仔細(xì)想想凯楔，美國學(xué)校家長提倡的這7種習(xí)慣窜骄，就是美國孩子從小形成的人生觀， 也是他們待人接物摆屯，行為處事的準(zhǔn)則邻遏。理解這些觀念，對高中大學(xué)申請文書撰寫，以及如何與美國同學(xué)准验，同事相處都很有幫助赎线。而且，嘗試運(yùn)用這些方法糊饱，也能讓自己在美國的社會環(huán)境里更有效垂寥，更成功。
美國學(xué)校根據(jù)《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》這兩本書的內(nèi)容另锋，給學(xué)生們畫了一個叫 7個習(xí)慣樹/ The 7 Habits Tree －的海報滞项，作為孩子們品格教育的參照綱領(lǐng)。從小養(yǎng)成這些好習(xí)慣的孩子夭坪，未來的路多數(shù)會走得比較順暢和快樂蓖扑。
這幅海報用一棵大樹來比喻孩子一生中要培養(yǎng)的好習(xí)慣。從樹根開始從下往上台舱，這7個習(xí)慣像一棵樹一樣逐漸長成律杠，分別是：
第1個習(xí)慣：Be proactive －you're in charge惭每，
積極主動杖虾，我的人生我負(fù)責(zé)
I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.
我對自己負(fù)責(zé)烙肺，做事積極主動色解。我管理自己的行為匿乃、態(tài)度和情緒晤锥。我做了錯事不怪別人除呵。不用別人說我也會去做正確的事情燎窘，哪怕沒有人在看浑厚。
第2個習(xí)慣：Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan
有目標(biāo)股耽，有計(jì)劃
I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be agood citizen.
做事前我會定計(jì)劃和目標(biāo)。我做有意義和帶來積極影響的事钳幅。我是班級里的重要一員物蝙，為學(xué)校事務(wù)做貢獻(xiàn)。我希望成為一個好公民敢艰。
第3個習(xí)慣：Put first things first - Work first, then play
做事分主次诬乞，先工作，后娛樂
I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do.I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.
我在重要的事情上花時間钠导。不該做的事震嫉，我勇于說不。我制定優(yōu)先級牡属，做日程表票堵，執(zhí)行我的計(jì)劃。我對自己有紀(jì)律逮栅，做事井井有條悴势。
第4個習(xí)慣窗宇，Think win-win - Everyone can win
從共贏角度考慮問題，利己利人
I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.
我勇于爭取自己想要的瞳浦，但是我同時也會考慮別人的需求。我在別人的情感銀行帳號里放下我的存款废士。有矛盾的時候叫潦，我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案。
第5個習(xí)慣官硝，Seek first to understand, then to be understood
先去理解別人矗蕊，再求被人理解
I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look peoplein the eyes when talking。
我仔細(xì)聆聽別人的主意和情感氢架。我努力從他人角度去理解問題傻咖。聽別人說話的時候我不插嘴、不打擾岖研。我很有信心說出我自己的主意卿操。別人說話的時候，我直視他的眼睛孙援。
第6個習(xí)慣害淤，Synergize －Together is better
協(xié)同－合作會更好
I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.
我珍重別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，向他們學(xué)習(xí)拓售。我和大家很好相處窥摄，即使他們和我很不一樣。我能有效地進(jìn)行團(tuán)隊(duì)合作础淤，因?yàn)槲抑篮献鞅葐未颡?dú)斗能帶來更好的解決方案崭放。我保持謙虛的精神。
第7個習(xí)慣鸽凶，Sharpen the saw－Balance feels best
磨刀不誤砍柴工币砂，尋求健康和平衡
I take care of my body by eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.
我充分照顧好自己，健康飲食玻侥，鍛煉道伟，保證足夠睡眠。我跟家人朋友享受在一起的時光使碾。我涉略廣泛蜜徽，旅行，不止限于學(xué)校的功課票摇。我做有意義的事情幫助別人拘鞋。
