好多朋友問我是否幫助了那位女兒找工作的阿姨，很遺憾的說汁果，我沒有也幫助不了涡拘。在中國劈猪，第一大特點(diǎn)就是人多什么人都多爷辱，畢業(yè)生更多，但是企業(yè)的經(jīng)營区丑，尤其是私營企業(yè)在中國的市場中越來越難棘利，因此就是僧多粥少橱野，況且沒有很高的學(xué)歷，在人才市場上的競爭力是很弱的善玫。所以我真的也很難幫她水援。
Many of you my friends asked me if I can help that ayi's daughter, unfortunately no, I can't, there is nothing I can do. In here this country, the first and feather is POPULATION. All kinds of people too much, even the graduates, but for all the companies, especially for the private-owned it's getting more difficult for those companies in today's market. So the positions are not enough for those who graduates. Plus she doesn't have good education certificate so it is really low-competitive of her in the talent resources market. So there is not too much I can help her.
另一位阿姨是跟我比較熟悉的阿姨，這是年齡比較大的阿姨茅郎，從南方四川來的裹唆，今年48歲，我問她為什么來北京工作只洒，為什么不在家里呢许帐。原來，她有兩個(gè)孩子毕谴，大女兒已經(jīng)結(jié)婚了成畦，26歲距芬，嫁到了四川的一個(gè)村子里，兒子現(xiàn)在正在上大學(xué)循帐，大三框仔，每年的支出差不多一萬五千塊，再加上給兒子買房的錢需要攢出來拄养，這么一大筆費(fèi)用离斩，要怎么去存呢？只有選擇出來打工了瘪匿。
我問她的丈夫在做什么工作呢跛梗，她看起來很羞愧，搖了搖頭告訴我棋弥，他沒有工作核偿，只是不難的時(shí)候打一些零工，然后把錢都放到賭博里面去顽染，賭輸了有的時(shí)候還跟我和我女兒要錢漾岳。他不但不給家里錢，還經(jīng)常說我們不信任他粉寞，太離譜了尼荆。
Another ayi is the one I am familiar to, she is a little older and comes from the south of China , Sichuan province, 48 years old, I asked her that why she chose to come to Beijing instead of just staying at home at her age, she said, that she has two children, the older one is a daughter already got married is a village of Sichuan province, and another one is a son who is still studying in the third year of university, every year the boy needs 15,000 expense and she is still saving for buying his son a house back to her hometown, that much money how can she just stay in her hometown, so that's why she is working in Beijing right now. When I asked what's her husband does for living, she looks like really shameful and sighed for a long time, shaking her head and said: that my husband doesn't have a stable work to do, just stays at home and does some part-time job, if he earns some money he would put all the money into gamble, and sometimes even ask me and my daughter for money to do the gamble, never offer the money he earns, and always complaints that we don't trust him and complaints we don't give him money, how can we trust him?That money is for our son to study and get married, that's ridiculous.
我非常吃驚她竟然支撐起了整個(gè)家庭，其實(shí)在中國唧垦，很多男性寧愿在家?guī)е膊辉敢馊プ鲆恍┎惑w面的工作耀找，即使妻子再苦再累，他們都覺得給別人打工太丟面子了业崖，久而久之也就不愿意出去和社會(huì)上接觸了野芒，惡性循環(huán)，更加沒有經(jīng)濟(jì)來源双炕。
I was so shocked that she support the whole family by herself. Actually what I want to say is that in China there are so many men they would prefer even stay at home rather than going to outside work in a indecency job, even their wife doing it they would think that kind of job is too shameful for them and once they get used to staying at home and have nothing to do no money to earn, they would feel more sank that's called vicious spiral.
不論如何狞悲，說回這個(gè)阿姨，她人很好妇斤，每天中午都從家?guī)ё蛲碜龅娘堃》妫看味际俏骷t柿炒雞蛋和炒青菜，加米飯或者饅頭站超。有的時(shí)候我會(huì)給她一些蔬菜和喝的東西荸恕，其實(shí)她也沒有什么能給我的，只不過是每次等她晚班的時(shí)候都會(huì)等我下班死相，跟我聊聊天融求，或者偷偷給我拿一些零食或者好喝的東西從公司，還會(huì)跟我說一些公司里面的八卦算撮。我也會(huì)跟她分享生活中遇到的一些開心和不開心的事情生宛。她很睿智县昂，一般她都會(huì)像長者一樣，給我一些很好的建議陷舅，我從來都不把她當(dāng)作一個(gè)保潔阿姨看待倒彰，她是我的同事，也是我的朋友莱睁！
Anyway talk back to the ayi. She is really nice person, always takes food from her cooking last night, and sometimes when I see her eating, I would give her some vegetables and drinks to eat, because every time she eat the same food, tomatoes with eggs and some green leaf food and the rice or mantou. She has nothing to give back to me, so as a return, she would always stay with me when it is her turn to do the late time work, and never make me hurry up always take some good drinks and snacks? secretly from my company has to me. And sometimes gossips with me, I would share my happiness and sadness with her every time, she is really wise as a senor, always give me really good advises. I really don't see her as a cleaning ayi. She is just a college or a old friend for me!
