情境二十九：愛上敵人
要素
被愛者钧栖，也是敵人
施愛者
懷恨者
概要
一人愛上敵人，其情人怨恨他/她的背叛拯杠。
變體
A
1. 某人（男）的親人憎恨他的愛人
2. 某人（男）被愛人的兄弟追趕
3. 某人（男）被愛人的親人憎恨
4. 某人（男）的父親被愛人的親人憎恨
5. 某人（女）愛上其所在政黨的敵人
B
1. 某人（男）殺害了愛人的父親
2. 某人（男）之父被愛人所殺
3. 某人（男）兄弟被愛人所殺
4. 某人的丈夫被愛人所殺潭陪，她先前曾發(fā)誓為夫復(fù)仇，卻愛上兇手
5. 某人的前任被愛人所殺依溯，她先前曾發(fā)誓為前任復(fù)仇，卻愛上兇手
6. 某人（女）的親屬被其愛人所殺
7. 某人（女）之父殺害了愛人的父親
（為便于理解枝秤，上述“某人”都是指愛情中主動(dòng)的一方拜隧，即“施愛者”洪添，“愛人”即“被愛者”）
我們有時(shí)無法選擇自己愛的人雀费，那些我們與之對(duì)抗的人，或者那些曾對(duì)我們犯過可怕錯(cuò)誤的人盏袄，都有可能對(duì)我們產(chǎn)生難以置信的吸引力。
其中一個(gè)原因是逛尚，有權(quán)勢(shì)的人通常會(huì)很有吸引力刁愿，也許他們讓我們想起了父親，或者我們也想有權(quán)勢(shì)滤钱，所以想和他們交往脑题，即使他們?cè)钌顐ξ覀儭＿@甚至可追溯到童年時(shí)代他炊，可能那時(shí)我們希望得到嚴(yán)厲的父親的愛，或者擁有愛以對(duì)抗他的暴力秒梅。
與童年情景的緊密關(guān)聯(lián)使得該情境不知不覺中觸動(dòng)了我們的心弦舌胶，以意想不到的方式打動(dòng)了我們幔嫂。
在此情境中，懷恨者面臨著一個(gè)困境履恩。他們應(yīng)該和施愛者站在同一戰(zhàn)線上，即使施愛者好像并沒有如此切心。施愛者到底是敵人還是朋友？這使人迷惑不清协屡，施愛者同情敵人全谤，或者敵人導(dǎo)致這一切。
An enemy loved
Description
Elements
The Beloved Enemy
The Lover
The Hater
Summary
The Lover loves the Beloved Enemy. The Hater hates the Lover for this betrayal.
Variants
A
1. The loved one hated by kinsmen of the lover
2. The lover pursued by the brothers of his beloved
3. The lover hated by the family of his beloved
4 .The lover is a son of a man hated by the kinsmen of his beloved
5. The lover is an enemy of the party of the woman who loves him
B
1. The lover is the slayer of the father of his beloved
2. The beloved is the slayer of the father of her lover
3. The beloved is the slayer of the brother of her lover
4. The beloved is the slayer of the husband of the woman who loves him, but who has previously sworn to avenge that husband
5. The beloved is the slayer of a previous lover of the woman who loves him, but who has previously sworn to avenge the dead lover
6. The beloved is a slayer of a kinsman of the woman who loves him
7. The beloved is the daughter of the slayer of her lover's father
Discussion
We cannot always choose who we love and even those against whom we fight or those who have done us a terrible wrong can become unbelievably attractive for us.
One cause of this is that we often find powerful people attractive, perhaps because they remind us of our fathers or perhaps because we would like to be powerful too, and so seek to associate with them, even when they have done us a deep wrong. This also harks to childhood, where we may have sought to gain the love of a stern father or perhaps offered love as a succour against his terrible power.
This deep association with childhood emotions makes such situations touch unknown chords in us that lets such story elements move us in unexpected ways.
The Hater in this situation has a difficult dilemma. They are supposed to be on the same side as the Lover, yet the Lover is not acting as if they are on the same side. Is the Lover an enemy or a friend? It can be rather unclear as the Lover sympathizes with the Enemy and possibly the Enemy's cause.
