停止?jié)M足別人的期待煮嫌，因?yàn)檫@是你自殺的唯一方式笛谦。你在這里不是要滿足別人的期待的，而且也沒有任何人要來滿足你的期待昌阿，不要成為別人期待的受害者饥脑，也不要讓任何人成為你的期待的受害者，這就是我所說的個(gè)體性懦冰。
尊敬你自己的個(gè)體性灶轰，并且尊敬別人的個(gè)體性。不要去妨礙別人的生活刷钢，也不要允許任何人來妨礙你的生活笋颤。唯有如此，有一天你才會(huì)成長至靈性的闯捎。
否則椰弊，有百分之九十九的人就只是在自殺，他們的生命除了是慢性自殺瓤鼻，其他一無所是秉版。滿足這個(gè)期待, 滿足那個(gè)….有時(shí)候它是父親的期待, 有時(shí)候它是母親的期待，有時(shí)候它是太太的茬祷，先生的清焕，然后小孩的期待——他們?nèi)加兴诖Ｈ缓笫巧鐣?huì)祭犯，傳教士秸妥，政客。
我們身邊的每個(gè)人人都在期待沃粗。然后可憐的你在這里粥惧，一個(gè)可憐的人——而整個(gè)世界都在期待你做這個(gè)做那個(gè)。而你無法滿足他們所有的期望最盅，因?yàn)樗麄兪敲艿摹?/p>
在滿足每個(gè)人的期待的過程中突雪，你已經(jīng)發(fā)了瘋, 然而你并沒有滿足哪個(gè)人的期待。沒有人開心涡贱。你迷失了咏删，浪費(fèi)了，但是沒有人開心问词。那些無法對自己感到開心的人是無法開心的督函。無論你做什么，他們總是會(huì)找出方法對你不開心，因?yàn)樗麄冮_心不起來辰狡。
幸阜孢叮快樂是一門人們必須去學(xué)習(xí)的藝術(shù)。它與你的作為或不作為無關(guān)搓译。與其去討好悲柱，不如學(xué)習(xí)幸福快樂的藝術(shù)些己。
Stop fulfilling expectations of others, because that is the only way you can commit suicide. You are not here to fulfill anybody's expectations and nobody else is here to fulfill your expectations. Never become a victim of others' expectations and don't make anybody a victim of your expectations.
This is what I call individuality. Respect your own individuality and respect others' individuality. Never interfere in anybody's life and don't allow anybody to interfere in your life. Only then one day you can grow into spirituality.
Otherwise, ninety-nine percent of people simply commit suicide. Their whole life is nothing but a slow suicide. Fulfilling this expectation, that expectation...some day it was the father, some day it was the mother, some day it was the wife, husband, then come children - they also expect. Then the society, the priest and the politician.
All around everybody is expecting. And poor you there, just a poor human being - and the whole world expecting you to do this and that. And you can't fulfill all of their expectations, because they are contradictory.
You have gone mad fulfilling everybody's expectations. And you have not fulfilled anybody's. Nobody is happy. You are lost, wasted, and nobody is happy. People who are not happy with themselves cannot be happy. Whatsoever you do, they will find ways to be unhappy with you, because they cannot be happy.
Happiness is an art that one has to learn. It has nothing to do with your doing or not doing. Instead of pleasing, learn the art of happiness.
