原文作者：William Beteet ?原文出處：www.quora.com/What-is-the-one-thing-that-people-wish-they-had-known-about-life-when-you-were-in-your-20s-d-2/answer/William-Beteet-1
前言：quora上一篇我覺得不錯(cuò)的回答轉(zhuǎn)譯過來分享一下。原問題：What one thing do you wish you had known about life when you were in your 20s（你希望在20歲的時(shí)候能明白哪些事情）禀酱？
1财著、AV正在摧毀你的性生活——所以下載一個(gè)黃網(wǎng)廣告攔截器并設(shè)置綠色密碼挖诸。（我們天朝下個(gè)攔截器還是沒必要丁鹉，不花費(fèi)番心思访娶，在網(wǎng)上你是找不到的 [攤手]）
2蔗蹋、生活并不是一出浪漫喜劇——不要耗費(fèi)心力的的去贏得愛情菊卷，如果Ta喜歡你，那最好不過剃毒，不然病袄，不要讓他們浪費(fèi)你的時(shí)間。
3赘阀、你的父母其實(shí)很酷——經(jīng)常打電話和他們聊聊益缠。
4、你并不特別——讓你自己變得特別的只有兩樣：訓(xùn)練和勇氣基公。
5幅慌、敢于說“不”——學(xué)會(huì)對(duì)他人說“不”；對(duì)一些使你分心的事或者讓你不爽的人你說不轰豆，你才能更加的專注胰伍。
6、停止不停的制定計(jì)劃——你對(duì)于你的生活制定了一些偉大的計(jì)劃酸休，但沒有一個(gè)起到了效果骂租；就撿起一個(gè)你生活想要的方向向前走，努力培養(yǎng)你的職業(yè)技能斑司，生活就會(huì)變得簡(jiǎn)單了菩咨。
7、嘲笑你的嫉妒心——你有時(shí)候也會(huì)嫉妒別人陡厘，這沒什么大不了的抽米；當(dāng)你嫉妒的時(shí)候，就不妨說出你的煩心事并大聲笑出來糙置，這會(huì)使你感覺好一些云茸，不讓你自己變得焦慮。
8谤饭、不要害怕獨(dú)處——不要逃避獨(dú)處而是應(yīng)該珍惜标捺；一個(gè)人的時(shí)候可以看看書打打游戲懊纳，或者去體育館鍛煉鍛煉；不要以為孤獨(dú)而難過亡容，一個(gè)人的時(shí)候就努力去提升自己嗤疯。
9、不要酗酒——我只都這有時(shí)候有點(diǎn)不禮貌（酒桌上陪喝酒）闺兢，但是去聚會(huì)的時(shí)候你會(huì)獲得更多的愉悅并節(jié)約很多時(shí)間茂缚，而不是變成宿醉的醉漢。
10屋谭、健身——你會(huì)成為肌肉男脚囊，當(dāng)你在健身館健身的時(shí)候，你以為你沒增肌桐磁，其實(shí)不然悔耘。所以，改變這種想法我擂，開始健身衬以。
11、當(dāng)你走路或者騎車的時(shí)候校摩，聽聽電臺(tái)——你已經(jīng)浪費(fèi)了很多時(shí)間去單曲循環(huán)同一首歌看峻；聽聽電臺(tái)，你會(huì)受益良多秧耗。
12备籽、了解人生的規(guī)則——人生每每并不是變成你所希望的那樣舶治。人生中有一些不為大多數(shù)人所知的規(guī)則分井，找到他并為你所用；比如閱讀一些人際關(guān)系管理霉猛、自我訓(xùn)練尺锚、經(jīng)濟(jì)、歷史惜浅、肢體語言方面的書瘫辩。并且多和你老爸交流交流，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)其實(shí)有時(shí)候他很聰明坛悉，你有時(shí)候很蠢伐厌。
13、嘗試去冒一次險(xiǎn)——這些冒險(xiǎn)會(huì)讓你變得更好（plus：不包括無證飆車之類的）裸影，所以挣轨，給boss發(fā)郵件或者與漂亮的女孩搭個(gè)訕，慢慢的你會(huì)驚奇的發(fā)現(xiàn)做這些事是給你的人生帶來的變化轩猩。
你的生活在變得越來越好卷扮，而且你也正在通往成功的道路荡澎；但是如果你早點(diǎn)懂得這些事，你就會(huì)早點(diǎn)學(xué)會(huì)享受生活晤锹。這些事并不會(huì)讓你變得成功摩幔，只會(huì)讓你在追逐成功的道路上更加的開心。
以上鞭铆。
以上都是意譯或衡，哪里不對(duì)還請(qǐng)包涵。
而且以上對(duì)我來說可能已經(jīng)晚了衔彻，因?yàn)槲?1了 ?:) 逃薇宠。。艰额。
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原文：
Dear Young Bill,
Porn is Ruining Your Sex Life-So install a porn blocker and give Joey the Password
Life isn’t a Rom-Com-You aren’t going to marry Carol, stop trying to earn love, if a girl likes you awesome, if they don’t stop wasting your time.
Your Parents Are Amazing -Call Them More
You’re Not Special -You make yourself special using two tools, discipline and courage.
Say No When You Want To -Learn to say no more. That’s how you focus, by saying no to distractions and people.
Stop Planning -You have these huge plans for your life. None of these plans work. Just pick the direction you want your life to go and cultivate skills that are going to make that journey easier.
Laugh at Being Jealous -You get jealous a lot, it’s not a big deal. When you do get jealous, say what you’re upset about out loud and start laughing. It will make you feel better and it stops you from taking yourself so seriously.
8. Don’t be Afraid of Being Alone -Time alone isn’t something to run away from it is to be cherished. So work on those novels and screenplays, go to the gym and read books -don’t cry, cultivate skills.
9.Stop Drinking -I know blasphemous, but when you’re 24 you quit drinking and you’re able to have even more fun when you go out to party and you save a lot of time not being hungover.
10.Work-Out -In the future you’re really muscular, part of what’s keeping you from going to the gym now is that you think you can’t put on muscle, you can, so start lifting.
11.Listen to Audiobooks When You Drive and Walk -You waste a lot of time listening to the same songs, over and over again. Listen to audiobooks, you’ll learn a lot and sound smarter.
12.Learn the Rules of Life -Look at life as it is not as you wish it to be.
There are unspoken rules in life, find out what they are and make them work in your favor. This means reading self-development books about relationships, discipline, mastery, economics and body language. Also talk to your Dad more (See #3) because he’s unbelievably wise and you’re unbelievably foolish.
13.Take One Risk a Day- These risks should be to make you better not worse (This isn’t a license to drive drunk), so email CEO’s and talk to pretty girls, you’d be surprised how much doing stuff like this will impact your life.
Bill your life turns out great, and you are on a path for success, but if you did these things earlier, you would have enjoyed life more along the way. These things will not only make you more successful, they will make you happier while striving for success.
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