Something that you want to do,you will find some ways to come true it. Even though it is different with the first way you prepare, while the result is same.
Please don't limit by the different rules that limit you to find the true people of yourself.
Once you addicted to be a person who is not truly yourself, the painful will gradually hurt your mind and mental until it destroys you.
When I heard the author's opinion about you can be yourself rather than to obey some rules which limit and stop you to be yourself. Maybe we need to think we should be a person with everyone expected or to be a true person just yourself.
It is an meaningful opinion.