第一篇 了解憂(yōu)慮的基本事實(shí)
Bnsinessmen who do not know how to fight worry die young.
?不知道抗拒憂(yōu)慮的商人,會(huì)短命而死。
第二篇 分析憂(yōu)慮的基本技巧
4. 解決憂(yōu)慮
Here is:
Question NO.1-What am I worrying about余境?
NO.2 What can i do about it著淆?
NO.3 Here is what i am going to do about it馋艺?
NO.4 When am i going to start doing it侧纯?
第一個(gè)問(wèn)題-我擔(dān)憂(yōu)什么勃救?
第二個(gè)-我能做什么碍讨?
第三個(gè),我決定怎么做蒙秒?
第四個(gè)勃黍,我什么時(shí)候開(kāi)始做?
第三篇 如何改變憂(yōu)慮的習(xí)慣
Rule 1:
Keep busy. The worried person must lose himself in action, lest be wither in despair.
保持忙碌晕讲。憂(yōu)慮的人一定要讓自己沉浸在工作中覆获,否則會(huì)在絕望中掙扎。
Rule 2:
Let's not allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget.
Remember"Life is too short to be little."
不要讓自己因?yàn)橐恍?yīng)該拋棄和忘記的小事而憂(yōu)慮瓢省。
要記着ⅰ:"生命如此短暫,不要為小事而憂(yōu)慮净捅。"
Rule 3:
"Let's examine the record." Let's ask ourselves:"What are the chances, according to the law ?of averages, that this event i am worrying about will ever occur疑枯?"
"讓我們看看記錄,讓我們根據(jù)平均概率問(wèn)問(wèn)自己蛔六,現(xiàn)在擔(dān)心會(huì)發(fā)生的事情荆永,發(fā)生的機(jī)會(huì)是多少废亭?"
Rule 4 is:
Cooperate with the inevitable.
接受不可避免的事實(shí)。
Rule 6 :
Don't try to saw sawdust.
不要試著去鋸木屑具钥。
第四篇 培養(yǎng)平安快樂(lè)的心理
Rule 1:
Think and act cheerfully,and you will feel cheerful.
有了快樂(lè)的思想和行為豆村,你就會(huì)感受到快樂(lè)。
Rule 2:
Let's never try to get even
with our enemies,because if we do we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them.
我們永遠(yuǎn)不要去試圖報(bào)復(fù)我們的仇敵骂删,如果我們那樣去做的話掌动,我們對(duì)自己的傷害將會(huì)甚于對(duì)敵人的傷害。
Rule 3:
If you do this, you will never worry about ingratitude.
對(duì)人施恩勿望回報(bào)宁玫。
Rule 4:
Count your blessings--not your troubles!
想想你得到的恩惠--而不要理會(huì)你的煩惱粗恢。
Rule 5:
Let's not imitate others. Let's
find ourselves and be ourselves.
不要模仿別人。讓我們找到自我欧瘪,保持本色眷射。
Rule 6:
When fate hands us a lemon ,
let's try to make a lemonade.
當(dāng)命運(yùn)給我們一個(gè)檸檬時(shí),我們要試著做一杯檸檬汁佛掖。
Rule 7:
Forget yourself by becoming interested in others. Do every day a good deed that will put a smile of joy on someone's face.
要對(duì)別人感興趣妖碉,忘掉你自己;每天做一件讓別人高興的事芥被。
第五篇 免受批評(píng)的憂(yōu)慮
Rule 1:
Remember that no one ever kicks a dead dog.
記住欧宜,從來(lái)沒(méi)有人會(huì)踢一只死狗。
Rule 2:
Do the very best yon can,and criticism can't hurt you.
凡事盡力而為拴魄,不要讓批評(píng)傷害你冗茸。
Rule 3:
Let's keep a record of the fool things we have done and criticise ourselves.
記下自己做過(guò)的傻事,批評(píng)自己羹铅。
Rule 1:
Rest ?before ?you ?get ?tired, and ?you ?will ?add ?one ?hour ?a ?day ?to ?your ?waking ?life.
在感覺(jué)疲勞之前休息蚀狰,然后你每天可以多清醒一個(gè)小時(shí)。
Rule 2:
You ?always ?begin ?to ?relax ?with ?your ?muscle.
應(yīng)該先放松你的肌肉职员。
(大衛(wèi)的《消除神經(jīng)緊張》)
如果不想為失眠憂(yōu)慮:
1.睡不著就工作或看書(shū),直到 ? 打瞌睡跛溉。
2.從來(lái)沒(méi)有人會(huì)因?yàn)槿狈λ叨篮盖小?dān)心失眠而憂(yōu)慮的傷害比失眠更厲害。
3.試著祈禱芳室。
4.放松全身专肪。
5.運(yùn)動(dòng)。