大家好夸研！下面是雞湯文時(shí)間~翻得不好的地方，還望不吝指正啦~(づ￣3￣)づ╭?～

原鏈接請(qǐng)戳--How can I be as great as Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, and Richard Branson?

這篇文章的作者依鸥，是“鋼鐵俠”Elon Musk的前妻Justine Musk(引自wiki)亥至。

這個(gè)女人是個(gè)神馬樣的人捏~

她是作家，編劇贱迟，老師姐扮，PayPal, SpaceX, and Tesla Motors的聯(lián)合創(chuàng)始人，最重要的衣吠，是當(dāng)代“鋼鐵俠”Elon Musk的前妻茶敏。

她是這么講述與鋼鐵俠的婚姻---第一任妻子眼中的“鋼鐵俠”

下面是她在quora上對(duì)想要如Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, and Richard Branson般成功的人的幾點(diǎn)建議~

winter is coming~喝點(diǎn)雞湯暖暖身吧(づ??????)づ

極度的成功來(lái)自于極端的性格，同時(shí)以許多其他的事情為代價(jià)缚俏。極度的成功不同于你所定義的“成功”惊搏，我想你不是要成為Richard，或是Elon那樣忧换，富可敵國(guó)恬惯，名滿(mǎn)天下，極盡生活之奢華亚茬。你擁有快樂(lè)的幾率會(huì)更大酪耳。但如若你是一個(gè)極端的人，你一定要成為你自己刹缝，這就意味著你或多或少與快樂(lè)無(wú)緣碗暗。這些人反復(fù)無(wú)常，于世不容梢夯，他們不得不以一種超乎尋常挑戰(zhàn)性的方式閱盡人間言疗。他們培養(yǎng)出一套生存之道，隨年歲日增颂砸，他們會(huì)找到一些方法去貫徹其生存策略洲守，為自己創(chuàng)造出清晰有力的優(yōu)勢(shì)疑务。他們的思維方式與眾不同。他們觀察事物的角度會(huì)開(kāi)啟新想法與見(jiàn)解梗醇。別人認(rèn)為他們略顯瘋狂知允。

Extreme success results from an extreme personality and comes at the cost of many other things. Extreme success is different from what I suppose you could just consider 'success', so know that you don't have to be Richard or Elon to be affluent and accomplished and maintain a great lifestyle. Your odds of happiness are better that way. But if you're extreme, you must be what you are, which means that happiness is more or less beside the point. These people tend to be freaks and misfits who were forced to experience the world in an unusually challenging way. They developed strategies to survive, and as they grow older they find ways to apply these strategies to other things, and create for themselves a distinct and powerful advantage. They don't think the way other people think. They see things from angles that unlock new ideas and insights. Other people consider them to be somewhat insane.

專(zhuān)注。

Be obsessed.

沉迷叙谨。

Be obsessed.

瘋狂温鸽。

Be obsessed.

如果你現(xiàn)在不夠?qū)ＷⅲＯ履阏谧龅氖虑槭指海业绞鼓銥橹畧?zhí)著的事涤垫。這會(huì)幫助你建立自我，但是如果想要吸引那些你需要他們來(lái)幫助你的人（沒(méi)有錯(cuò)竟终，你需要他們）你還要有更大的目標(biāo)蝠猬。人們會(huì)在你還不夠強(qiáng)大，你的東西還不夠好時(shí)统捶，圍繞著你榆芦，告訴你你有多厲害，“更大的目標(biāo)”會(huì)使你免于歸為平庸喘鸟。不要因?yàn)槟恪跋胱兊煤軈柡Α倍プ冯S某事物匆绣。要追隨那些使你目眩神迷，流連于追隨這件事本身而難以自拔的事物什黑。極端的人會(huì)將才華天賦與“瘋狂的”職業(yè)道德相結(jié)合崎淳，如果工作本身不能驅(qū)使你，你會(huì)殫精竭慮愕把，半途而廢拣凹，或是被你極端的對(duì)手所碾壓，哭死你丫兒的恨豁。

If you're not obsessed, then stop what you're doing and find whatever does obsess you. It helps to have an ego, but you must be in service to something bigger if you are to inspire the people you need to help you? (and make no mistake, you will need them). That 'something bigger' prevents you from going off into the ether when people flock round you and tell you how fabulous you are when you aren't and how great your stuff is when it isn't. Don't pursue something because you "want to be great". Pursue something because it fascinates you, because the pursuit itself engages and compels you. Extreme people combine brilliance and talent with an *insane* work ethic, so if the work itself doesn't drive you, you will burn out or fall by the wayside or your extreme competitors will crush you and make you cry.

追隨你的執(zhí)著直到出現(xiàn)問(wèn)題咐鹤，要有一個(gè)巨大的，能引人深思的挑戰(zhàn)性問(wèn)題圣絮，盡可能沖擊多一些的人祈惶，你要堅(jiān)定不移地去解決問(wèn)題，或至死方休扮匠。你可能要花上好幾年去找到那個(gè)問(wèn)題捧请，因?yàn)槟阋剿鞑煌I(lǐng)域的知識(shí)，將點(diǎn)滴串聯(lián)起來(lái)棒搜，將它們相互聯(lián)系疹蛉，使其完整。

Follow your obsessions until a problem starts to emerge, a big meaty challenging problem that impacts as many people as possible, that you feel hellbent to solve or die trying. It might take years to find that problem, because you have to explore different bodies of knowledge, collect the dots and then connect and complete them.

這會(huì)幫助你擁有超人的能量和耐力力麸。如果你不是天生神力可款，就要拿出最好的姿態(tài)育韩。路上會(huì)有時(shí)差，你要絞盡腦汁闺鲸，來(lái)來(lái)回回的艱難對(duì)戰(zhàn)筋讨，寂寞，無(wú)意義的會(huì)議摸恍，大挫折悉罕，家庭紛爭(zhēng)，和一些你很少見(jiàn)到的大人物的問(wèn)題立镶，靈魂的陰暗面壁袄，有人煩你鬧你，缺乏睡眠媚媒。將你的身體和精神都維持在最佳狀態(tài)嗜逻。天道酬勤。

It helps to have superhuman energy and stamina. If you are not blessed with godlike genetics, then make it a point to get into the best shape possible. There will be jet lag, mental fatigue, bouts of hard partying, loneliness, pointless meetings, major setbacks, family drama, issues with the Significant Other you rarely see, dark nights of the soul, people who bore and annoy you, little sleep, less sleep than that. Keep your body sharp to keep your mind sharp. It pays off.

學(xué)會(huì)處理一系列會(huì)將大部分人擊潰的壓力缭召。

Learn to handle a level of stress that would break most people.

不要走既有的道路栈顷，不要模仿你的模范，這世上沒(méi)有“下一步”恼琼。極度的成功不像其他的成功; 對(duì)別人來(lái)說(shuō)有效的妨蛹，對(duì)你不一定有用屏富。他們是一群觀點(diǎn)鮮明晴竞，探索一套獨(dú)特力量的人。他們不守常規(guī)狠半，他們成為企業(yè)家的原因之一是因?yàn)樗麄儾荒茇溃灰膊粫?huì)適應(yīng)企業(yè)生活的體制神年，規(guī)章已维。他們有閱讀困難，自閉已日，多動(dòng)癥垛耳，他們不得其所，他們?nèi)侨松鷼馄В萑霠?zhēng)吵堂鲜，打破平衡，嘲笑文案工作护奈。但是他們會(huì)將弱點(diǎn)轉(zhuǎn)換缔莲，創(chuàng)造附加價(jià)值—就是我前面提到的策略—同時(shí)，尋找一些擅長(zhǎng)做他們不會(huì)做的事情的伙伴霉旗。

Don't follow a pre-existing path, and don't look to imitate your role models. There is no "next step". Extreme success is not like other kinds of success; what has worked for someone else, probably won't work for you. They are individuals with bold points of view who exploit their very particular set of unique and particular strengths. They are unconventional, and one reason they become the entrepreneurs they become is because they can't or don't or won't fit into the structures and routines of corporate life. They are dyslexic, they are autistic, they have ADD, they are square pegs in round holes, they piss people off, get into arguments, rock the boat, laugh in the face of paperwork. But they transform weaknesses in ways that create added advantage -- the strategies I mentioned earlier -- and seek partnerships with people who excel in the areas where they have no talent whatsoever.

他們不害怕失敗—或者他們頭也不回地往前沖了痴奏。他們會(huì)經(jīng)歷英雄式的蛀骇，波瀾壯闊的，顏面掃地的读拆，眾目睽睽之下的失敗擅憔，但他們會(huì)找到一個(gè)辦法，去重塑這一切建椰，直到逆轉(zhuǎn)乾坤雕欺。當(dāng)他們以誰(shuí)都不會(huì)的方式失敗了，他們也會(huì)學(xué)到其他人沒(méi)有棉姐，也不會(huì)有的經(jīng)驗(yàn)教訓(xùn)屠列。他們的毅力與適應(yīng)力令人瞠目咋舌。

They do not fear failure -- or they do, but they move ahead anyway. They will experience heroic, spectacular, humiliating, very public failure but find a way to reframe until it isn't failure at all. When they fail in ways that other people won't, they learn things that other people don't and never will. They have incredible grit and resilience.

他們不會(huì)讀像這樣的東西伞矩。（這么說(shuō)并不是要打臉或是批評(píng)誰(shuí)笛洛，我自己就很喜歡讀這些東西）他們更愿意直接讀書(shū)：可能是亞歷山大大帝或是凱瑟琳大帝的傳記，或是其他他們認(rèn)為很厲害的人乃坤。上網(wǎng)是殺時(shí)間的利器苛让，他們認(rèn)為他們的時(shí)間很有價(jià)值—即使回到那些嚴(yán)格意義上并不那么有價(jià)值的時(shí)光—他們依然付不起這個(gè)代價(jià)。

They are unlikely to be reading stuff like this. (This is *not* to slam or criticize people who do; I love to read this stuff myself.) They are more likely to go straight to a book: perhaps a biography of Alexander the Great or Catherine the Great* or someone else they consider Great. Surfing the 'Net is a deadly timesuck, and given what they know their time is worth -- even back in the day when technically it was not worth that -- they can't afford it.

我可以繼續(xù)湿诊，這是一個(gè)很棒的話(huà)題狱杰。但你已經(jīng)知道我的意思了。祝你好運(yùn)厅须，也祝你擁有力量仿畸，也許你要喝點(diǎn)白酒。

I could go on, it's a fascinating subject, but you get the idea. I wish you luck and strength and perhaps a stiff drink should you need it.

最后朗和，祝福大家都能找到生命中那個(gè)讓你obsessed的人和事( ?? ω ?? )y错沽，度過(guò)痛并快樂(lè)著相愛(ài)相殺的淫生！(づ￣ 3￣)づ