人們經(jīng)常會告訴雷吉娜·布瑞特（Regina Brett）她看起來比實際年齡要年輕，這位90歲高齡的多年前被查出患有乳腺癌空执，當年她就寫下了45條人生格言浪箭，并且照著這些標準在生活著。這么多年過去了辨绊，這些格言不僅幫助了她自己奶栖，同時也幫助了其他人，積極面對他們的人生门坷。
1.生活雖然很不公平宣鄙，但是它依舊美好。
? Life isn't fair默蚌，but it’s still good.
2.如果你疑慮重重冻晤，那就先邁出一小步試試。
When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3.人生苦短绸吸，不要把時間浪費在憎恨上鼻弧。
Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4.別把自己太當回事设江，因為別人也不會把你當回事。
Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5.每個月都要還信用卡卡賬温数。
Pay off your credit cards every month.
6.你不需要據(jù)理力爭绣硝，可以各執(zhí)己見。
You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7.與朋友傾訴好過自己暗自流淚撑刺。
Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8.從你的第一筆工資開始鹉胖，就要為你的退休存款。
Save for retirement够傍，starting with your first paycheck.
9.遇上想吃的東西就吃甫菠，抗拒是徒勞的。
When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
10.接受你的過去冕屯，好讓它不影響到你的未來寂诱。
Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
11.沒關(guān)系，可以讓孩子們看到你傷心難過的樣子安聘。
It's OK to let your children see you cry.
12.不要跟別人比生活痰洒，因為你不知道他們的生活究竟如何。
Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
13.如果你需要別人隱瞞一段戀愛浴韭，那也許你就不應(yīng)該談這段戀愛丘喻。
If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
14.人生短暫，不要把時間浪費在自憐自哀上念颈，要么忙碌的活著泉粉，要么忙碌的死去。
Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
15.如果你現(xiàn)在堅定不移榴芳，那么你就能度過一切嗡靡。
You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
16.作家寫作，所以如果你想成為作家窟感，就要練習寫作讨彼。
A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
17.你可以擁有一個快樂的童年，但是如果你想再次領(lǐng)略童趣柿祈，那只能靠你自己点骑。
it's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
18.當關(guān)系到追求一生摯愛的時候，千萬不要輕易放棄谍夭。
When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
19.吃好的黑滴，穿好的，用好的紧索。不要等到特殊場合才拿出來袁辈，其實每一天都是特殊的。
Burn the candles珠漂；use the nice sheets; wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
20.好好準備晚缩，然后隨波逐流尾膊。
Overprepare, then go with the flow.
21.想要古靈精怪就趁現(xiàn)在，不到等老了以后才想起來穿大紅大綠的荞彼。
Be eccentric now, Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
22.人類最性感的器官是大腦冈敛。
The most important sex organ is the brain.
23.沒人能控制你是否高興，只有你自己可以鸣皂。
No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
24.每次面對所謂的“災(zāi)難”的時候抓谴，都問問自己：“五年之后，這還算事么寞缝？”
Frame every so-called disaster with these words:“In five years, will this matter?”
25.原諒所有人癌压，所有事。
Forgive everyone everything.
26.不要在乎別人是怎么看你的荆陆，因為那不關(guān)你的事滩届。
What other people think of you is none of your business.
27.時間幾乎可以至于所有的事情，給時間一點時間被啼。
Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
28.不管一個方案現(xiàn)在看來是好還是壞帜消，隨著時間的推移人們的看法總會改變的。
However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29.你生病的時候工作不會照顧你浓体，但是你的朋友會泡挺，所以要和他們保持聯(lián)系。
Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30.相信奇跡會發(fā)生汹碱。
Believe in miracles.
31.像歌里唱的一樣，殺不死你的真的可以讓你變得更強壯荞估。
Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
32.不要怕衰老咳促，因為那比早死好。
Growing old beats the alternative---dying young.
33.你的孩子只有一個童年勘伺，所以盡你所能的讓它變得難忘跪腹。
Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
34.每天都出去轉(zhuǎn)轉(zhuǎn)，奇跡說不定就在哪等著你飞醉。
Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
35.如果我們都把自己的問題亮出來冲茸，當看到別人的問題后，我們會很慶幸自己的僅僅是面對自己的問題而已缅帘。
If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
36.不要做生活的旁聽生轴术，參與進來，盡力而為钦无。
Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
37.把所有沒用的逗栽，不漂亮的，不快樂的東西都扔掉失暂。
Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
38.最終最重要的是你愛過彼宠。
All that truly matters in the end is that you loved
39.嫉妒是浪費時間鳄虱，你已經(jīng)擁有你所需要的了。
Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
40.現(xiàn)在才剛開始凭峡，好戲還在后面呢拙已。
The best is yet to come.
41.不管你感覺有多糟，起床摧冀！打扮好倍踪！去奮斗！
No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
42.深呼吸可以幫助平復心情按价。
Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
43.如果你不要求惭适，那你就得不到
If you don’t ask, you don’t get.
44.學會認輸
Yield
45.雖然生活不想扎著蝴蝶結(jié)的禮物，看起來那么華麗楼镐，但是他依舊是個禮物癞志。
Life isn't tried with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
作者：斯蒂芬妮（Stephanie Wong）
