truly Worth Doing?
真的值得那樣做嗎屑那？
Options! That is often what stops us from taking a risk – too many good things in life to do! You have to just choose something and move forward. You can make a list of the pros and cons of each idea, but eventually you have to choose and not regret the decision that you made. Taking a risk is better then being in the forever pattern of wondering what to do.
又是一道選擇題拱镐。選擇經(jīng)常讓我們放棄了冒險的機會---生活中很多美好的事都沒法去嘗試。你只能做出選擇持际，然后在你所選擇的這條路上前行痢站。針對每個意見你可以將各自的優(yōu)缺點列出來，但是到最后选酗，你還是得做出你的選擇阵难，并且不要為自己做出的決定感到后悔。抓住機遇才是更好的選擇芒填，然后就在一直思考要怎么做的過程中讓自己不斷前行呜叫。
What Went Right In This Failure?
這次失敗后要怎么補救？
Since failure in life is inevitable, if we do anything, it is important to reflect on what went right. Those are the things that you will keep when you take your next risk. Just like when you got on that skateboard and fell off, you quickly figured out what was working while you were riding down the path and you refine that over and over letting what didn’t work go. That refinement and reflection prepares you for your next leap!
生活中殿衰，不管做什么事朱庆，失敗往往都無法避免，反思下次要怎么做才是正確的就顯得尤為重要了闷祥。當(dāng)你下次在遇到這種問題的時候娱颊，這些經(jīng)過反思得出的東西就能讓你避免做出一些不恰當(dāng)?shù)男袆影了小＞拖衲阍趯W(xué)滑板摔倒時那樣，只有當(dāng)你摔倒了箱硕，你才能很快明白要怎么做才會做的更好拴竹，在一次又一次的摔倒之后你就會知道哪些事是不應(yīng)該那樣做的。為你下次的進步多準備一些這樣的經(jīng)驗剧罩。
What If I Didn’t Care What People Thought?
要是我不在乎別人的想法呢栓拜？
Thinking about what your parents, friends and family think is often what keeps us back from taking a risk on something we are passionate about. If your risk doesn’t impact them financially or their security it doesn’t matter what they think. People often don’t move forward because they are afraid someone is going to make fun of them or think they are crazy or stupid. Don’t stop yourself from living your dreams because of someone else’s opinion. At the end of your life you don’t want to regret doing what you really wanted to do.
想想那些一直支持我們做自己喜歡的事情的父母、朋友惠昔、家人幕与。要是你的決定不會影響到你的經(jīng)濟，也無關(guān)乎安全問題镇防，那就不要在意別人的想法啦鸣。人們停滯不前的原因就是害怕被別人嘲笑，害怕被別人當(dāng)做傻子来氧、蠢蛋诫给。不要因為別人的看法而停下追尋夢想的腳步。在生命的最后饲漾，你才不會因為沒有做到自己想做的事情而覺得后悔蝙搔。
What If I Don’t Have All The Answers?
對于這些問題缕溉，要是我都沒有答案呢考传？
You never will. It is that simple. You can prepare, plan and scope out your future with as much caution as you like, but you are not ultimately in control of everything. Life happens and it is so much better when you throw a little caution to the wind and ride with it!
你絕不會那樣的！這些問題都很簡單证鸥。盡管你不可能完全控制你未來生活的發(fā)生發(fā)展僚楞，但你可以準備好、計劃好枉层、只要你想泉褐，你也還可以仔仔細細的構(gòu)思屬于你的未來。只要你小心翼翼地御風(fēng)飛翔鸟蜡，生活總是能朝著好的方向發(fā)展的膜赃。
