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?我想說:“其實退疫,每一個人都會有一個念頭,就是對模一件事情久了就會感到厭倦或疲憊勾哩,就會很想放棄它抗蠢。(I would like to say: “In fact, everyone will have an idea. That is, face a thing for a long time will be tired or bored, would feel want to give up.)
不管是在事業(yè),感情或生活上的某種事情思劳,都會有一種沖動的感覺很想要放棄迅矛。這是對每一個人的正常心里反應(yīng) (Whether it is in the job, feelings or something in life, there will be a feeling of impulse want to give up. This is a normal psychological reaction to each individual) ”
不過在你放棄之前,先問問自己這 6 個問題:(But before that ask yourself why you want to give up? )
放棄永遠比堅持還要容易潜叛,放棄只需要一天的時間 (Give up is always easily than insist, giving up can takes only a day time)
堅持切可能要數(shù)年之久
(Insist may take several years)
放棄很容易秽褒,堅持很困難
(It 's easy to give up and stick hard)
這也是為什么能夠成功的人永遠是少數(shù)的那些人。
(This is why those who can succeed will always be the few)
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在你放棄之前威兜,試著跟自己的內(nèi)心對話
(Before give up, try to ask yourself)
找出對自己最好的一個決定销斟。
(Find the best decision for yourself)
趕緊來看看吧...(Take A Look)
1、你堅持的夠久嗎?
(How long you insist)
只要堅持走得夠久椒舵,我們就能夠達到別人沒有達到的地方票堵,走出別人沒有走出的距離。
(As long as we Insist on long enough, we will be able to reach other people did not reach the place)
無論是什么事情逮栅,在你放棄之前悴势,都應(yīng)該想想自己堅持得夠久了嗎? 或許你才撐了幾天、幾個禮拜措伐、幾個月而已特纤,又或許是你需要有更多的付出才會有好結(jié)果。
( No matter what, before you give up, you should think about their own persistence enough? Perhaps you only hold a few days,a few weeks, or a few months only. Maybe you need to pay out more there will be good results)
在你堅持得夠久以前侥加,別輕易放棄捧存,除非你確認這條路不是你自己想要走的路。
(At least the way is not you want)
?2、放棄這件事會讓你后悔嗎?
(Give up it will make you regrets?)
人臨終最后悔的五件事
(People regrets the most last five things)
1) 我希望當初~有勇氣過自己真正想要的生活
(I hope I have the courage to live their own real life)
2) 我希望當初~我沒有花這么多精力在工作上
(I hope I did not spend so much energy on work)
3) 我希望當初~我能有勇氣表達我的感受
(I hope I can have the courage to express my feelings)
4) 我希望當初~我能和朋友保持聯(lián)系
(I hope I Keep in touch with any friends or relationship)
5) 我希望當初~我能讓自己活過開心點無遺憾
(I hope I can live happily without any regrets)
放棄很容易昔穴,只要雙手一攤镰官,大聲告訴自己:
「我累了,不做了」
( I'm tired, I don't want to do it)
你身上的重擔就會頓時卸去吗货,但…..這樣真的好嗎? 可以維持多久泳唠?
問問自己:「放棄這件事會讓你后悔嗎?」
(Ask Yourself: Will you regret it if you give up? )
會讓你臨終前對于自己在這件事情上,因為沒有堅持下去感到后悔嗎宙搬?
3笨腥、如果放棄了,你會開心嗎? (Do you feel happy when you give up勇垛?)
說到底脖母,如果你放棄了,真正讓你放棄的是你自己闲孤,而不是別人谆级。
問問自己:「放棄這件事,會讓你自己感到開心嗎讼积?」
(Ask Yourself: Give up this thing, It's will make you happy?)
如果答案是否定的. 代表你是真心喜歡眼前這件事
( If Answer No , That's mean you are really like in front of this matter)
那么繼續(xù)堅持下去或許才是最好的選擇哨苛。
(Then continue to stick to it maybe is a best good choice)
4、你嘗試過所有的方法了嗎? (Have you tried all the way?)
一個肯嘗試錯誤的人生币砂,不但比無所事事的人生更榮耀,并且更有意義玻侥。
(People are willing to try the wrong life, better than doing nothing. It will more glory, and more meaningful.)
許多人想放棄的原因决摧,不是因為他走錯了路,而是因為遲遲沒有好的結(jié)果凑兰,所以感到身心疲憊以及失去信心掌桩。
(Many people want to give up, not because he is the wrong way, but because there is no good results, so feel physically and mentally exhausted and lose confidence)
此時,應(yīng)該問問自己:「是否用錯了方法?」
(This time, need to ask yourself: It's wrong method I used?)
嘗試用相同的方法姑食,切想得到不一樣的結(jié)果波岛,
這種事永遠也不可能發(fā)生,或許你該做的不是放棄音半,
而是換另外一種方法嘗嘗看看则拷。
(Try to use the same method, think to get different results,this kind of thing will never happen, maybe you should do is not to give up, but for another way or method to try out.)
5、你放棄的這件事是你喜歡的嗎?(You give up this thing is your favorite?)
如果你對喜歡的事情永不放棄曹鸠、持續(xù)下去煌茬,那你就有可能實現(xiàn)夢想或是找到另一個不錯的可能。
(If you never ever give up on the things you like, then you are likely to realize the dream or find out another good possibility.)
去做你真正喜歡做的事彻桃,然后把它做好坛善,這就是一種成功,如果你不喜歡某件事,那么最好的方式就是不要投入眠屎。
(Do what you really like to do, and then do it well, this is a success, if you do not like something, then the best way is not to put into)
問問自己:「是否真的喜歡眼前這件事?」( Ask Yourself: Did you really like your in front of thing?)
如果是剔交,那么就應(yīng)該持續(xù)堅持下去。
(If yes , just continue to do it)
6改衩、放棄以后岖常,你打算做什么?(After giving Up, what are you going to do?)
會想放棄一定有原因,但如果是因為過程太過困難燎字,或許就不是一個好的理由
(Will want to give up sure Hhave some reason, but if it is because the process is too difficult or hard, perhaps this is not a good reason)
問問自己:「放棄以后腥椒,打算做什么?」
(Ask Yourself: After giving up, next what should i going to do? )
如果決定去做其他的事情,那件事會比眼前這件事更好嗎?
(If you decide to do other things, it's that thing will be better than the present thing?)
在放棄之前候衍,記得想好下一步該怎么走笼蛛。
(Before giving up, remember how to take the next step)
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?別輕易放棄,在放棄之前...
(Do not give up , before giving up)
請做每一件事情蛉鹿,先三思而后行
(Please Think Twice Before Make Any Decisions)
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