Qiu's Rhetoric（42）

　　Ma Xiaoqiu:Selection is greater than efforts

　　在微信朋友圈里常骋倌停看見(jiàn)這樣一句話：＂選擇大于努力＂庆聘，我認(rèn)為這句話很有道理斥扛。一個(gè)正確的選擇桦山，是走向成功的必然因素供炎。但是怎樣才能真正地做出正確的選擇逢慌，這才是問(wèn)題的關(guān)鍵所在帘睦。

　　In WeChat's circle of friends,I often see this sentence:"Selection is greater than efforts."I think this sentence is very reasonable.One correct choice is an inevitable factor in the direction of success.But how to make the right choices is the key to the problem.

　　每個(gè)人都會(huì)面臨很多選擇袍患，如：考學(xué)、擇業(yè)竣付、戀愛(ài)诡延、成家等等。然而在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中古胆，我們常常經(jīng)歷十有八九不如人意的事情肆良，我們的選擇時(shí)常出現(xiàn)意想不到的好的或者是不好的結(jié)果，這是為什么呢逸绎？

　　Everyone faces many choices,such as:school,career,love,family,and so on.However,in real life,we often experience things that are not likely to be satisfactory.Our choices often have unexpected good or bad results.Why is this?

　　我認(rèn)為選擇惹恃，其一需要智慧力。無(wú)我棺牧、利他是一種智慧巫糙，這一點(diǎn)說(shuō)之容易做之難，許多人在＂我執(zhí)＂颊乘、＂我見(jiàn)＂升起之后就全然不顧及別人的感受和利益参淹，這時(shí)的私欲和膨脹欲，為自己今后的道路又設(shè)置了重重障礙乏悄，但當(dāng)事人卻全然不知浙值，這就是＂所知障＂的必然結(jié)果。用利他的方式而獲得他人的信任和擁護(hù)才是智慧的選擇檩小。其二开呐，需要功德力。專(zhuān)一规求、守信是建立功德力最起碼的道德標(biāo)準(zhǔn)筐付，一個(gè)破壞了自身信譽(yù)的人是根本沒(méi)有立足之地的。其三阻肿、需要褔報(bào)力家妆。樂(lè)善好施，助人為樂(lè)冕茅，凡事都為別人著想，這是獲得福報(bào)力最為有效的辦法。

　　I think the choices needs first is intellectual power.Selflessness,altruism are a kind of wisdom.And this is easy to say,but difficult to do.Many people do not take into account the feelings and interests of others after the"paranoia"and"own opinion"rise.At this time,their desires and inflated desires set up the obstacles for his future road,but they themselves are completely unaware of these.This is the inevitable result of the"knowledge barrier."To gain the trust and support of others in an altruistic way is the choice of wisdom.Second,it requires merit.Specificity and trustworthiness are the minimum moral standards for the establishment of merit,and a person who has undermined his own credibility has no place to live at all.Third,it needs blessing efforts.To be charitable,to help others,and to think of others for all things is the most effective way to obtain good fortune.

　　我們當(dāng)下所承受的不好的結(jié)果姨伤，都是我們起心動(dòng)念所造就的哨坪；我們所擁有的好的回報(bào)，都是我們當(dāng)下正確的所思乍楚、所想当编、所行而獲得的。

　　The bad results that we suffer now are the result of our mind and thoughts;The good things we have got in return are what we correctly think,consider,and do right now.

　　2017年7月2日馬小秋分享

　　Ma Xiaoqiu Shared on July 2,2017