你一直未能達(dá)成愿望的八個(gè)原因

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You’re satisfied with mediocrity.

滿足于平庸

We all receive messages from many sources: parents, friends, churches, movies, TV shows, the news… messages that tell us we should be nice, well-behaved consumers who are satisfied with mediocrity and don’t try to stray too far from it. But this doesn’t mean that YOU have to be satisfied with mediocrity.

我們受到來自多方面的信息:父母、朋友群井、教堂蒂培、電影投慈、電視節(jié)目银择、新聞....這些信息都表示我們應(yīng)該做得很好,滿足于平庸匕坯,行為端正的我們不應(yīng)該偏離正軌掠抬。但是這并不表示你必須得滿足于平庸。

You say “I can’t.”

你覺得“不行”

These two words, and their cousins “I have to,” should be eliminated from all languages everywhere. These are loser words. Victim words. As soon as you think or say “I can’t,” before you’ve even gotten to “because,” you’ve already given all of your power away, and the more words you put after “because,” the faster your power is fleeing from you.

這兩個(gè)字绍载,以及它的近義詞“必須”就應(yīng)該從全世界的語言文字中消亡诡宗。那是屬于失敗者的詞匯。在你思考“為什么”之前击儡,只要你想要打退堂鼓或是說出了“我不行”的話塔沃,在斗志上你就已經(jīng)輸了,“因?yàn)椤敝蟮脑~語太多阳谍,你的斗志失去的就越快蛀柴。

Replace “I can’t” with “I could if I wanted to.” Replace “I have to” with “I am doing this because…”

想說“我不行”的時(shí)候就對(duì)自己說“只要我想,我就一定可以”矫夯。想說“我必須要這樣..”的時(shí)候就對(duì)自己說“我這樣做是因?yàn)?...”鸽疾。

You complain about never getting what you want.

你總是在抱怨你從未得到過你想要的

Every time we want something, we are also keenly aware of its absence. As Abraham says in this short video, “Every subject is really two subjects.” There is the problem, which is the lack of what you want. For instance, the lack of money — and there is the solution, which is what you want — more money.

每次我們想要某件東西的時(shí)候,我們很清楚地知道我們沒有得到训貌。就如亞伯拉罕的微視頻的提到的那樣制肮,“每件事物都有兩面〉莼Γ”都會(huì)有你想要但又得不到的這種問題出現(xiàn)豺鼻。比如說,缺錢-----解決的辦法就是款慨,得到你想要的---賺到更多的錢儒飒。

Instead of joining in your friends’ conversations about being poor, lonely, fat or sick, excuse yourself and go daydream for five minutes. What would it be like to be rich? What kind of car would you drive? What kind of house would you live in? What would you do together? What would you talk about? If you had a perfect body, what would you wear? How would other people respond to you? What would your perfect job feel like?

不是和朋友談?wù)撠毟F、孤單檩奠,為你自己找借口约素,讓自己做做白日夢(mèng)。應(yīng)該想想怎樣才能做一個(gè)有錢人笆凌?你應(yīng)該開那種車圣猎?你會(huì)住什么樣的房子?你會(huì)怎么做乞而?你們會(huì)談?wù)撔┦裁此突冢恳巧聿暮芎茫銜?huì)穿什么樣的衣服?別人會(huì)怎么評(píng)價(jià)你呢欠啤?你最滿意的工作是什么樣地荚藻?

You hate rich / skinny / successful / healthy / happy / attractive people.

你討厭富有的/瘦得/成功的/健康的/快樂的/有吸引力的人

Jealousy is a colossal waste of time and energy. Worse, it keeps you from getting what you want, because if you get rich, a great-looking body, or a relationship that curls your toes… you’re going to look a whole lot like the very people you hate. And then what are you going to do, hate yourself? That’s pretty messed up!

嫉妒是一件既浪費(fèi)時(shí)間又浪費(fèi)精力的事情。不僅如此洁段,它還會(huì)讓你得不到你想要的应狱,因?yàn)槿绻阆胍兊酶挥校胍墟玫纳聿撵羲浚环萃昝赖膼矍?...,你看起來就會(huì)像你所討厭的那種人疾呻。那么接下來你會(huì)怎么做呢?討厭你自己写半?剪不斷理還亂岸蜗!

Instead of hating these people, study them! They’ve figured out how to get what you want! If you can figure out how they got it, and you do the same thing, then you can have it, too.

與其討厭這些人,還不如像他們學(xué)習(xí)叠蝇!他們就是你的榜樣璃岳!要是你能知道他們是如何做到的,照著做了之后悔捶,你也能擁有那些铃慷。

“When the success of another makes your heart sing, your resistance is gone, and your own success soars.”– Abraham Hicks

“當(dāng)你能為別人的成功而高興的時(shí)候,抵觸情緒消失不再蜕该,屬于你的成功也不再遙遠(yuǎn)犁柜。”----亞伯拉罕仙咚穑克斯

You only talk about it / haven’t actually done anything about it / think reading about it is enough.

你只是說說而已/實(shí)際上什么都沒有做過/認(rèn)為想想就夠了

Don’t get me wrong; dreaming, reading, talking is great! All of these actions make you feel super inspired, and this place of inspiration is the best platform from which to launch inspired, productive action.

不要理解錯(cuò)了赁温。有夢(mèng)想坛怪、閱讀淤齐、交流是很不錯(cuò)的!這些行為都會(huì)讓你倍受鼓舞袜匿,這些都是能將你的奇思妙想變成高效的行動(dòng)更啄。

If you’ve found a perfect diet, a perfect fitness routine, a perfect person, a perfect job, a perfect business opportunity, act! You may never get this opportunity again! Don’t wait until Sunday because it’s a new week. Throw caution to the winds, and take that first step. If you’re hesitating, what’s holding you back? Is it that…

要是你找到一種適合自己的飲食方式,一種適合自己的鍛煉方式居灯,認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)你覺得很不錯(cuò)的人祭务,一份滿意的工作,一個(gè)不錯(cuò)的機(jī)會(huì)怪嫌,那就立即行動(dòng)起來吧义锥。你不會(huì)再有這樣的機(jī)會(huì)了。不要等到星期天岩灭,因?yàn)檗D(zhuǎn)眼就是另一個(gè)新的開始拌倍。仔細(xì)觀察風(fēng)向,抓住機(jī)會(huì)。要是你感覺猶豫柱恤,那么是什么在拖你的后腿数初?是不是.....?

You’re afraid to suck.你害怕失敗

Remember, everyone was a beginner: Olympic athletes, top-notch musicians, even you. Remember your first day at work? That deer-in-the-headlights feeling? Remember how many mistakes you made? But you didn’t remain a beginner, did you? You got better at what you were doing.

記住每個(gè)人都可能是開拓者:奧林匹克運(yùn)動(dòng)員梗顺、一流的音樂家泡孩、還有你。還記得你工作的第一天嗎寺谤?還記得那種心跳不止的感覺嗎仑鸥?還記得你做錯(cuò)了多少事嗎?但是你不會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)新手矗漾,對(duì)吧锈候?你得熟悉你以前做過的事情。

Babies aren’t born with ripped, perfect bodies, fabulous relationships, or checking accounts full of dollars. Self-made millionaires, entrepreneurs, musicians, bodybuilders, married people — everyone had to start from ground zero. And in the beginning, everyone sucked. They started businesses that folded. They tried diets and training programs that didn’t work. They got involved in horrible relationships. Thomas Edison “failed” 10,000 times before he came up with a light bulb that worked. If you try something and it doesn’t work, try something different. But don’t give up your dream.

孩子不是生下來就什么都會(huì)敞贡,也沒有姣好的身材泵琳,沒有良好的人際關(guān)系,也沒有存款很多的支票賬戶誊役。白手起家的百萬富翁获列、企業(yè)家、音樂家蛔垢、健身員击孩、已婚人士---每個(gè)人都是從零開始的。起初鹏漆,每個(gè)人都不容易巩梢。一手經(jīng)辦的生意黃了,嘗試的飲食方法艺玲、訓(xùn)練技巧都沒效果括蝠,在一段感情中沉淪。湯瑪斯 愛迪生在電燈試驗(yàn)中經(jīng)歷了1000次“失敗”饭聚。要是你努力過了忌警,但是沒能取得成功,換種方法再試試秒梳。不要放棄法绵。

You think getting what you want happens overnight.

你認(rèn)為在一夜之間就能得到你想要的任何東西

Do you know what happens to most people who win the lottery or lose lots of weight in a short period of time? They spend all of the money, they put the weight back on, and they wind up back — or worse off than — where they started. Being an overnight success is like being plunged into the deep end of a pool without learning how to swim first.

你知道在那些中了彩票,減掉很多斤的人們身上近期發(fā)生了什么嗎酪碘?他們花光了所有的積蓄朋譬,減掉的重量有反彈了,他們又回到了原點(diǎn)---或者比之前的情況還遭兴垦。一夜之間的成功就像是沒有學(xué)過游泳的人徙赢,第一次就被扔進(jìn)游泳池的深水區(qū)庭呜。

Once you’ve decided that nothing is more important than your dreams, don’t give up. Stick with it. The payoff will be the manifestation of your dreams, your ability to inspire others to manifest theirs, and, believe it or not, taking the whole human species with you to the next level. You can do it.

要是你認(rèn)為你的夢(mèng)想是最重要的,那么就不要放棄犀忱。堅(jiān)持下來募谎。你的付出總會(huì)有回報(bào),鼓勵(lì)他人也能讓他人的付出有收獲阴汇,不管你是否相信数冬,你都能讓人類向前一步。你可以做到的搀庶。

You decide it’s too hard and quit before you get what you want.

在得到你想要的東西之前拐纱,你認(rèn)為太難了就選擇放棄

There’s no doubt about it; manifesting your dreams can take a lot of hard work. Whether your dream is starting a business, being in a long-term relationship, having a great-looking, great-feeling body, or changing your outlook on life, sometimes you have to make sacrifices to get there.

毫無疑問,實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想要經(jīng)歷很多困難哥倔。不管你的夢(mèng)想是創(chuàng)業(yè)秸架,是發(fā)展一段長(zhǎng)久的感情,有一個(gè)靚麗的外表咆蒿、有一個(gè)自己滿意的身材還是改變自己的生活狀態(tài)东抹,為了實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想,有時(shí)候總得犧牲點(diǎn)什么沃测。

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