第一組
1. 如果可以在世界上所有人中任意選擇，你想邀請誰共進晚餐乱顾？
2. 你想成名嗎板祝？想以什么方式成名？
3. 打電話之前你會先排練一下要說什么嗎走净，為什么券时？
4. 對你來說孤里，“完美”的一天是什么樣的？
5. 你上次自己唱起歌來是在什么時候橘洞，給別人唱呢捌袜？
6. 如果你能活到90歲，同時可以一直保持30歲時的心智或身體炸枣，你會選擇保持哪一種呢虏等，心智還是身體？
7. 你是否曾經秘密地預感到自己會以怎樣的方式死去适肠？
8. 說出三件你和你的伴侶看上去相同的特征霍衫。
9. 人生中的什么東西最令你感激？
10. 如果你能改變被撫養(yǎng)成人過程中的一件事侯养，會是哪一件敦跌。
11. 花四分鐘時間，盡可能詳細告訴伴侶你的人生經歷沸毁。
12.如果你明天一覺醒來就能擁有某種才能或能力峰髓，你希望那會是什么能力呢傻寂？
第二組
13. 如果有一個水晶球可以告訴你關于自己息尺、人生，未來乃至任何事情的真相疾掰，你會想知道嗎搂誉？
14. 有沒有什么事是你一直夢想去做而沒有去做的，為什么沒有做静檬？
15. 你人生中最大的成就是什么炭懊？
16. 在一段友誼之中你最珍視的是什么？
17. 你最寶貴的記憶是什么拂檩？
18. 你最糟糕的記憶是什么侮腹？
19. 假如你知道自己在一年內就會突然死去，你會改變現(xiàn)在的生活方式嗎稻励？為什么父阻？
20. 友誼對于你來說意味著什么？
21. 愛與情感在你生活中扮演著什么樣的角色望抽？
22. 和你的伴侶輪流說出心目中對方的一個好品質加矛，每人說五條。
23. 你的家人之間關系是否親密而溫暖煤篙，你覺得自己的童年比其他人更快樂嗎斟览？
24. 你和母親之間的關系是怎樣的？
第三組
25. 每人用“我們”造三個句子辑奈，并含有實際情況苛茂，比如“我們倆在屋子里已烤，感覺……”
26. 補完這個句子：“我希望和某人在一起，分享……”
27. 如果你想和對方成為親近的朋友妓羊，請告訴對方有什么重要的事情是他或她需要知道的草戈。
28. 告訴對方你喜歡他或她身上的什么東西，要非常誠實侍瑟，說些你不會對萍水之交說的東西唐片。
29. 和對方分享生命中那些尷尬的時刻。
30. 你上次在別人面前哭是什么時候涨颜？自己哭呢费韭？
31. 告訴對方，你已經喜歡上了他或她身上的什么品質庭瑰。
32. 你覺得什么東西是嚴肅到不能開玩笑的星持，假如有的話。
33. 如果你今晚就將死去弹灭，而且沒有機會同任何人聯(lián)絡督暂，你會因為之前沒有對別人說什么話而感到遺憾，你為什么到現(xiàn)在都沒有對他們說這些話呢穷吮？
34. 假設你擁有的全部東西都在你的房子里逻翁，現(xiàn)在房子著了火，救出家人和寵物之后捡鱼，你還有機會安全地沖進去最后一次八回，取出最后一件東西，你會拿什么驾诈，為什么缠诅？
35. 你的家人中，誰去世了會令你最難過乍迄，為什么管引？
36. 說出一件你的個人問題，問對方如果遇到此事要如何解決闯两。另外褥伴，也要讓對方如實告訴你，在他或她眼中生蚁，你對于這個問題的感受是怎樣的噩翠。
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
Set II
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
Set III
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
