The life is a succession of test. What struck me most about "Lady Chatterley's Lover" is the spirit of resistance of women to the status quo of their fate, the transformation of the being itself from a rigid robot to a real woman with flesh and blood, with a warmth and a glow of humanity.What Connie gives up is not a husband, she gives up the fame, the money and the life of pleasure that everyone is so desperate for. What Connie gains is not a man either, but a remnant of her natural, primal nature that remains in spite of the destruction of modern civilization, and a deep desire to live an ordinary life and explore the unity of mind and body.
? ? The line "What is the one thing that lasts forever in married life? What is the one thing that can really sustain two people for the rest of their lives?" It made me ponder for a long time. I think it is responsibility. The essence of marriage is cooperation and win-win, the comfort of being together without being tired. I still believe that in a complex and chaotic world, relationships are the strongest bulwark. The real choice should be to see through the complexities of human nature and still choose true love with determination. It is braver to do one's best in love than to wait and see. I hope that every woman will have a hysterical love and a heartfelt marriage.
? ? 人生步步都是考驗。《查太萊夫人的情人》最打動我的地方是女性對命運現(xiàn)狀不滿的抗爭精神，實現(xiàn)了本體自身從僵硬的機器人向有血肉钾军，有溫度昵时，散發(fā)人性光輝的真真正正的女人的蛻變氯哮〈赏埽康妮舍棄的不是一個丈夫即寡，她舍棄的還是人人都趨之若鶩的名譽修然、金錢笛钝，以及深深厭惡的享樂生活°邓危康妮得到的也不是一個男人玻靡，她得到的是現(xiàn)代文明摧毀下依然殘余的一絲自然、原始的本性中贝，以及深深向往的平凡生活囤捻，探索實現(xiàn)身心統(tǒng)一的兩性關(guān)系。
? ? 作品中那句“在婚后生活中邻寿，有什么是永恒的東西蝎土？真正能夠支撐兩個人一直走下去的是什么？”讓我沉思良久绣否。我想是責任誊涯。婚姻的本質(zhì)是合作共贏蒜撮，是一種相處不累的舒適感暴构。我仍堅信在復雜紛亂的世界里跪呈，感情是最堅固的堡壘。真正的選擇應(yīng)該是看透人性的復雜之后取逾，仍然去堅定地選擇真愛耗绿。在愛里拼盡全力比躊躇觀望的人更勇敢。希望每位女性都會有一段歇斯底里的愛情和肝膽相照的婚姻砾隅。
