A hates B ,and C is a part of group of A and B.Of course,there are X,Y,Z. So by judging B as not good, A shows he has “hate” in his heart. But maybe if C feels B is good, then C has “good” in his heart.So we shouldn’t judge someone by how we feel about them. Maybe they are not really bad/good. They just are some ways, and neither bad nor good.
Let’s consider an arbitrary group of people. Say 10 people. So, if A likes B, C, and D, but not E.And is indifferent towards the other 5 he will have a +1 love rating. So the more people he loves, the happier he will be. And the more he hates, the more miserable he will be.
The world is full of the pain and diasters.Anything could happened.If you wanna make the world better,our individual person should think about ourselves how to be better first. We can make ourselves better by changing our attitude. It is known in many religions, and sciences, that happiness is largely mental. So, if we can change the way we think we will be happier. For example if it is very hot outside and I feel miserable and sweaty, and I am waiting for my friend who is not coming I should be angry. However if I am in the correct state of mind I may not notice the hot weather or be angry at my friend. Maybe instead I notice some pretty girls with short skirts, or maybe you use your imaginiation if there are none around. What I mean is what you don't experence positively you will end up experiencing negatively.
Is good for you to hear the saddness?Observe the bad thing?How do you feel?You will remember it and having more “sad” than before..Just like A had one more “Hate” because of B.So,everybody should aviod the bad thing which make us sad.We can just leave it to the god,even though we don’t believe it.The more we should do is spreading the happiness around you.Why not observe the happiness first?Or how we can help others and ourselves?
I am thinking to build a grows-up park around me. I want to build it beacause it brings happiness to me and others. There is just happiness inside the park. And I am trying to lead them into my place that is familiar to me. By doing this, I will be able to share with the world my experiences and what makes me happy. The more happier I gain ,the more chances to spread happiness to others.
Did you understand ?So welcome to share!!!
