I had always been regarding myself as an excellent student. I got a 7 (9 maximum) in IELTS (stands for International English Language Testing System) at the first year of high school, and almost 100% in all science subjects I was studying. I even once mocked at a student who was sent to Fudan University. I can clearly remember what I said at that time:“Fudan University? I would not? go there even if you gave me a hundred thousand RMB.”
That idea did not fade away until I downloaded a software called“I get”. I found dozens of fabulous columns such as“The way to financial freedom”and “Five-minute business school”there. I was shocked by the quality of both passages that the author wrote and comments that members left. Then I realized, there was no way for me to write as good as they did.They really had thoughts that were insightful and impressive.
At the point that I realized my so-called excellence was nothing but a lie, my self-esteem was severely stricken. Nonetheless, it was also at the time, I found the simplest definition of“growing up”----refresh the way your brain thinks, change the way your body acts.
A whole lifetime can be shrunk into seven years. During this period, I would like to keep refreshing and changing. Fortunately, I do not? have to go through this all by myself.? I have got you----my supervisors, my mentors, my friends.
There is still a long, long way to go. Let us do it together. Hand in hand, shoulder by shoulder.
Lionel Shao Boyuan
2017/8/24
000發(fā)刊詞----請與我共同成長七年
我曾一度認(rèn)為自己是一個(gè)非常優(yōu)秀的學(xué)生请毛。高中的第一年写烤,我就考出了雅思7分(滿分9分)的成績,并且所有的理科學(xué)科成績都幾乎是滿分抚恒。我曾經(jīng)甚至嘲笑過一個(gè)被保送到復(fù)旦大學(xué)的學(xué)生尽纽。我至今仍能清晰地記起我當(dāng)時(shí)說的話:“復(fù)旦大學(xué)畅蹂?給我十萬塊錢我都不去⊙#”
但當(dāng)我開始使用一款名為“得到”的軟件之后火惊,我的這個(gè)想法就煙消云散了。在這個(gè)軟件中奔垦,我看到了許多太過精彩的專欄屹耐,例如“通往財(cái)富自由之路”和“五分鐘商學(xué)院”。無論是專欄文章的質(zhì)量椿猎,還是專欄中留言的質(zhì)量惶岭,都使我感到很震撼。隨后我意識到,我比他們差遠(yuǎn)了。我寫不出那種又有深度眶拉、又有說服力的東西。
當(dāng)我意識到我所謂的“優(yōu)秀”其實(shí)是一個(gè)謊言的時(shí)候鸯旁,我的自尊心受到了嚴(yán)重的打擊噪矛。但是,也就是在那個(gè)時(shí)候铺罢,我體會到了“成長”真正的含義:刷新認(rèn)知艇挨,改變行為。
七年就是一輩子韭赘。在這段時(shí)間里缩滨,我會一直堅(jiān)持刷新,堅(jiān)持改變泉瞻。幸運(yùn)的是脉漏,我并不孤單。我有你們的陪伴—我的監(jiān)督者們瓦灶,我的老師們鸠删,我的朋友們抱完。
路還長著呢贼陶,一塊兒走唄。讓我們手牽手巧娱,肩并肩碉怔。
邵伯遠(yuǎn)
于2017年8月24日