If you believe the people you are trying to persude are doltish or intellectually dishonest, you are bound to betray that belief, if not directly then indirectly in your tone or choice of words. Moreover, they will generally sense your disparaging view of them and feel hurt or resentful,hardly kind of reaction that will make them open to persuasion.
如果你相信你試圖說(shuō)服的人是愚蠢的或智力上不誠(chéng)實(shí)的阅爽，你肯定會(huì)背叛這種信念蟆湖，即使不是直接撇叁，也會(huì)在你的語(yǔ)氣或措辭上間接的背叛這種信念。此外，他們通常會(huì)感覺(jué)到你對(duì)他們的鄙視，感覺(jué)受到傷害或憤恨菇肃，這種反應(yīng)很難讓他們接受說(shuō)服。
A caution is in order here:Don't feel you need to state your respect for your audience. Such statements have a way of sounding insincere.Work on acting respectfully. If you can accomplish that, there will be no need to state it. It will show.
這里需要注意的是：不要覺(jué)得你需要表達(dá)對(duì)聽(tīng)眾的尊重取募。 這種聲明聽(tīng)起來(lái)不真誠(chéng)琐谤。 做事要恭敬。 如果你能做到這一點(diǎn)玩敏，就沒(méi)有必要說(shuō)了斗忌，它會(huì)展示质礼。
