2017年7月24日
Habit 6 Synergize協(xié)同增效
今天進入到第六個習慣的學習。Synergize(協(xié)同增效)是什么意思呢摆霉?
Synergy:整體?the whole>部分的綜合?the sum of its parts.
Synergy:value the differences
to?respect?the differences,
to build on?strengths,
to compensate for?weakness.
協(xié)同增效認為整體大于部分之和拾因,尊重彼此的差異媒吗、加強彼此的優(yōu)點、彌補彼此的缺點从藤,不要把不同的意見當成壞事冷冗。不同的意見代表了不同的觀點守屉,試著從更開放的角度惑艇,拋棄成見蒿辙,去理解不同的觀點拇泛,共同尋求最佳解決方案。結(jié)果通常會出乎意料的令人滿意思灌。
其實在自然界中我們都可以看到協(xié)同增效的也影子俺叭,比如如果把兩棵植物種的很近,它們的根就會纏繞在一起泰偿,反而會提高土壤的質(zhì)量熄守,兩棵植物都能比被分開時更加茁壯地成長。一加一大于或者等于三耗跛。
那么從自然界轉(zhuǎn)到我們?nèi)祟惿鐣心卦U眨瑢嶋H上家庭生活是協(xié)同增效的很典型的例子。一個男人和一個女人把一個孩子帶到世界上來這本身就是協(xié)作增效的產(chǎn)物调塌。協(xié)同增效的精髓就是尊重差異晋南,取長補短。
The very way that a man and a woman bring a child into the worle is synergistic .The essence of synergy is to value differences ---to respect them, to built on strengths, to compensate for weaknesses.
男女和夫妻間的生理差異顯而易見羔砾,那么社會负间、智力和情感方面的差異呢?不是也可以創(chuàng)造出新的生活形態(tài)和環(huán)境嗎?
Synergistic Communication
所謂協(xié)同增效的共同就是敞開心扉,接受一切新的可能性姜凄、新的可行方案甚至古怪的想法政溃,同時自己也要貢獻自己的看法。參與的雙方都會獲得更深刻的洞見态秧,這個彼此學習董虱,彼此激勵的過程將會形成良性循環(huán),從而獲得更進一步的洞見屿聋,學習和成長空扎。
作者在這里分別以自己的課堂教學和商業(yè)領域的親身經(jīng)歷為例,來說明協(xié)同增效怎樣使教學狀況處于瀕臨混亂邊緣的一堂課變?yōu)榇蠹一バ藕献鞯囊惶谜n润讥,怎樣使充滿敵意的商業(yè)會議轉(zhuǎn)變成大家坦誠交流转锈,彼此合作的新面貌。
作者在這里列舉了一個令人深刻的例子楚殿。?二戰(zhàn)?之后撮慨,美國命David Lilienthal接管原子能委員會。他召集了一群很有影響力的社會精英為之工作脆粥。
這些背景各異的人都是各個領域的領軍人物砌溺,都有無比堅定的信念,面對繁重的工作日程变隔,都迫不及待地要開始工作规伐。但是David Lilienthal卻用了幾個星期的時間來建立情感賬戶。他讓這些人先花時間彼此了解匣缘,比如其他人的興趣猖闪、希望鲜棠、目標、顧慮培慌、背景豁陆、信念以及想法等。為此吵护,他承受了很多批評盒音,被指責為浪費時間。這群人果然相處得十分融洽馅而,彼此非常坦率祥诽,相互尊重,即便意見不一瓮恭,也首先是真心實意去努力理解對方原押。
協(xié)同增效的態(tài)度就是,If a person of your intelligence and competence and commitment disagrees with me, then there must be someting to your disagreement that I do't underatand,and I need to underatand it.You have a perspective ,a frame of reference I need to look at.
如果你不同意我所說的偎血,那表示我并不了解你不同意的部分诸衔,而我需要去了解這個部分,我需要了解你所持的觀點颇玷。
下面這張圖說明了信任度與溝通層次之間的聯(lián)系笨农。
低層次的溝通源自低度信任,其特點是人與人之間互相提防帖渠,其結(jié)果只能是贏/輸或輸/贏模式谒亦,毫無效率可言。中間一層是彼此尊重的交流方式空郊,
為了避免沖突份招,雙方都保持禮貌,卻不一定為對方設想狞甚,不可能完全開誠布公锁摔,探討其余的選擇途,并不具創(chuàng)造性哼审。其相互依賴結(jié)果往往停留在妥協(xié)或No Deal的一種底層次雙贏的模式谐腰。這意味著 l+1=3/2,雙方都有得有失涩盾。而協(xié)同增效十气,這種高層次的溝通意味著 1+1 等于 8 或 16,甚至 1600春霍。源自高度信任的協(xié)同增效能帶來比原來更好的解決方案砸西。
單詞部分
1.trailblazer? n.先驅(qū)(者);創(chuàng)始人 A trailblazer is a person who is the leader in a particular field, especially who does a particular thing before anyone else does.
This removes much of the doubt and discomfort experienced by a trailblazer.
pathfinder n.探路者;開路人 A pathfinder is someone whose job is to find routes across areas.
The company is a pathfinder in computer technology.
2.miraculous? adj.1.神奇的;奇跡般的;不可思議的 If you describe a good event as miraculous, you mean that it is very surprising and unexpected.
.a miraculous escape.
2.超自然的;神奇的 If someone describes a wonderful event as miraculous, they believe that the event was caused by God.
miraculous powers.
3.brainstorm? n.1.一時糊涂芹枷;頭腦發(fā)熱 If you have a brainstorm, you suddenly become unable to think clearly.
● I can have a brainstorm and be very extravagant.
2.突然想到的好主意竟闪;靈感 If you have a brainstorm, you suddenly have a clever idea.
'Look,' she said, getting a brainstorm, 'Why don't you invite them here?'
3 v.集思廣益;集體獻計 If a group of people brainstorm, they have a meeting in which they all put forward as many ideas and suggestions as they can think of.
We can brainstorm a list of the most influential individuals in the company.
4.hit-or-miss? adj.無計劃的杖狼,無目的的,遇事現(xiàn)打主意的;
He always seem hit-or-miss.
5.trial and error? the process of solving a problem by trying various methods until you find a method that is successful 反復試驗妖爷;不斷摸索;摸著石頭過河
Children learn to use computer programs by trial and error .
She feels that raising her children has been a matter of trial and error.
6.on the edge of your seat ? very excited and giving your full attention to sth 異常興奮蝶涩;極為激動;有濃厚興趣
The game had the crowd on the edge of their seats.
on the edge of? 瀕于絮识,幾乎绿聘,在邊緣;
AS a teacher,I have come to believe that many great classesteeter on the very dege of chaos.