如何擁有一個(gè)自己說(shuō)了算的人生象迎?

Everything is worth fighting for alone.

任何事情都值得一個(gè)人去爭(zhēng)人龉荨!

How to have a life of your own?

如何擁有一個(gè)自己說(shuō)了算的人生挣跋?

Learn wisdom. In this day and age, if you want to live well, you need not only knowledge, but also wisdom.

學(xué)習(xí)智慧。在這個(gè)時(shí)代狞换,想要活得很好避咆,不僅需要知識(shí), 更需要智識(shí)修噪。

How to achieve success and happiness in life?

如何獲得人生的成功和幸福查库?

We have to rely on wisdom. The world is too complex, there are too many uncertainties, and we need wisdom to guide us.

依靠智慧。世界過(guò)于復(fù)雜黄琼,有太多不確定性樊销,需要智慧指點(diǎn)迷津。

Whether or not to have wisdom, what level of wisdom, is the gap between people.

是否擁有智慧脏款,擁有什么層次的智慧围苫,是人與人之間的差距。

In life, game is the third wisdom, concentration is the second wisdom, and choice is the first wisdom.

在人生中撤师,博弈是第三智慧剂府,定力是第二智慧,選擇是第一智慧剃盾。

Compsure, change it to a more? familiar? word, which is called long-term? doctrine.

定力腺占,換成一個(gè)更熟悉的詞淤袜,叫長(zhǎng)期主義。

Amazon CEO Bezos? wrote the? following? sentence in his first? shareholder? letter in 1997:''

亞馬遜CEO貝佐斯在1997年的第一封股東信就寫(xiě)下這么一句話:

It's All About Long-Term衰伯。

一切都圍繞長(zhǎng)期價(jià)值展開(kāi)铡羡。

This means that I will do it for more long-term interests, not short-term stock returns.

這意思是說(shuō),我會(huì)為了更加長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)的利益嚎研,而不是短期的股票收益蓖墅。

Determination is the wisdom of life 库倘,The final victory is often the victory of time and the victory of long-term doctrine.

定力临扮,是人生的智慧。最終的勝利教翩,常常是時(shí)間的勝利杆勇,是長(zhǎng)期主義的勝利。

The wisdom of choice is that life is a series of questions, but life is first of all a series of multiple choice questions.

選擇的智慧人生是一連串問(wèn)答題饱亿,但人生首先是一連串選擇題蚜退。

What question do you choose to answer? College, city, job, partner. Life is often just a few key choices.

你選擇去解答什么問(wèn)題。大學(xué)彪笼、城市钻注、工作、伴侶……

人生配猫,往往就是那么幾次關(guān)鍵的選擇而已幅恋。

Unfortunately, most people do not know? that they? have? a choice,? nor do they? have the courage? to choose.

但遺憾的是,大多數(shù)人不知道自己有得選泵肄,也沒(méi)有勇氣去選捆交。

Whether it is the front wave or the back wave, we now live in a world of peace and material abundance, and everyone already has the right to dream and the right to choose.

不管是前浪還是后浪,我們現(xiàn)在生活在和平時(shí)代與物質(zhì)豐饒的世界腐巢,每個(gè)人都已經(jīng)擁有夢(mèng)寐以求的權(quán)利品追,選擇的權(quán)利。

It's just that many people have no idea. He commutes on the subway for two hours a day, sits in the cubicle of the office for eight hours a day, from nine to six every day, or even walks out of the building after dark and leads a life of 996 and 711.

只是冯丙,許多人渾然不知肉瓦。每天2個(gè)小時(shí)的地鐵通勤,每天8個(gè)小時(shí)坐在辦公室的格子間胃惜,每天都是朝九晚六泞莉,甚至是天黑之后走出大樓,過(guò)著996和711的生活蛹疯。

Some people are lucky to find meaning in their work and are willing to spend their whole lives burning themselves.

有些人很幸運(yùn)戒财,在工作中找到意義,愿意付出一生的時(shí)間燃燒自己捺弦。

Some people, just at a fixed time every day, appear in a fixed place, do fixed things, and then repeat, repeat. What are we going to do? That's it. I don't have a choice anyway.

有些人饮寞,只是每天在固定時(shí)間孝扛,出現(xiàn)在固定地點(diǎn),做著固定的事情幽崩,然后重復(fù)苦始,重復(fù),重復(fù)慌申。

那怎么辦呢陌选。就這樣吧。反正也沒(méi)得選蹄溉。

But there are still some people who have endured even more suffering and are unwilling to hand over their choice.

但還有一些人咨油,他們甚至承受了更多的苦難,也不愿意交出自己的選擇權(quán)柒爵。

I heard that children only make choices, and adults want them. Of course not.? Adults,? it is more important to choose.?

聽(tīng)說(shuō)小孩子才做選擇役电,成年人都想要,當(dāng)然不行棉胀。成年人法瑟,更要選擇。

When you learn to choose, you often learn to give up. If you choose one, you have to give up one.

學(xué)會(huì)選擇唁奢,常常就是學(xué)會(huì)放棄霎挟。選擇一個(gè),就要放棄一個(gè)麻掸。

Choose bravely, then enjoy the advantages and bear the disadvantages.

勇敢選擇酥夭,然后享受好處,承擔(dān)壞處论笔。選擇比努力重要采郎,但放棄比選擇重要。

The tragedy of life is often looking at the front and thinking about the rear, and finally there is no way to go.

人生的悲劇狂魔,往往是看著前方蒜埋,又想著后方,最后無(wú)路可走最楷。

Choice is more important than effort, but giving up is more important than choice.

選擇比努力重要整份,但放棄比選擇更重要。

Laozi said: rule by doing nothing.

老子說(shuō):無(wú)為而治籽孙。

Mencius also? told us that people have? something to do and something not to do.

孟子也曾告訴我們烈评,人有所為,有所不為犯建。

The wisdom of life is to know how to advance, retreat and trade-off, do? not? struggle? with bad people,? do not quarrel? with? meaningless? things, do not gamble? on providence, do not guess the hearts of the people.

人生的智慧在于懂得進(jìn)退與取舍讲冠,別和爛人糾纏,別跟無(wú)謂的事情過(guò)不去适瓦,不賭天意竿开,不猜人心谱仪。

Living your life well is the happiest.

好好過(guò)自己的生活,就是最幸福的否彩。


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