這本書的中文版是《向前一步》，在書店偶然看到原版穆咐，覺得還是盡量不要讀譯本有缆。作者Sheryl Sandberg是前Facebook的COO兰珍。書里有她的個(gè)人經(jīng)歷，她的觀察梯嗽，思考以及她的改變齿尽，她也希望更多的女性能夠從內(nèi)心aspire to the top。
Lean in灯节，字面意思是向前一步循头、往桌前坐。剛?cè)肼毜臅r(shí)候炎疆，有一次開一個(gè)很多人參加的會(huì)卡骂，新入職的我們坐在了圍桌的外圈，老板進(jìn)來時(shí)跟大家說形入，如果你不往桌前坐全跨，說明你心里自覺自己對(duì)這個(gè)會(huì)議來說不重要。一個(gè)潛意識(shí)的退縮行為亿遂，卻暴露著內(nèi)心的恐懼浓若，在此后的會(huì)議里，我也常常會(huì)記起老板說過的話蛇数，既然選擇參會(huì)挪钓，就不要把自己擺成一個(gè)”旁觀者“的角色。
We lower our own expectations of what we can achieve苞慢；
Many of these girls watched their mothers try to "do it all" and then decide that something had to give. That something was usually their careers.
When jobs are described as powerful, challenging, and involving high levels of responsibility, they appeal to more men than women.
Many women still see ambition as a dirty word.
當(dāng)她在會(huì)議室讓大家往桌前坐時(shí)诵原，"They demurred and remained in their seats", they seemed like spectators rather than participants.
她為“how women hold themselves back"感到震驚英妓，我也同樣感到難過挽放。讓我有點(diǎn)難過的是绍赛，當(dāng)下有很多倡導(dǎo)平等的提議，或是對(duì)不平等的指責(zé)辑畦，但在這些提議吗蚌、指責(zé)背后，女性同時(shí)也給自己構(gòu)筑了足夠多的阻礙纯出，讓自己選擇放棄原本是足夠平等的機(jī)會(huì)蚯妇。
”I realized that in addition to facing institutional obstacles, women face a battle from within.“
有點(diǎn)像《工作，消費(fèi)主義與新窮人》所講暂筝，嚴(yán)格意義上講箩言，社會(huì)并沒有阻礙窮人去找工作，或者有多少歧視造成了不公平焕襟，相反陨收，更多時(shí)候是窮人失去了抓住機(jī)會(huì)的意愿。
中間有一些建議給到大家鸵赖，我其實(shí)覺得不論男女务漩，是都適用的：
There is no perfect fit when you're looking for the next big thing to do. You have to take opportunities and make an opportunity fit for you.
opportunities are rarely offered, they are seized.
Sharing emotions builds deeper relationships.
最后，我非常喜歡這本書的結(jié)尾它褪，她說：
I look toward the world I want for all children ——and my own. My greatest hope is that my son and my daughter will be able to choose what to do with their lives without external or internal obstacles slowing them down or making them question their choices. If my son wants to do the important work of raising children full-time, I hope he is respected and supported. And if my daughter wants to work full-time outside her home, I hope she is not just respected and supported, but also liked for her achievements.
I hope they both end up exactly where they want to be. And when they find where their true passions lie, I hope they both lean in ——all the way.
