愛(ài)更卒,是一種深深的情感等孵,它常常隱藏在那些看似微不足道的細(xì)節(jié)之中。正如村上春樹(shù)所說(shuō):“真心對(duì)你好的人逞壁,都在細(xì)節(jié)里流济,人會(huì)說(shuō)謊,但細(xì)節(jié)不會(huì)腌闯。”當(dāng)你愛(ài)一個(gè)人時(shí)雕憔,你的愛(ài)會(huì)自然而然地體現(xiàn)在那些小小的行動(dòng)上姿骏,那些看似微不足道的事情里。
Love is a deep emotion that often hides in seemingly insignificant details. As Haruki Murakami once said, "Those who truly treat you well are all in the details. People may lie, but the details do not." When you love someone, your love naturally manifests in those small actions and seemingly insignificant things.
然而斤彼,當(dāng)愛(ài)不再存在時(shí)分瘦,細(xì)節(jié)也會(huì)告訴你。那些曾經(jīng)溫暖的擁抱琉苇、關(guān)心的問(wèn)候嘲玫、貼心的舉動(dòng),都會(huì)變得陌生而遙遠(yuǎn)并扇。你會(huì)在無(wú)數(shù)個(gè)需要他的瞬間去团,選擇閉嘴,因?yàn)槟阒狼钣迹词鼓惚磉_(dá)了你的需求土陪,他也無(wú)法理解你的沉默和難過(guò)。
However, when love no longer exists, details will also tell you. Those once warm hugs, caring greetings, and thoughtful actions will become unfamiliar and distant. You will choose to shut up in countless moments when you need him, because you know that even if you express your needs, he cannot understand your silence and sadness.
愛(ài)肴熏,是一種付出鬼雀,而不是索取。當(dāng)你說(shuō)出你的期望蛙吏,而他卻沒(méi)有做出相應(yīng)的回應(yīng)時(shí)源哩,那種失落感會(huì)讓你覺(jué)得自己變得廉價(jià)。愛(ài)鸦做,不應(yīng)該是一種負(fù)擔(dān)励烦,而是一種自然的流露。
Love is a form of giving, not taking. When you express your expectations but he doesn't respond appropriately, that sense of disappointment can make you feel cheap. Love should not be a burden, but a natural expression.
在成年人的世界里馁龟,感情不僅僅是喜歡那么簡(jiǎn)單崩侠。我們需要的不僅僅是愛(ài)情,更是一種相互的理解和尊重。我們可以選擇永遠(yuǎn)保持一顆純真的心却音,但我們也不能忽視那些讓我們感到不安的細(xì)節(jié)改抡。因?yàn)椋瑦?ài)系瓢,就在細(xì)節(jié)里阿纤。
In the adult world, emotions are not just about liking. What we need is not only love, but also mutual understanding and respect. We can choose to always maintain a pure heart, but we cannot ignore the details that make us feel uneasy. Because love lies in the details.