Once I thought that I had known lots of principles(道理),Why need I read books? Today this book gives me a vivid lesson.
the opening of the book tells us stories about 3 desperados who attempt to justify their acts,insisting they should not be prisoned at all 洲愤，no matter how wrong they may be.
knowing these facts,a question was aroused: if the desperate men and women behind prison walls don't blame themselves for anything — what about the people with whom you and I come in contact?
Admittedly,Criticism puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself.
Criticism is futile and it only can arouse resentment.
So stop critcizing and swift to a mild way.
As much as we thirst for approval , we dread condemnation.
我們有多渴望被認同号杠，就有多害怕被譴責。
被別人責備過孵淘，現(xiàn)在想想記憶猶新议蟆，并且也很不服氣闷沥，覺得對方只現(xiàn)在自己的角度，完全不考慮我的立場咐容。而且一提起這三個人來舆逃，就想起他們責備我的神態(tài)和表情悼吱。
我不希望被人這樣記住堂飞。
