F.R.I.E.N.D.S. ?,or say秒裕,family

其實自己都很奇怪為什么會如此喜歡一部電視劇袱蚓,去喜歡上6個根本不存在的人之間發(fā)生的根本不存在的事〖蛤撸——就當作一個引子吧喇潘。

However,在十多年梭稚,幾乎無法親身接觸真實社會的學習生活中颖低,他們帶給我的,絕不只是joy一詞可以概括的弧烤。六主角豐富且多面的性格忱屑,或多或少都映射出自己的某些希望和失落吧∠景海或許是一句俗話莺戒,但隨著自己所處階段的不同,每一次重看老友記急波,都會催生出對主題句新的理解从铲。他們也告訴我,友誼的小船澄暮,絕不會說翻就翻名段,它能承載的,也不僅僅是友誼泣懊。

They taught me so much.

Here're some of the pieces they curved in my memory.

Rachel rush into their lives.

"I just want to be married again."

Ross to other guys.

——S01E01

Sometimes,maybe it's just one glimpse that decide your next ten years' way ahead.

Ross's list about two girls' pros and cons.

Joey:What's wrong with Julie?

Ross:She's not Rachel.

Their very first fight.

Ross:You know what?If it were the other way around,there's nothing you could put on a list that would make me not want to be with you.

Rachel:Well, I guess that's the difference between us.See, I will never make a list.

——S02E08

There's no single need to find reasons to be or not to be with someone.All that matters is that if he/she is right to you.

Their first night together

"You're worth the wait,and I don't just mean tonight."

Rachel to Ross

——S02E15

It may take some time to realize your feelings for the one.But when you do, you'll find that you are both waiting for each other.

The night Monica broke up with her first love Richard.

"If you hadn't said 'if I have to 'like seventeen times,then I would be saying 'ok,let's do it.'"

Monica to Richard

——S02E24

You want to do something for your loved one,not because of obligation,but out of your own will.

When you think "I have to do something to satisfy him/her" ,the relationship has become your burden.

The first broke up of Ross and Rachel.

"Let's take a break,a break from us."

Rachel to Ross

That night,Ross got drunk,and,slept with another girl.

——S03E15

Personally, I think it's the stupidest thing he had ever done.

We'll all meet the boundaries set on our road,face to face,and when they come,try to stay sober and avoid the things you will regret for the rest of your life.

Remember,there isn't always chance you could make up for what you've done.

Ross and Emil are getting married,in London.

Here's what Rachel said

Before going to London:

I'm going to London and tell Ross I love him.

When she got to the cathedral:

I just need to come and tell you,congratulations.

——S04E24

Nobody can tell you whether to let go or hold on,it's all up to yourself.Nobody's opinion matters to you except your own.

Monica proposed to Chandler

Monica:Chandler,in all my life,I never thought I'd be so lucky as to fall in love with my best (friend)……there's a reason why girls don't do this!

Chandler:I thought it mattered what I said and where I said it .Then I realized the only thing that matters is that you made me happier than I ever thought I could be .And if you let me, I'll spend the rest of my life trying to make you feel the same way.

——Monica,will you marry me?

——I knew were likely to take a wife!

S06E25

Those who take commitment seriously often have fear of committing the things that they value.

However,once you get commitment from those people,you can be one hundred percent sure that you are highly unlikely to lose them.

Rachel and Joey thinking about their relationship.

Rachel:How come Monica and Chandler could do it?(sleep with each other)

Joey:I guess they weren't as good friends as we are.

——S10E03

Sometimes,it's easy to fall in love with a friend who you already have and trust.

Sometimes,it isn't.

Like those two,only after trying can we find the answer.

The best closure ever.

I got off the plane.

Rachel to Ross,who is waiting for her call.

——S10E18

It took these two people almost ten years to realize and admit that they love each other and can not be separated.They even had a girl during the process.

Is it worthwhile?All those struggle and pain they went through?

Personally, I believe the tears and smiles, from the bottom of the heart of the people you love ,will tell you, you deserve each other.

最后伸辟,用Phoebe對Monica說的一句話,作為這個可以看作是集錦的總結馍刮。

It matters.

No matter what I tried to do, I couldn't keep you out of my life.

盡管是從一個比較反面的角度做的闡釋信夫,但如果能被keep out of的人,大概也無法把friend這個稱呼送給ta吧

All in all,they taught me that once I said I'll be there for you to someone,I must be prepared to realize every word of it.

The end.

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