關(guān)于新舊習(xí)慣的替代知染,Quora筆記

How do you change your bad habits by replacing it or by another way? - Quora


Bruce Davis, Spiritual psychologist,author, leading retreats in heartfulness at Silent Stay

70 Views

The energy behind "bad habits" is usually tension, unresolved frustration, patterns of behavior which are stuck in our routine. ?As we meditate and discover this inner vastness, a large presence of peace inside, the automatic behavior of our habits find more space, understanding, and another alternative. ?Meditation opens a space inside which gives the energy behind our habits another place to go, to be. ?As we find more of our selves, as we find the true depth and size of our awareness our personality, habits, thoughts, and feelings find another dimension, another way of being. ?Meditation opens the doors to more and more of our true self and our habits and old patterns begin to change....

Runaway, Busy Mind? There Is a Way Home

Written Apr 12 · View Upvotes




Is laziness, for the most part a habit? Can it be replaced by the habit of just doing what you need to do? - Quora


Theo J Ellis, Habits can make you or break you

128 Views · Theo has 270+ answers in Self-Improvement

Tom decides not to study for his upcoming exams because he’d rather play Call Of Duty on his Xbox. Eventually that 1 decision becomes his everyday routine, and by time his exams come up, well, he’s unprepared, doubtful, and bound to fail.

Bob, on the other hand makes an effort to just get his studies done instead of slacking off and making excuses. Overtime this becomes routine for him, and by time his exams come around, he’s fully prepared, confident, and assured he’ll pass.

In other words, yes, laziness is a habit.

And not just for the “most part”, it’s 100% a habit. Just like brushing your teeth in the morning, having a shower, eating, checking your Facebook account, or procrastination. It’s all a habit.

To change the habit, you simply stop making bullshit excuses and just take action instead of sweet-talking yourself out of the thing you KNOW you SHOULD be doing. Do that enough times and the habit will be replaced.

Easy? No. Worth it? Damn right….

最后編輯于
?著作權(quán)歸作者所有,轉(zhuǎn)載或內(nèi)容合作請(qǐng)聯(lián)系作者
  • 序言:七十年代末,一起剝皮案震驚了整個(gè)濱河市陆爽,隨后出現(xiàn)的幾起案子胶逢,更是在濱河造成了極大的恐慌,老刑警劉巖俗扇,帶你破解...
    沈念sama閱讀 222,464評(píng)論 6 517
  • 序言:濱河連續(xù)發(fā)生了三起死亡事件硝烂,死亡現(xiàn)場(chǎng)離奇詭異,居然都是意外死亡铜幽,警方通過(guò)查閱死者的電腦和手機(jī)滞谢,發(fā)現(xiàn)死者居然都...
    沈念sama閱讀 95,033評(píng)論 3 399
  • 文/潘曉璐 我一進(jìn)店門(mén),熙熙樓的掌柜王于貴愁眉苦臉地迎上來(lái)除抛,“玉大人狮杨,你說(shuō)我怎么就攤上這事〉胶觯” “怎么了橄教?”我有些...
    開(kāi)封第一講書(shū)人閱讀 169,078評(píng)論 0 362
  • 文/不壞的土叔 我叫張陵,是天一觀的道長(zhǎng)。 經(jīng)常有香客問(wèn)我护蝶,道長(zhǎng)华烟,這世上最難降的妖魔是什么? 我笑而不...
    開(kāi)封第一講書(shū)人閱讀 59,979評(píng)論 1 299
  • 正文 為了忘掉前任持灰,我火速辦了婚禮盔夜,結(jié)果婚禮上,老公的妹妹穿的比我還像新娘搅方。我一直安慰自己比吭,他們只是感情好,可當(dāng)我...
    茶點(diǎn)故事閱讀 69,001評(píng)論 6 398
  • 文/花漫 我一把揭開(kāi)白布姨涡。 她就那樣靜靜地躺著衩藤,像睡著了一般。 火紅的嫁衣襯著肌膚如雪涛漂。 梳的紋絲不亂的頭發(fā)上赏表,一...
    開(kāi)封第一講書(shū)人閱讀 52,584評(píng)論 1 312
  • 那天,我揣著相機(jī)與錄音匈仗,去河邊找鬼瓢剿。 笑死,一個(gè)胖子當(dāng)著我的面吹牛悠轩,可吹牛的內(nèi)容都是我干的间狂。 我是一名探鬼主播,決...
    沈念sama閱讀 41,085評(píng)論 3 422
  • 文/蒼蘭香墨 我猛地睜開(kāi)眼火架,長(zhǎng)吁一口氣:“原來(lái)是場(chǎng)噩夢(mèng)啊……” “哼鉴象!你這毒婦竟也來(lái)了?” 一聲冷哼從身側(cè)響起何鸡,我...
    開(kāi)封第一講書(shū)人閱讀 40,023評(píng)論 0 277
  • 序言:老撾萬(wàn)榮一對(duì)情侶失蹤纺弊,失蹤者是張志新(化名)和其女友劉穎,沒(méi)想到半個(gè)月后骡男,有當(dāng)?shù)厝嗽跇?shù)林里發(fā)現(xiàn)了一具尸體淆游,經(jīng)...
    沈念sama閱讀 46,555評(píng)論 1 319
  • 正文 獨(dú)居荒郊野嶺守林人離奇死亡,尸身上長(zhǎng)有42處帶血的膿包…… 初始之章·張勛 以下內(nèi)容為張勛視角 年9月15日...
    茶點(diǎn)故事閱讀 38,626評(píng)論 3 342
  • 正文 我和宋清朗相戀三年隔盛,在試婚紗的時(shí)候發(fā)現(xiàn)自己被綠了犹菱。 大學(xué)時(shí)的朋友給我發(fā)了我未婚夫和他白月光在一起吃飯的照片。...
    茶點(diǎn)故事閱讀 40,769評(píng)論 1 353
  • 序言:一個(gè)原本活蹦亂跳的男人離奇死亡骚亿,死狀恐怖已亥,靈堂內(nèi)的尸體忽然破棺而出,到底是詐尸還是另有隱情来屠,我是刑警寧澤虑椎,帶...
    沈念sama閱讀 36,439評(píng)論 5 351
  • 正文 年R本政府宣布震鹉,位于F島的核電站,受9級(jí)特大地震影響捆姜,放射性物質(zhì)發(fā)生泄漏传趾。R本人自食惡果不足惜,卻給世界環(huán)境...
    茶點(diǎn)故事閱讀 42,115評(píng)論 3 335
  • 文/蒙蒙 一泥技、第九天 我趴在偏房一處隱蔽的房頂上張望浆兰。 院中可真熱鬧,春花似錦珊豹、人聲如沸簸呈。這莊子的主人今日做“春日...
    開(kāi)封第一講書(shū)人閱讀 32,601評(píng)論 0 25
  • 文/蒼蘭香墨 我抬頭看了看天上的太陽(yáng)蜕便。三九已至,卻和暖如春贩幻,著一層夾襖步出監(jiān)牢的瞬間轿腺,已是汗流浹背。 一陣腳步聲響...
    開(kāi)封第一講書(shū)人閱讀 33,702評(píng)論 1 274
  • 我被黑心中介騙來(lái)泰國(guó)打工丛楚, 沒(méi)想到剛下飛機(jī)就差點(diǎn)兒被人妖公主榨干…… 1. 我叫王不留族壳,地道東北人。 一個(gè)月前我還...
    沈念sama閱讀 49,191評(píng)論 3 378
  • 正文 我出身青樓趣些,卻偏偏與公主長(zhǎng)得像仿荆,于是被迫代替她去往敵國(guó)和親。 傳聞我的和親對(duì)象是個(gè)殘疾皇子坏平,可洞房花燭夜當(dāng)晚...
    茶點(diǎn)故事閱讀 45,781評(píng)論 2 361

推薦閱讀更多精彩內(nèi)容

  • **2014真題Directions:Read the following text. Choose the be...
    又是夜半驚坐起閱讀 9,585評(píng)論 0 23
  • PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING APPLE DEVELOPER PROGRAM LICENSE...
    念念不忘的閱讀 13,493評(píng)論 5 6
  • 《戀愛(ài)二十九天》第一章 "好的赖歌,現(xiàn)在誰(shuí)來(lái)回答一下這個(gè)問(wèn)題?" 政治老師在講臺(tái)上功茴,抬了抬厚得像啤酒瓶一樣的鏡片,拉長(zhǎng)...
    12400e43a54f閱讀 152評(píng)論 0 0
  • 我是8月16號(hào)到的曼谷孽亲,到現(xiàn)在也是一月有余了坎穿。 剛來(lái)第一件事就是租房,然后到學(xué)校報(bào)道返劲,為兩點(diǎn)一線的...
    冷_d766閱讀 163評(píng)論 0 2
  • 從小到大篮绿,我都生活在媽媽的保護(hù)下孵延,單親家庭的長(zhǎng)輩總會(huì)對(duì)兒女投入更多的心力,母親給我灌輸?shù)淖疃嗟挠残砸缶褪牵?5歲...
    若思若想閱讀 1,142評(píng)論 1 51