哪里都不算遙遠(yuǎn)
有時候晰搀,我們想要和解的人離我們很遠(yuǎn)呀舔,我們覺得已經(jīng)失去了修復(fù)關(guān)系的機(jī)會场斑。為什么不用電話呢?如果對方能聽到你的聲音糠睡,這有助于避免誤解挽鞠。所以最好不要依靠短信或電子郵件來修復(fù)你們的關(guān)系。不要太在意文字狈孔。只要你練習(xí)有意識的呼吸信认,并與自己和平相處,對方就會從你的聲音中聽到這一點均抽。如果你很堅定嫁赏,內(nèi)心平靜,你的話就會打開通往他人心靈的大門油挥。這可能不會馬上發(fā)生潦蝇,但這扇門最終會被打開。
NOWHERE IS TOO FAR AWAY
Sometimes, the person we want to reconcile with is far away and we feel we have lost the chance to mend our relationship. Why not use a phone? If the other person can hear your voice, it helps avoid misperceptions. So it’s better not to rely on texting or email to heal your relationship. Do not worry too much about the words. As long as you are practicing mindful breathing and have made peace with yourself, the other person will hear that in your voice. If you are solid and at peace with yourself, your words will open the door to the heart of the other person. It might not happen right away, but the door will eventually crack open.