As part of the self-esteem movement in the 1970s, parents were often told to give their children positive feedback along the lines of “Great job” or “You’re so smart.” But, as leading researcher Wendy S. Grolnick puts it, praise also has a dark side.
作為二十世紀(jì)七十年代自尊心運(yùn)動(dòng)的一部分孵奶,家長(zhǎng)經(jīng)常被告知給予孩子們積極的評(píng)價(jià)反饋。例如做的漂亮,你太聰明了猪杭!但是,正如主創(chuàng)調(diào)研員Wendy S.? Grolnick所說,獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)同時(shí)也有缺點(diǎn)乐疆。
20世紀(jì)70年代的“自尊運(yùn)動(dòng)”中,父母經(jīng)常被告知贬养,要給孩子類似于“真棒”或者“真聰明”這樣的正面反饋挤土。但正如知名研究者溫迪·S.格羅尼克所說,贊揚(yáng)也有副作用误算。
In the self esteem movement in the 1970s, parents are always told to give positive feedbacks to their children such as good job or you are so smart! But as a leading researcher says it has its side effects.