? ? ? ? ? ? ? The First Point of Life
Mr. Paulo Coelho wrote in his book "the Alchemist ", At a certain point in our lives, we loose control of what's happening to us,and our lives become controlled by fate. That's the world's greatest lie.
Recently I figured out that it's very easy to lose control of life. When the Children grow old enough, they have to learn many things for living . One of my friends told me that her younger sister's daughter, a student in grade 6, had six other lessons after school.? If this occurred ten years ago, I would thought it was crazy. But now, I have become apathetic. I was astonished after counting with my fingers the related number of my little son's task. It is seven. My little son is in grade 5. You can't imagine this is very common among his classmates.
City Children have to face these pressure. They lose control of what's happening to them. Under the name of love,their lives are arranged by the worried and greedy adults. We load too much on their weak backs. Day by day, they're limited imperceptibly. After constantly training, they are capable of obtaining some skills and gaining some honour.?
I don't know what to say about it, because I feel guilty and fidgeted for leading him to learn so many. Is he treated as an acrobats who plays almost ten balls at one time ? or the animal performers in the zoo? His heart is? tired and he has less time to yearn,or to fulfill his personal legend.
I seldom would rather stop this silly game. When i want to unload some , other traditions persuade me not give up so easily. The child will obtain? more persistence and courage after overcoming the difficulties. So I am confused. On the other hand, he really performance well and has the Interest on each subject.
Actually we should not fear of the unknown when we're capable of achieving what we need and want. Our life stories and the history of the world were written by the same hand. We need not learn too much since we haven't enough time. Our only obligation on this world is to realize our personal legend.
So I realized it's? the first point that my son lost? control of his life. The less is the more. I think I have sensed something. I am ready to change.
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生命中的第一個節(jié)點
保羅奎艾略在他的《the Alchemist 》書中寫到，在我們生命的確定時刻希俩，我們失去了對生活的控制纫雁，我們的生命被命運所左右。這就是世界上最大的謊言祈纯。
近來我發(fā)現(xiàn)我們的生活很容易失去控制。當孩子們長到足夠大時叼耙，他們開始不得不學習一些生存技能腕窥。我的一個朋友告訴我說，她妹妹的女兒筛婉，一個小學六年級的學生簇爆，有六個興趣班。這要是發(fā)生在十年前爽撒，我一定認為這是瘋狂的舉動入蛆。但是現(xiàn)在，我已經(jīng)很淡然了匆浙。當我扳著手指頭數(shù)數(shù)我小兒子的興趣班時安寺，我被驚到了。他的興趣班有七個首尼，他小學五年級挑庶。你想像不到言秸，這種現(xiàn)象在他同學中很普遍。
城市的孩子不得不面臨這樣的壓力迎捺。他們對發(fā)生在自己身上的事情失去了控制举畸。借以愛的名義，他們的生活被焦慮而又貪心的父母所安排凳枝。他們瘦弱的肩膀上承受了太多壓力抄沮。漸漸地，他們的生活不知不覺中被限制住岖瑰。經(jīng)過持續(xù)的培訓叛买，他們會獲得一些技能與一定的榮譽。
但我卻不知該說什么才好蹋订，我為讓孩子學習這么多東西而感到內(nèi)疚與不安率挣。他是否被當成了手上同時玩十個球（學校的語數(shù)英科，加上外面的六七個興趣班）的雜耍藝人露戒？還是被訓練成了動物園中表演的動物椒功？他的心太累了，很少有時間去渴求并實現(xiàn)自己的天賦智什。
我也極少愿意停下這看似愚蠢的游戲动漾。當我想卸下一些負擔時，傳統(tǒng)觀念就會勸說我荠锭，不要這么輕易放棄旱眯。經(jīng)過克服重重困難，孩子會變得更加有意志力與勇氣节沦。于是键思，我不知如何是好础爬。另外甫贯，他確實對每個課都保有興趣并且還學得不錯。
事實上看蚜，當我們有能力獲得我們想要的叫搁，我們就不應該對未知充滿恐懼。我們的生命與世界的歷史是由同一只手所寫就供炎。我們不必學得太多渴逻，因為我們也沒那么多時間。我們在世上的唯一使命音诫，就是實現(xiàn)我們的個人天命惨奕。
所以，我意識到我的兒子正處于對生活失去控制的時刻竭钝。少就是多梨撞，我想我已經(jīng)感受到了雹洗，并準備好做出改變。
