我曾經(jīng)七次鄙視自己的靈魂——1．它本可進(jìn)取灿椅，卻故作謙卑；2．它空虛時(shí)钞支，用愛(ài)欲來(lái)填充茫蛹；3．困難和容易之間，它選擇容易烁挟；4．它犯錯(cuò)婴洼，卻借由別人來(lái)寬慰自己；5．它自由軟弱撼嗓，卻認(rèn)為是生命的堅(jiān)韌柬采；6．它鄙夷一張丑惡的嘴臉，卻不知那是自己面具中的一副且警；7．它在生活污泥中粉捻，雖不甘心，卻又畏首畏尾振湾。
Contemptible Soul: faking humility where it should be aggressive; seeking sensual pleasures when empty; slipping into the easy in face of the difficult; self-comforting when erroneous; labeling weakness as tenacity of life in self-deceit; yielding, though unwillingly, to the muddy life.
穿過(guò)幽暗的歲月杀迹，也曾感到彷徨，當(dāng)你低頭的瞬間押搪，才發(fā)覺(jué)腳下的路树酪。（許巍——《藍(lán)蓮花》）
Walking through the dark days / wavering to and from / That moment you look down to your feet / You see the road underneath
幸福，是用來(lái)感覺(jué)的大州，而不是用來(lái)比較的续语。生活，是用來(lái)經(jīng)營(yíng)的厦画，而不是用來(lái)計(jì)較的疮茄。感情，是用來(lái)維系的根暑，而不是用來(lái)考驗(yàn)的力试。愛(ài)人，是用來(lái)疼愛(ài)的排嫌，而不是用來(lái)傷害的畸裳。金錢，是用來(lái)付出的淳地，而不是用來(lái)衡量的怖糊。 謊言帅容，是用來(lái)?yè)羝频模皇怯脕?lái)粉飾的伍伤。信任并徘，是用來(lái)沉淀的，而不是用來(lái)挑戰(zhàn)的扰魂。
Happiness is to be felt, not to be compared; life is to be lived, not to be bargained; love is to tie, not to test; sweetheart is to be loved, not to be hurt; money is to pay, not to measure; lie is to be disclosed, not to gloss; trust is to deposit, not to be challenged.
我將在茫茫人海中尋訪我唯一之靈魂伴侶麦乞。得之，我幸阅爽；不得路幸，我命。(徐志摩)
I will be in constant search for my soulmate in the endless sea of crowd. Fortune favors me if I could find her and destiny plays its part if I couldn't.
懂得選擇付翁，學(xué)會(huì)放棄简肴，耐得住寂寞，經(jīng)得起誘惑百侧。
Learn to choose, to forsake, to endure loneliness, to resist temptation.
知音砰识，能有一兩個(gè)已經(jīng)很好了，實(shí)在不必太多佣渴。朋友之樂(lè)辫狼，貴在那份踏實(shí)的信賴。(三毛)
It’s delightful to have just one or two bosom friends in life. The delight lies in the mutual trust which makes you feel secure.
《教父》經(jīng)典臺(tái)詞：1辛润、不要讓別人知道你的想法膨处。2、當(dāng)你說(shuō)“不”時(shí),你要使“不”聽上去象“是”一樣好聽砂竖。3.讓朋友低估你的優(yōu)點(diǎn)真椿，讓敵人高估你的缺點(diǎn)。4乎澄、痛苦不象死亡那樣無(wú)可挽回突硝！5、永遠(yuǎn)不要恨你的敵人置济，因?yàn)檫@會(huì)影響你的判斷力解恰。6、如果你沒(méi)有時(shí)間和家人在一起浙于，你就永遠(yuǎn)無(wú)法成為真正的男人护盈。
Never tell anybody outside the family what you're thinking. // A friend should always underestimate your virtues and an enemy overestimate your faults. // Never hate your enemies. It clouds your judgment. // A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man.
生活不能等待別人來(lái)安排, 要自已去爭(zhēng)取和奮斗;而不論其結(jié)果是喜是悲,但可以慰藉的是,你總不枉在這世界上活了一場(chǎng)。(路遙《平凡的世界》)
Life is not to wait, but to strive and achieve. Whatever the result, favorable or unfavorable, it’s comforting that you have lived a life of your own.
最好不相見羞酗，免我常相戀腐宋。最好不相知，免我常相思。（倉(cāng)央嘉措）
It is best not to see, then there is no chance to fall in love; it is best not to become intimate, then I will not be forlorn when I miss.
愛(ài)情的根本愿望是：在陌生的人山人海中尋找一種自由的盟約脏款。（史鐵生《務(wù)虛筆記》）
The fundamental desire within love is to seek a oath of alliance for liberty in a sea of strangers.
別和小人過(guò)不去，因?yàn)樗緛?lái)就過(guò)不去裤园；別和社會(huì)過(guò)不去撤师，因?yàn)槟銜?huì)過(guò)不去；別和自己過(guò)不去拧揽，因?yàn)橐磺卸紩?huì)過(guò)去剃盾；別和往事過(guò)不去，因?yàn)樗呀?jīng)過(guò)去淤袜；別和現(xiàn)實(shí)過(guò)不去痒谴，因?yàn)槟氵€要過(guò)下去。铡羡。积蔚。
Don't mess with the treacherous for they mess with everyone; don't mess with the society, or you will mess with yourself; don’t mess with yourself for all the mess will pass; don’t mess with the past for what is past is past; don't mess with reality for it's your life for real.
不管你的生活多么卑微，面對(duì)它烦周，把生活進(jìn)行下去尽爆，不逃避，不咒罵读慎，生活還不如你壞哩漱贱，你最富有的時(shí)候，它反而最貧瘠夭委。（梭羅）
However mean your life is, meet it and live it; do not shun it and call it hard names. It is not so bad as you are. It looks poorest when you are richest.
不是一切火焰只燃燒自己而不把別人照亮;不是一切星星僅指示黑暗而不報(bào)告曙光;不是一切歌聲只掠過(guò)耳旁而不留在心上
Not every flame is to destroy but not enlighten; not every star is to signal darkness but not welcome daylight; not every song is to waft past ears but not imprint on heart.
所有的悲傷幅狮，總會(huì)留下一絲歡樂(lè)的線索。所有的遺憾株灸，總會(huì)留下一處完美的角落崇摄。我在冰封的深海，找尋希望的缺口蚂且。卻在午夜驚醒時(shí)配猫，驀然瞥見絕美的月光。(幾米)
Sorrow leaves a trace for joy and regret carves a corner for perfection. I, in the depths of frozen sea, seek hope to the end of tunnel, but only to catch a glimpse of beautiful moonlight when starting awake at midnight.
每個(gè)人的心里杏死，有多么長(zhǎng)的一個(gè)清單泵肄，這些清單里寫著多少美好的事，可是淑翼，它們總是被推遲腐巢，被擱置，在時(shí)間的閣樓上腐爛玄括。為什么勇氣的問(wèn)題總是被誤以為是時(shí)間的問(wèn)題冯丙，而那些沉重、抑郁的、不得已的胃惜，總是被叫做生活本身泞莉。（劉瑜）
In every heart hides a long list with so many beautiful things to fulfill, which are then postponed, suspended, rotten in the attic of time. What is actually a matter of courage is labeled as a matter of time but the ponderous, the depressing, the unfulfillable as life itself.
黑夜給了我黑色的眼睛，我卻用它尋找光明船殉。（顧城）
Black night endows me with black eyes, / which yet empowers me to seek light.
在一回首間鲫趁，才忽然發(fā)現(xiàn)，原來(lái)利虫，我一生的種種努力挨厚，不過(guò)只為了周遭的人對(duì)我滿意而已。為了博得他人的稱許與微笑糠惫，我戰(zhàn)戰(zhàn)兢兢地將自己套入所有的模式所有的桎梏疫剃。走到途中才忽然發(fā)現(xiàn)，我只剩下一副模糊的面目硼讽，和一條不能回頭的路巢价。(席慕容《獨(dú)白》)
Looking back, I realize all my efforts on the way are to please those around me. To win their praising smiles, I, in trembling fear, chain myself into acceptable modes of living. Now, in the midway of life, I find myself left with vague features in a way never to be trodden backward.
不是每一次努力都會(huì)有收獲，但是固阁，每一次收獲都必須努力蹄溉，這是一個(gè)不公平的不可逆轉(zhuǎn)的命題。（張愛(ài)玲）
It is an unfair yet irreversible truth that not every effort is rewarded yet every reward requires effort.
北島：卑鄙是卑鄙者的通行證您炉，高尚是高尚者的墓志銘
Baseness is the passport of the base; nobility is the epitaph of the noble.
虛名浮譽(yù)是流轉(zhuǎn)人間最無(wú)用的假金幣柒爵，但是多少人都是心甘情愿地用健康、休息和生命跟它們交換赚爵。（蒙田）
Fame in all its vanity is the most valueless fake currency in the world, yet so many of us are willing to sacrifice our health, rest and life for it.
做人凡事要靜棉胀，靜靜來(lái)，靜靜去冀膝，靜靜努力唁奢，靜靜收獲，切忌喧嘩（亦舒）
You should carry yourself quietly in everything, making your appearance quietly and retiring from the stage quietly, taking pains quietly and making gains quietly. Hype noise in anything is unnecessary.
所謂父母窝剖，就是那不斷對(duì)著背影既欣喜又悲傷麻掸，想追回?fù)肀в植桓衣晱埖娜恕?龍應(yīng)臺(tái))
Parents are those who rejoice in sorrow at the sight of the child's back, who yearn to call him back for a hug yet restrain themselves from doing it.
老頭子戀愛(ài)聽說(shuō)像老房子著了火，燒起來(lái)沒(méi)有救的赐纱。（錢鐘書《圍城》）
An old man's love was said to be like an old house set ablaze. Once it started burning, there was no saving it.
鐫刻在你身上的憂傷愈深脊奋，你能容納的歡樂(lè)愈多。（紀(jì)伯倫）
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.
把回想留給未來(lái)吧疙描。就像把夢(mèng)留給海诚隙，把風(fēng)留給夜海上的帆。（顧城）
Reflection is for the future, just as dream is for the sea and wind is for the sail on the night ocean.
好學(xué)近乎知起胰，力行近乎仁久又，知恥近乎勇。
To be fond of learning is akin to knowledge. To practice with vigor is akin to benevolence. To possess the feeling of shame is akin to courage. （Confucius）
我對(duì)自己要求很低:我活在世上,無(wú)非要明白些道理,遇見些有趣的事。倘能如愿,一生就算成功(王小波)
I don't demand too much of myself: life is little more than figuring out a few philosophies and coming across something interesting. If that desire is fulfilled, my life will be a triumph.
死生契闊地消，與子成說(shuō)炉峰。執(zhí)子之手，與子偕老脉执。
（Alive or dead, far or near, I make my word to you: I'll hold your hand till together we grow old.)
你的生命有限讲冠，不要為仿效他人而浪費(fèi)時(shí)間。不要為教條所束縛适瓦。不要讓他人的想法左右你內(nèi)心的聲音。(喬布斯)
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice.(Jobs)
幸福四要素（羅素）：健康的身體谱仪、避免陷入貧困的收入玻熙、愉快的人際關(guān)系、成功的工作疯攒。
Four ingredients of happiness (Bertrand Russell) : the first is health; the second, sufficient means to keep you from want; third, happy personal relations; and fourth, successful work.
我欲與君相知, 長(zhǎng)命無(wú)絕衰嗦随。山無(wú)陵, 江水為竭, 冬雷震震, 夏雨雪, 天地合, 乃敢與君絕。
I shall love you to the end of time! Till mountains crumble, streams run dry, thunder rumbles in winter, snow falls in summer, and the earth mingles with the sky--not till then will I cease to love you!
