**脾氣差，其實(shí)就是自私
Bad-tempered people are actually selfish.
不可否認(rèn)叫胁，人人都會(huì)遇到煩心事凰慈，每個(gè)人也都會(huì)有心情特別糟的時(shí)候。
有時(shí)驼鹅，我們會(huì)因?yàn)樯钪械膲毫Χ兊秘?fù)能量滿滿微谓，情緒糟糕，會(huì)因?yàn)樽约旱牟粷M而突然變得煩躁输钩。
這時(shí)豺型，有人能通過自己的方式釋放出壓力和不滿的情緒，不會(huì)影響到別人买乃。而有的人姻氨，就不是這樣了。他們會(huì)通過發(fā)脾氣甚至大吼大罵來試著讓自己的心情更舒暢剪验，而他們的這種行為會(huì)影響到別人肴焊。
**People are always apt to be affected by the environment, but no one is born with bad temper. Most of the so-called bad tempers are acquired in life. **However, those who easily lose their temper, in essence, never take into account the feelings of others. Actually they are selfish.
人總是由環(huán)境決定的，沒有天生的壞脾氣功戚，所謂的壞脾氣大多數(shù)都是后天養(yǎng)成的臭毛病娶眷。而那些總愛發(fā)脾氣的人，其實(shí)是從來不考慮別人感受的啸臀，說到底就是自私届宠。
We tend to blow off steam towards our most beloved people, and don’t treat them as well as strangers.
生活中，我們往往會(huì)對(duì)自己最親愛的人發(fā)脾氣壳咕，對(duì)待他們的態(tài)度還不如對(duì)待陌生人好席揽。
In most cases, we take it for granted that our close ones have always been attached to us and are used to our way, so we slowly turn into bad-tempered people who can easily get anger and never consider whether we have hurt others.
很多情況下，我們仗著家人朋友會(huì)一直愛我們谓厘，于是就慣著自己幌羞，慢慢變成了一個(gè)脾氣差的人，動(dòng)不動(dòng)就發(fā)火竟稳，從來不考慮發(fā)火會(huì)給他們帶來多大傷害属桦。
Never taking seriously the love from the family, we just keep flying off the handle over them, so ain't you selfish enough?
一邊享受著家人帶給自己的愛，一邊無休止地發(fā)脾氣他爸，這不是自私是什么呢聂宾？
In this connection, we are supposed to self-examine ourselves: Control you temper, and stop being so selfish.
關(guān)于這一點(diǎn)，我們每個(gè)人都該去反思诊笤，不要再對(duì)著家人亂發(fā)脾氣了系谐，不能再這樣自私下去了。
In fact, the more capable people are, the better tempered they are as they can figure out that bad temper can not help in solving problems.
事實(shí)上，越是能力強(qiáng)的人纪他，越是好脾氣鄙煤，他們明白發(fā)脾氣是無法解決任何問題的。
The only way to settle a matter is to face it straight and calmly solve it.
解決問題的唯一辦法就是去面對(duì)它茶袒，然后冷靜地處理梯刚。
Just think how many times we’ve lost the chances for love and have hurt others in life, thus having wasted a lot of time. Once we lose temper, we find it difficult to normally get along well with others within a short period of time, nor can we work normally, so it is really of no avail.
試想，生活中我們因?yàn)榘l(fā)脾氣失去了多少愛薪寓，傷了多少人亡资，耽誤了多少事。一旦發(fā)脾氣向叉，肯定在短時(shí)間內(nèi)無法以一種正常的狀態(tài)去和別人相處锥腻，也不可能正常地工作，真的是毫無益處母谎。
So don’t take it for granted that bad temper is noting serious. The temper you have can fully show what a person you are.
所以旷太，不要再覺著脾氣差不是什么問題了，一個(gè)人的脾氣真的能反映出這個(gè)人到底怎么樣销睁。
所謂的“脾氣差”，就是自私和無能存崖。
一冻记、越有本事的男人越?jīng)]脾氣。因?yàn)樗刭|(zhì)来惧，修為冗栗，涵養(yǎng)，學(xué)識(shí)供搀，能力財(cái)力會(huì)綜合一個(gè)人的品格隅居。
二、世界上最美妙的一件事是葛虐，當(dāng)你擁抱一個(gè)你愛的人胎源，他竟然把你抱得更緊。
三屿脐、信任就像一張紙涕蚤，皺了，即使撫平的诵，也恢復(fù)不了原樣了万栅。
四、女人最可悲的西疤，不是年華老去烦粒，而是迷失自我。女人最可嘆的代赁，不是紅顏不再扰她，而是自信全無兽掰。
一個(gè)有靈魂的女人，是一個(gè)有魅力的女人义黎。一個(gè)有信仰的女人禾进，是一個(gè)有正能量的女人。
五廉涕、成功根本沒有秘訣泻云，如果有的話，就只有兩個(gè)詞：謙虛狐蜕，堅(jiān)持宠纯。
六、能開口說出的委屈层释，便不是委屈;能離開的人婆瓜，便不算是愛人。
七贡羔、往事不必遺憾廉白。若是美好，叫做精彩乖寒。若是糟糕猴蹂，叫做經(jīng)歷。把握眼前楣嘁，當(dāng)下才重要磅轻。
八、順利逐虚，只是一種平庸的人生聋溜。
九、如果一個(gè)男人真的愛你叭爱，他只會(huì)怕沒本事照顧好你而努力撮躁。如果他事事與你計(jì)較，隨便對(duì)你發(fā)脾氣买雾，那只是說明他愛自己馒胆，沒有愛你的本事和能力。
十凝果、心態(tài)不好祝迂，說穿了，就是心太小了器净。
心態(tài)的“態(tài)”字型雳，拆解開來，就是心大一點(diǎn)。
Actually we have the predestined affinity among us, which represents a heart-to-heart exchange of ideas and a feeling based on mutual-love; a true heart full of emotional feelings as well as the forgiving for errors.
人與人之間纠俭，就是一種緣分沿量；心與心之間，就是一種交流冤荆；愛與愛之間朴则，就是一種感情；情與情之間钓简，就是一顆真心乌妒；錯(cuò)與錯(cuò)之間，就是一個(gè)原諒外邓。
Everyone cherishes self-esteem but has different worries and difficulties, ideas, ways of doing things and living. You don’t have to change others but do your own bit.
人人有自尊撤蚊，個(gè)個(gè)有苦衷，想法损话、做法和活法都不同侦啸。理念不同，做法不同丧枪，活法也不一樣光涂，不必去改變他人，只需自己做好就行拧烦。
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