歲聿云暮 一元復(fù)始
對(duì)生活唯有愛(ài)拆火、浪漫與熱情
關(guān)于總結(jié)：今年過(guò)生日的時(shí)候許了4個(gè)愿望跳夭，（有點(diǎn)貪心）涂圆，希望都能實(shí)現(xiàn)。學(xué)習(xí)上略微有所精進(jìn)币叹，至少寫了論文润歉，發(fā)表了論文，不管怎樣颈抚，敢于面對(duì)和挑戰(zhàn)自己不擅長(zhǎng)的事踩衩，對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)就是進(jìn)步。今年也參加了比賽贩汉，雖然成績(jī)還沒(méi)有揭曉驱富，但是我對(duì)自己的表現(xiàn)還是比較滿意。這一年心態(tài)也在不斷調(diào)整變化雾鬼，經(jīng)歷了好朋友的好朋友的背叛萌朱，經(jīng)歷了家人親戚的各種糟粕，經(jīng)歷了自己陽(yáng)了后身體的難受策菜，內(nèi)在的力量在消耗晶疼，也在重建。兩個(gè)點(diǎn)又憨，一是翠霍，真正慢慢放下他人。天雨大不潤(rùn)無(wú)根草蠢莺，道法寬只渡有緣人寒匙。It's raining heavily and it's not moistening the rootless grass，The law is broad and can only help those who are destined躏将。二是锄弱，真正好好去做自己』霰铮’‘更好地成為自己会宪，而不是成為更好的自己◎强‘’是功課也是準(zhǔn)則掸鹅，是放下負(fù)擔(dān)真正掌握松弛感生活的核心。
關(guān)于時(shí)髦：時(shí)髦精致的生活從來(lái)不是一件衣服拦赠，一只包巍沙，一雙鞋。當(dāng)我以為自己生活過(guò)于精致的時(shí)候荷鼠，才發(fā)現(xiàn)句携，上海人，巴黎人允乐，東京人的生活原因比你想象更加精致务甥。所以牡辽，過(guò)自己喜歡的生活，let fancy to be fancy敞临。時(shí)髦是一種態(tài)度，代表自己麸澜，建立與他人與世界的鏈接的一種態(tài)度挺尿。印象比較深的就是，在法國(guó)盧浮宮參觀的時(shí)候炊邦，被那種精致時(shí)髦的人散發(fā)出來(lái)的氣息氣質(zhì)编矾，深深吸引和感染，可以不需要交流就能產(chǎn)生一種巨大的感染力和能量馁害，十分美好窄俏。張朝陽(yáng)還說(shuō)過(guò)生活要精致，精致才能創(chuàng)造幸運(yùn)碘菜。然后凹蜈，新的一年我依舊做一個(gè)很酷的又很溫柔的人，喜歡那句話：不管幾歲忍啸，dress well, have fun, and never lose your attitude 仰坦！be cool！然后多多記錄一些酷酷的moments计雌。
關(guān)于朋友：我喜歡熱鬧悄晃，也享受孤獨(dú)。人常因害怕孤獨(dú)凿滤，去走熱鬧而布滿塵土的路妈橄。熱鬧過(guò)后便是孤獨(dú)，又會(huì)回到一個(gè)人的孤獨(dú)里翁脆，聽著孤獨(dú)的歌看著孤獨(dú)的風(fēng)景眷蚓，害怕并享受著這樣的漫長(zhǎng)而孤獨(dú)的寒冷，但這并不妨礙我在孤獨(dú)中享受電影的美好鹃祖，在一個(gè)人的時(shí)候溪椎，寫出讓自己滿意的句子，創(chuàng)造出很多不一樣的東西恬口。我有很多非常喜歡的朋友校读，但是他們結(jié)婚以后我覺(jué)得我們就慢慢地疏遠(yuǎn)了，我自己有很多原因祖能，我可能潛意識(shí)里面就覺(jué)得當(dāng)他們有自己的家庭和孩子以后歉秫，我就不好意思去約他們吃飯，約他們出去旅行养铸，反正應(yīng)該也約不出來(lái)的雁芙，時(shí)間久了甚至我有些話轧膘，我都不愿意跟他們講，我擔(dān)心會(huì)憑空增添不必要的一些煩惱兔甘。這就一直是一個(gè)非常困擾我的問(wèn)題谎碍，雖然我是個(gè)很矯情的人，但是我不太會(huì)表達(dá)自己的情感洞焙，不管怎樣蟆淀，我希望你們明白我其實(shí)很愛(ài)你們。我也希望得到你們的偏愛(ài)澡匪。所以熔任，要多見面，多拍照唁情，多交流疑苔，開心或不開心。
關(guān)于旅行：仍然渴望探索世界甸鸟，那句話說(shuō)惦费，勇敢的人先享受世界，讓我感覺(jué)自己好像因?yàn)槿チ撕芏鄧?guó)家而變得勇敢起來(lái)哀墓，事實(shí)上趁餐，我內(nèi)心不覺(jué)得自己是個(gè)勇敢的人，但是我仍然在嘗試突破自己篮绰。你去旅行之前后雷，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)世界是一張巨大的地圖，旅行回來(lái)后吠各，于是乎世界不再是一張地圖臀突，而‘’你”才是地圖。去過(guò)很多國(guó)家贾漏，見過(guò)很多美好的東西候学，吃過(guò)不一樣的美食，好的纵散，壞的梳码，喜歡的，不喜歡的伍掀。慢慢地才會(huì)學(xué)會(huì)取舍掰茶，學(xué)會(huì)區(qū)別，什么是好的蜜笤。才會(huì)把錢花在好的東西上濒蒋，值得的事情上。而不是廉價(jià)的，沒(méi)有品質(zhì)的沪伙，其實(shí)那樣更浪費(fèi)瓮顽。與之同時(shí)，也明白把時(shí)間和精力花在好的關(guān)系上围橡，好的人身上暖混，于是學(xué)會(huì)了篩選。明白了某饰，其實(shí)一生很短儒恋，只能節(jié)省著花，花在該花的地方黔漂。時(shí)間或是金錢都一樣。
關(guān)于愛(ài)情：講到愛(ài)情禀酱，我當(dāng)然還是比較浪漫主義的炬守。我一直覺(jué)得分享欲或多或少就是愛(ài)，秋天黃掉的第一片銀杏葉剂跟，冬天晚上下的第一場(chǎng)小雪减途，喝的第一杯太妃榛果拿鐵，吃的第一頓西塔奶奶烤肉曹洽，你其實(shí)都想分享給一個(gè)明確的人鳍置，希望對(duì)方能感受到。愛(ài)當(dāng)然是一種能力送淆，被愛(ài)也是一種運(yùn)氣税产，有能力也有運(yùn)氣才行。感情不是兩個(gè)受傷的人擁抱在一起互相取暖偷崩，而是兩個(gè)追求幸福的人一起攜手向曠野奔跑辟拷。希望我們都能會(huì)遇見一個(gè)“久處不厭，閑談不煩怯屉。從不敷衍射众，絕不怠慢汇陆。”的人隅俘。希望我們都能擁有真誠(chéng)的喜歡，明確的愛(ài)意笤喳，直接的厭惡为居，站在太陽(yáng)底下的坦蕩，還有堅(jiān)定的選擇莉测。
“突然想到那句話"生活總像一張草圖颜骤，而且是一張沒(méi)有什么目的的草圖。
那些讓生活持續(xù)增值的方式捣卤，就藏在我們的經(jīng)歷忍抽、體驗(yàn)和感悟中：草圖永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)成為一幅真正完美的圖畫八孝，但草稿可以不斷的修改、調(diào)整鸠项、擦掉后再重新來(lái)過(guò)…當(dāng)我不斷去嘗試新的體驗(yàn)并不斷犯錯(cuò)干跛、試錯(cuò)的時(shí)候，我會(huì)想到旅行時(shí)的這一刻祟绊÷ト耄”
新年祝福：
Lⅰfe never stops pushing forward.?
Stay focused and?
never slow down with regrets.?
Smile, forgive, forget, and keep moving.
Love，and be loved.
新年文章：
As I Began to Love Myself
As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is AUTHENTICITY.
As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it RESPECT.
As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it MATURITY.
As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment, so I could be calm. Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE.
As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it SIMPLICITY.
As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.
As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is MODESTY.
As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worry about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT.
As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But As I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection WISDOM OF THE HEART.
We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know THAT IS LIFE!
