【作者】Eileen Caddy
【翻譯】熊倩涵
【編輯】顏士寶
HOW vitally important is your right and positive attitude towards today and all that it holds for you! You can make or mar the day for yourself simply by the way you approach it. Your reactions to things as they take place can make all the difference. When your reactions are negative and aggressive, you immediately put up barriers and create opposition, finding fault and blaming everyone else. You are so blind you fail to see that you are the one at fault, and you go around with a chip on your shoulder. When your reactions are positive and constructive, all barriers come tumbling down and you will find you will get help and cooperation from every side. If you have made a mistake, admit it, say you are sorry and move on. Then no precious time is wasted in trying to justify yourself and prove you are right. You have many lessons to learn. Learn them quickly, and try never to make the same mistake twice.
我對今天的正確且積極的態(tài)度,以及這所為我?guī)淼木鄣嵌嗝吹弥陵P(guān)重要啊!我可以為自己創(chuàng)造這一天,也能毀了這一天状飞,僅僅只是通過我走近它的方式迎膜。我對正在發(fā)生的事情的反應(yīng)可以造成大不相同的情況敌呈。當(dāng)我的反應(yīng)是負(fù)向的、有攻擊性的鞋仍,我馬上立起了障礙常摧,并制造了對抗的局面,開始挑出毛病與指責(zé)他人威创。我如此盲目落午,看不見自己正是問題所在,我正帶著挑釁的態(tài)度四處走動(dòng)那婉。
當(dāng)我的反應(yīng)是正向且有建設(shè)性的板甘,所有的障礙都會(huì)倒塌,我會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)我在每一方都得到了幫助與配合详炬。如果我犯了一個(gè)錯(cuò)誤盐类,承認(rèn)它,為它道歉后呛谜,翻過這一頁在跳。然后就不會(huì)有寶貴的時(shí)間被浪費(fèi)在,試圖為自己辯護(hù)隐岛,以及證明我是對的上面猫妙。我有很多課題需要學(xué)習(xí)【郯迹快速地學(xué)習(xí)他們吧割坠,并且試著不再次犯同樣的錯(cuò)誤齐帚。