英語學(xué)習(xí)
For Those Who Are Single
When did being single become some sort of disease that everyone wants to get rid of?
Why does everyone think that being in a relationship or married is superior to being alone?
Those are some questions you might want to think about.
Our culture places such an emphasis on being part of a couple that it makes single people feel like lepers sometimes.
But I want to challenge you to reframe being alone. It's all about your attitude.
If you're single and unhappy about it, here are some things I want to tell you to cheer you up:
對(duì)于那些單身的人
單身是什么時(shí)候成為一種人人都想擺脫的疾病的捞稿？
為什么每個(gè)人都認(rèn)為戀愛或結(jié)婚比獨(dú)處優(yōu)越妹懒？
這些是你可能需要考慮的問題电禀。
我們的文化如此強(qiáng)調(diào)成為夫妻的一部分，以至于有時(shí)單身人士會(huì)覺得自己像麻風(fēng)病人。
但我想挑戰(zhàn)你重新定義孤獨(dú)循狰。都是你的態(tài)度鲁森。
如果你單身，對(duì)此很不開心刊懈，我想告訴你一些事情，讓你振作起來：
1. Things can change. And they will.
I don't care if you've been single for several decades or several days.
It can be easy to get down on yourself over the "odds" of finding that perfect partner.
Don't let yourself buy into the ridiculous myths, like "It's more likely to get abducted by an alien than it is to get married after 40."
Remember, anything and everything is possible. You just need to get out of your own way and start believing that.
1事情可以改變娃闲。他們會(huì)的虚汛。
我不在乎你是單身幾十年還是幾天。
在找到完美伴侶的“幾率”上皇帮，你很容易對(duì)自己感到失望卷哩。
不要讓自己相信那些荒謬的神話，比如“40歲以后被外星人綁架的可能性要比結(jié)婚的可能性大属拾〗辏”
記住，一切皆有可能捌年。你只需要擺脫自己的方式瓢娜，開始相信這一點(diǎn)。
2. Have high standards.
Don't just date someone because you don't want to be alone.
I can't tell you how many people I know who just "settle" because they hate being alone.
If that's you, why do you hate being alone so much? Don't you like yourself? You should!
You should love being alone, because you're such a cool person.
2有高標(biāo)準(zhǔn)礼预。
不要因?yàn)椴幌胍粋€(gè)人而和某人約會(huì)眠砾。
我不知道有多少人因?yàn)橛憛捯粋€(gè)人而“安頓下來”。
如果是你，你為什么這么討厭一個(gè)人褒颈？你不喜歡你自己?jiǎn)崞馕祝磕銘?yīng)該的！
你應(yīng)該喜歡獨(dú)處谷丸，因?yàn)槟闶莻€(gè)很酷的人堡掏。
3. Use this time to learn about yourself.
Often, people use being with others as an escape — an escape from themselves.
If you're with others, then the focus is on them, not you. But how well do you really know yourself?
Being single is a precious time that can be used to really get to know and love yourself.
So spend the time getting to know you. Discover new things. Work on personal growth.
三。利用這段時(shí)間了解你自己刨疼。
通常泉唁，人們把和別人在一起當(dāng)作一種逃避——逃避自己。
如果你和其他人在一起揩慕，那么重點(diǎn)是他們亭畜，而不是你。但你到底對(duì)自己了解多少迎卤？
單身是一段寶貴的時(shí)間拴鸵，可以用來真正了解和愛自己。
所以花點(diǎn)時(shí)間去了解你蜗搔。發(fā)現(xiàn)新事物劲藐。致力于個(gè)人成長(zhǎng)。
4. Work on making yourself the kind of person you would want to date.
Don't look for someone to "complete you." If you need someone to complete you, then you aren't whole to begin with.
You want someone to think "Wow! This person is dating me?! I'm the luckiest guy/girl on the planet!" And the right person will.
4努力讓自己成為你想約會(huì)的那種人樟凄。
不要尋找一個(gè)人來“完善你”聘芜。如果你需要一個(gè)人來完善你，那么你一開始就不完整不同。
你想讓別人覺得“哇厉膀！這個(gè)人在和我約會(huì)？二拐！“我是這個(gè)星球上最幸運(yùn)的男人/女孩！”合適的人會(huì)的凳兵。
5. Learn to love your own company.
You're awesome! You're cool! If you don't believe me, then you are wrong. Everyone is perfect in their own way.
The problem is, many people — especially single people — don't believe it.
It's okay to spend a Saturday night alone with yourself and a movie and a glass of wine.
5學(xué)會(huì)熱愛自己的公司百新。
你真棒！你很酷庐扫！如果你不相信我饭望，那你就錯(cuò)了。每個(gè)人都有自己的完美形庭。
問題是铅辞，很多人——尤其是單身人士——都不相信。
周六晚上獨(dú)自一人萨醒，看一場(chǎng)電影斟珊，喝一杯酒是可以的。
