The truth is, there's no easy answer to this question. You can focus on certain personality traits, like being a good listener or having lots of creativity, but what is it exactly that makes very successful people so different from the rest of us?
One thing seems clear: Successful people are passionate people. It might be that someone is passionate about money, someone else might be passionate about helping others, but the type of motivation isn't all that important. The important lesson here is that successful people have an objective, a target, an idea or a dream that they work toward and feel passionate about. They're not just thinking about today; they're not just thinking about tomorrow; they're thinking about the rest of their lives, and who they want to be.
Successful people prioritize their lives to reach their goals, spending their time on what's important for achieving their dreams. This focus can have negative effects. Focusing solely on one important thing can lead to you losing focus on other things, like family, relationships, a social life and hobbies. And if things go wrong in the one thing you're focusing on, then what's left? To be brutally honest, there's nothing left. This is the chance many successful people take. Their very drive can cause them to risk everything that they have.
Of course, not everyone has this drive, and not everyone can be successful. While rich, successful people live in gated communities, drive flashy cars and eat in the best restaurants, conversely, a far greater number of people do not enjoy these luxuries. It's a coin with two sides: success and failure; rich and poor; lucky and unlucky. One can't exist without the other. However, is it fair that a small minority of people have all the wealth and, therefore, all the power? Probably not. But that's why we want to be successful: It allows us luxuries that others do not have.
So, how do you become successful? Most important, you have to find your passion. Think about what it is that you really want to do with your life, and go for it. Once you know what you want, stay focused. Don't let anything or anyone stand in your way. Don't take 'no' for an answer or let failure or mistakes along the way stop you from realizing your objective. It's your life and your dream, be it big or small. And don't forget: Enjoy the ride!