你可曾研究過心理依賴問題壁涎？如果深入探究，你就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)儡遮，我們多數(shù)人極其孤獨(dú)并徘，內(nèi)心膚淺、空虛彤避，不知道什么是愛傅物。因?yàn)閮?nèi)心孤獨(dú)、匱乏琉预、欠缺董饰，所以我們執(zhí)著于外物，執(zhí)著于家庭圆米，依賴家庭卒暂。當(dāng)配偶拋下我們，我們便妒火中燒榨咐。妒忌心并非愛介却，卻被社會(huì)認(rèn)定為家庭之愛，且備受尊崇块茁，實(shí)際上是另一種自我保護(hù)齿坷、逃避真實(shí)自我的方式。而對(duì)真相的每一種抗拒数焊，都會(huì)助長(zhǎng)心理依賴永淌，心靈一旦落入依賴，就絕無自由佩耳。
你的心靈需要自由遂蛀，因?yàn)樽杂傻男撵`才擁有最本質(zhì)的謙遜，自由謙遜的心靈才能學(xué)習(xí)認(rèn)知真相干厚，而不是抗拒真相李滴。學(xué)習(xí)是非凡之事，真正的學(xué)習(xí)并不是知識(shí)的積累蛮瞄，積累知識(shí)是相對(duì)容易的所坯，因?yàn)槟鞘菑囊阎D(zhuǎn)到已知。而真正的學(xué)習(xí)是從已知進(jìn)入未知——唯有這樣挂捅，才是學(xué)習(xí)芹助，是吧？
——克里希那穆提《生命書：365觀心日課》（The Book of Life: Daily Meditations with Krishnamurti）
A Free Mind Has Humility
Have you ever gone into the question of psychological dependence? If you go into it very deeply, you will find that most of us are terribly lonely. Most of us have such shallow, empty minds. Most of us do not know what love means. So, out of that loneliness, out of that insufficiency, out of the privation of life, we are attached to something, attached to the family; we depend upon it. And when the wife or the husband turns away from us, we are jealous. Jealousy is not love; but the love which society acknowledges in the family is made respectable. That is another form of defense, another form of escape from ourselves. So every form of resistance breeds dependence. And a mind that is dependent can never be free.
You need to be free, because you will see that a mind that is free has the essence of humility. Such a mind, which is free and therefore has humility, can learn—not a mind that resists. Learning is an extraordinary thing—to learn, not to accumulate knowledge. Accumulating knowledge is quite a different thing. What we call knowledge is comparatively easy, because that is a movement from the known to the known. But to learn is a movement from the known to the unknown—you learn only like that, do you not?
MARCH 1?
